Its been a while since i was last here because i was trying to mend an old relation with someone special but after a lot of trying and lot of fights , still we are figuring things out.
We had a fight recently, a really big one and i am confused after that so i want to ask you guys something.
Is it normal to feel disconnected after a fight like no urge to talk to that person at all. That person is reaching out and apologising but i still dont feel like talking and unbothered, disinterested. And i am feeling bad for all these feeling.
I often face this issue and stop talking with them
I don’t have any other option 😔
You decide it yourself that do you want that person in your life or not? Do you think that actions are worthy for apology or not .
Its just i am not able to overcome the fight
Buddy … yes it’s common… to have such feelings… the best thing is you know it’s fight … so no harm to say sorry and start a fresh healthy communication
Yeah, if its normal that i guess eventually we will go right back to the things the way they were before
Yes it is possible
Take your time to calm down and then discuss with your partner if they are ready to improve their efforts to make the relationship work then you guys are on right track. If they simply start talking about the past or say I miss you, I love you that means you guys are not going anyway. The same thing will repeat again. So, try to gauge if they are ready to put in efforts and you too have to do it.
Okkay, got your point but whatif they are saying both the things like i am trying to improve, i will do whatever it takes or i miss you, lets talk, then what?