Hey guys, I have always felt that I needed to open up but I never did. So, I guess today it is. Here, just a bit about me, I am someone who doesn’t ask intrusive questions to others and I personally never force anyone to answer any personal questions asked. That being said, I got into a friendship sort of relationship a year back, and everything went all good till the lockdown, He gave me plenty of attention initially, and I didn’t expect it but loved it. Soon, he got a lot busy and hence I didn’t want to force him to make time for me as I didn’t want to disturb him.
But, as time went he rarely made attempts to talk, from then I started feeling low, I couldn’t even tell him I was feeling that way because I thought he might think I’m being desperate. I wanted to act strong. And, it’s been a year now, we fought about this a few times, but every time I tell him I feel insecure about him not spending time, He always says he had work and he likes me the same way he did before. All these words were only a temporary relief coz I’m an overthinker and I have anxiety issues and I badly need reassurance all the time.
I know this may not be a huge issue compared to what others are going through, but I don’t know where else to address my insecurity. It’s been a year and 3 months since we met, due to Covid-19 pandemic and everything happened online. I’m crazy about him and obsessed with him. I can’t forget him, I need him. But, I don’t know what to do here. If I text him, he takes hours to reply. I don’t know what to do. If, possible someone help!
Thanks for your response, I don’t know if I can talk to him… but I’ll give it a try. I hope I get better, thanks again!
