hey guys!
i need your advice about my problem. so, my bf is from the state. we’re in ldr almost 3 years and we didn’t meet yet until now. it makes me crazy. due to covid, my country didn’t allow visa for tourist or visitor as unmarried couple. at first, i don’t think it’s such a big deal. i searched many possible way we can meet. here’s the option:
1) meet in turkey. because turkey already open the border for tourist and my country is got VOA from turkey. it’ll easy for me and him.
2) he comes to indonesia using an agency. he only need to pay $250 for e-visa and already got sponsorship from the agency.
3) we wait until indonesia officially open tourist visa, which is impossible for now. i believe they’ll open normally at the end of 2022.
i believe the option 2 is the best way. but he always make an excuse about this and that. and i’m the only one who search about that info. i feel that he’s not serious with me. what should i do? i’m feds up
Puh.tato @kumkum
I think option 1 is a great idea as you can travel and explore Turkey together, but if he keeps making excuses then confront him, ask for a solid reason and whether he is serious for it or not. Girl you shouldn’t be only person working for this relation as it takes two hands to make a clap
i agree. will it be a toxic relationship if i wait him longer?
