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Anonymous

Hey guys I just wanted to talk about something! That I think everyone has faced! I hope you get this,
So like I have a really close girl best friend and we both love each other and we have confessed it to each other but we have an understanding that we don’t wanna be in relationship but every time we hang out with freinds they ask us why we aren’t in relationship but for me relationship is just a tag given by society, and I really don’t believe in relationships like its all about love isn’t it! I do love her! But it doesn’t mean I have to be in relationship with her! I also love my other male freinds should I start dating them also! If not then why should I date a girl whom I love? Let me know your thoughts on this!

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@lou_lu

We are talking about love between friends, right.

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Anonymous

We are just talking about love! I do love her but I don’t recognise her as a friend or girlfriend or anything

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@lou_lu

Oh so… why is relationship even mentioned? People shouldn’t get into a relationship unless they are looking at each other as lovers.

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Anonymous

Yeah that’s the thing! We both love each other! But we don’t call ourselves as couples but people think it’s just that we don’t love each other

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@lou_lu

What kind of… people are you surrounded by. This is so… um… silly…

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Anonymous

They are good people it’s just that they don’t like the idea of me saying that we love each other but not being in a relationship! I don’t know what’s up with that

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Anonymous

And on the other hand I don’t usually do things as normal couples do! Like we both have no restrictions on anything we can date anyone if we want to! Or we can hang out with other people if we want to!

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@lou_lu

Lol I really dislike it when people constantly ship other people and think they should date bla bla bla. They just can’t accept that “love” can be many types and not always “romantic”.

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@lou_lu

Wait is that… “open relationship”?

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Anonymous

Yeah that’s what my point is! It’s not like if someone loves me she should be completed dedicated to me! I mean everyone has life and everyone wants to experience new things! I can’t be good at everything so I don’t want anyone who loves me not to experience everything because of some rules created by society!

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Anonymous

I wouldn’t say it as an open relationship it’s just that we both love each other and Love is a constant feeling I love my parents it doesn’t mean that I can’t enjoy my life loving my parents it’s same for me she can enjoy her life explore things even date other guys by loving me! I can do the same!

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@lou_lu

But of course! But ABSOLUTELY of course! I love my friends as well, but this doesn’t mean I should date them! :D

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Anonymous

A human can love as many men/ women they want After all we all are here for love aren’t we? So why should I stop her! She can love as many people as she wants!

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Anonymous

Yeah that’s exactly what I am saying! God at least someone understood me 😃

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@lou_lu

Haha, I’m glad!

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Anonymous

It’s so nice to see that people still can see beyond the barrier of these rules and regulations!

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