hey guys ... reaching out to all the lovely people out here....
so i am this girl who has her male best friends (2) of them.. and the situation here is that right now at this point of life ... one of them is in a relationship(name him A) and the other guy is single (name him B)
so here is the thing A and i share a very good friendship and what happened today was something out of the blue there was a fight between him and his girlfriend because of me ( i wonder how i land up in such situations )
and the other friend B has a lot of fan following everywhere and since i am his close friend .. people cant digest the fact and some of his female friends are super jealous of me LOL.. i mean 
so yeah i just wanted to share this somewhere.... so here i go.....


Friends

I used to text this guy..like fwb kinda thing..then i got a bad vibe..then i backed off frm meeting..now he texts me angrily that i used him ..how can i do this to him .he wants to me...how can handle this situation

3am Thoughts

It’s been 4 years of being in a relationship and since last one year we’re in long distance.
I’m completely in love with this person but now I feel that he’s getting irritated by me. He was so caring and honest buy now he keeps secrets and hide things. From the past 5 days I’m crying because we are having fights but he is just okay with this. He says do what ever you want to do
If you want to stay you can and if you want to leave that is also okay. I can’t leave him. I’m so attached that I’m scared that everything will end. I don’t want to lose him.

Lonely

My boyfriend took me to a shop (for the first time) ( on his request). I wasn't buying anything over there, because obviously it doesn't look nice to spend someone's money, he's not earning yet, so he kept insisting so I picked up an earphone set. He kept insisting pick more things up, he picked 2 more items himself and then we came back. A day later we got into an argument,  in which he unexpectedly said that 'you don't realise how much someone does for you, I only get a small amount of pocket money from home and that too I spend all of it on you. I'm not that rich.


I felt terrible 
I don't know why those things that he bought for me all of a sudden became meaningless for me. 


Just told my boyfriend I can’t see him anymore. I’m a guy. I thought I was pretty much over the guilt and shame, but it came attacking so bad again. Feeling a fair amount of grief combined with it. I feel trapped because I’d love to see him but the guilt and shame are extreme. I don’t have money for therapy and none of my friends and family support my decision, so I pretty much don’t have anyone to help me through this.

LGBTQ

So he's been callin' me and today I didn't get the call on time so I've called and now I'm regretin' I think should've wait for his call.. attachment sucks

Love

I am going on a date with my ex's friend 😹

Boyfriend

Hi. I've been in a long distance relationship since 3.5 years .and this year I went to meet him on my bday. But for some reason we argued and hit me with a wire on my birthday. What should I do??.He says he doesn't have any emotional attachments towards me and wants to focus on his career now. I keep begging him to spend some time with me but he's always busy. It's been 1.5 years since we went on a date . I feel depressed.


Self Esteem

I feel so neglected by my boyfriend sometimes. The only time when it is super intimate or affectionate is when he is trying to be sexual. HE will kind of hold my hand and kinda kiss, but he doesn't really give me that love and passion. Furthermore, I notice if I don't start a conversation to reach out to hold his hand or something, we will literally stay in silence and not touch each other. One last thing, I hope this doesn't sound clingy because I honestly don't think this is what it is, but I can't stand it when we are supposed to be spending time together and he just leaves. I will be at his house laying in bed waiting to watch our show and two hours later I will come to find out that he is just talking to his roommate. We go kayaking and I am paddling halfway across a bay I am unfamiliar with and then I look around and he isn't there, I find him and he is sitting in his kayak listening to music telling me it was hard to paddle ( I told him he could have told me he was going to take a break, but he brushed it off). I am at his home for Thanksgiving, I walked into his room so we could chill on the bed together, he got up and was talking to his family at first now he is just watching tv and hasn't said a word really to me in the past 5 hours. Is there something wrong here?

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