Hey guys, so currently me and my ex have decided to take space from each other for abt 1.5 months or so. We have decided that during this period we will assess whether we want each other or not and then if both agree then we will start from scratch again. However, there is also chance that she might consider another guy. I don't know if she is saying it genuinely or just to not give me any security and keep me on edge to decide and assess our future. I want advice whether would should I take this this current situation as breakup and then start focusing on myself and studies and if she comes back then we'll and good if she doesn't atleast i get our a better human nonethless. 

as in i should consider this as a breakup and focus on myself and studies and should improve myself and move on? 

Breakup

i am so much in love with a girl but she doesnt love me back! for me she is my world

Frustrated just want to feel something been to long just Want to express my needs. 

Adulting

My girlfriend and I broke up recently 2 weeks back. I want to get back with her since I feel she is the one for me. I don’t know where things went wrong but I feel there is still some chance that we can work it out. Any ideas on what I could do how do I approach this? How to win her back

Relationships

Good Afternoon World! 
I am trying to be as optimistic and motivated as possible but sometimes I slip because I think I still love my EX and I know she has moved on and does not give a damn about me. 
I thought I had moved on too, but seeing her so happy and living her life while I am in a state of unacceptance that She still loves me and is doing all of this for some twisted reason. I know I am wrong to think like this and that she has every right to move on and be happy with whoever she wants to be with. But sometimes I feel overwhelmed when I see her driving past without even looking my way. On the other hand, Its like I keep looking out for her. But when I see her my whole world comes crashing down and I feel so many emotions all at once. Then by late evening I go into this depressed state where I recall all the wonderful memories we created and the love we shared and how we could have worked. 
I feel like even though I know this is a relationship that would never work because of all our differences, there's a part of me that does not want to let her go and I JUST DON'T SEE SENSE IN THAT. Why am I being this way? Why can't  I just let her go and move on, live my own life... 
Do I really love her that much? 
Help me understand this mind because I cannot make sense of it. 

Anxiety. I'm a bit of confused and heartbroken. My gf went for a 2 day trip with colleague but when ever I ask she say no without asking. And den she say k nhi bolage wo log so nhi puchti. I know I don't take that much effort. Nd all stuff. What should I do?.

Confusion

So I m dating this Girl It has been 6 Months and i have been really upset since couple of days as many things are going on mentally with me. Today I told Her that i dont feel like going home and i Am not Talking to anyone at home And she replyed ok Dont go home soon
and i m like what kinda reply is this she didnt even said to me like are u okay I m here dnt worry nothing Like that and This Makes me sooo Confused

Hey guys, I hope you are doing well. So I have a really important doubt. I am 18y old and in 1st year of college. There is this girl who is very cute and sweet and before joining the college I always thought I will give her a try (she might be the one) and now I am very close to her. We do video calls every day, we sit together in College and many more, but don't be confused we are still not in a relationship and deep down in our mind we both want to come together but just one thing hinders us the most and that thing is- Not able to focus on our work and goals and dreams. I don't doubt her, she is amazing and very dedicated but when I see my other friends(who are in relationship) who were very active and had another level dreams are now just hanging around with the girls and just being able to manage the college grades only. I can see that they are very happy but deep down we all know that they are not focussing on the things they should be focusing on. I fear that if I go in relationship with this girl I might end up in the same situation. She always tells me take your time as a decision this big should not be taken in hurry. Most of the time when my friends ask why you 2 are not dating, she is like, I am toh always ready, your friend is the one dragging things which makes me realize she is ready for this but at the same time she also says it's okay I have to do many things and work on my goals so I think if I date her it might not be good for both of us but at the same time I think but it is good. 
In short I am confused, should I focus on short term gratification(just date my girl) or the long term goals or plans or should do both things simultaneously. 
P.s- we are both from middle class family so goals are important and we both are fallen for each other which is kinda important too.
I would really appreciate someone's opinion regarding this.

I cared about her so much. Loved her so much. Talked about her so much. But today, she just screamed at me, took her all frustration out on me when I was just still caring about her. 
I don't know what she wants but that's closeness is not felt anymore. I don't wanna even see her face right now because I am done. I can't keep on just holding on the stick where I don't have any of my personal value and worth. I don't want to be a laughing stock in my life. 

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