Hey , guys I just wanna share something with you . I had a friend . In my opinion she is toxic and dragging me down ,so I decided to avoid her . Cause she made it clear many times that she doesn’t care about me except herself and her more toxic boyfriend who was also my friend at some point . She never took responsibility for anything , always acting like damsel in distress . Always asking help in the matters that associated with her father . Like I was always there to help her out , if she asks help even now , I will help but it’s not for friendship. I will help her because I will get irritated by her words or else I ignore her . But it’s only me who gives and she never helps in any situation .I don’t know why I even associate with her .
So , I was avoiding her since I went to college . I even didn’t talk to her for 6 months . I didn’t reply her messages . In mean time pandemic started . I was feeling lonely . I become so sad thinking that I may not have any soulmate or that kind of strong bonded friendship . I have friends , but not many . I am " quite and minding your own business" type , so I have a really small friend circle . I was feeling really low that time and I was trying to overcome that phase. Then again she texted me . After 2 days struggle , I replied . That I was in I don’t care mode and I thought whatever comes in your way try taking advantage of it . Then again started msg, long conversations in phone . Then as usual started toxicity of her and there is also her boyfriend . So I decided to again avoid her and this time I am going to do nothing . I will not give proper reply , won’t meet with her , avoid conversations . I really want her out of my life .
She is like I don’t like that she is so beautiful , don’t be friends with her anymore . Like bitch this is my life , I can be with who I want . She also told me she became friends with me because she is more pretty than me so , when boys watch us , they will look at her more . There was a time I replied her msg properly , but she will be like you don’t msg me why I have to msg you first . When I hang out with other friends , she called and started blaming that I always ignore her , I always hang out with other but never with her . She never told me to go out with her at that time . But whenever two of us go out , she will call her boyfriend and she will not give a glance towards me . Like what the hell , what I am , a toy ? She hates everybody who is better than her . She want to continue our friendship because I am ugly , avarage in studies , hair is in boycut and any other way worse than her . I think she is dragging me down .
What you guys think about her ? What things I should do ?
I am going to cut her off completely out off my life , despite of what other people say .
Olivia @honestly
I wouldn’t deal with toxic people cut them out of your life they only bring negativity and take time for yourself their are so many other nice people out their you can be friends with. I think she is mean and toxic and should be avoided at all causes.
I don’t even consider her as my friend now . And stopped telling her about my life and problems long time ago . But there is the thing that everyone thinks we are very good friends , that definitely not true .
I will avoid her .
Thank you for advice .
. @somesortofpanda
You are lovely and beautiful. Never think yourself as ugly. I am a person with a very small friend circle and I can feel you. Don’t worry. Always there for you if you need help.
Thank you so much . Your words meant a lot to me .
. @somesortofpanda
How have you been feeling ?? How are you ??
I am feeling fine . I was attending classes in the morning . I am fine .
What about you ? How are you ?
. @somesortofpanda
I am doing just fine. been working on something lately. where are you from ??
I am from India . You ?
. @somesortofpanda
i am from India as well. what do you do ?
Which place ? I am from West Bengal.
I am in 2nd year of B.sc. You ?
. @somesortofpanda
i am from gujarat. i am a CA
Cut the bitch out, how dare she 🤬 U don’t deserve her at all not one inch let her struggle in her problem and karma is a bitch and it’s coming to her.
Yes and I am cutting her out of my life . Hope I don’t regret it later . Let me regret it but I am going to do it .
Thank you for advice 😌
Anytime and don’t regret anything goodluck
Yes and I am going to do everything she didn’t let me do like hanging out with other friends and many things .
Thank you and have a great day.
Don’t be friends with her anymore bro…how can she say and do such things…she’s so selfish and jealousy person…
I really don’t want to . But she keeps contacting me saying why I don’t msg her , why she have to msg me first . She is really annoying you know . I didn’t tell her to msg me or anything .
You tell her what toxic person she is… And tell her you don’t want her friendship anymore
Block her ik blocking is not a solution but what can we do
Blocking her will make things more complicated . I am taking things slow , I will avoid her for now , not giving her time . I will block her but not right now .
Our friendship started years ago so it cannot be removed so easily . There is also some mutual friends or you can say batchmates .
Ohk 🦋
