Hey guys, can you help me please?, I have been dating a guy but we only have met once because we were busy, it is a casual type of thing but we talk a lot on call and he shares his life problems with me sometimes, idk I am confused, we are close not that close, now he’s asking me to have a night stay in a hotel and I am not up for sex but I am up for a little intimacy, what to do? Kindly help if someone has an answer?

But I am not that serious about him and I have to move to a new country so it cannot go any further after it 

If you are not ready then dont go. Theres no point in staying at hotel if youre not ready for it, cause he will ask you to have sex and you don't want it. Jist simply say NO and ask him on a date where you have your intimacy. 

What if i am just scared and underneath i really wanna go? I am sorry i am super confused

Just meet him and decide based on your gut feeling. Tell him you dont feel like having sex but little intimacy is okay. If he is reluctant then dont go, if he respects your decision then go. Also word of caution : if you feel a negative vibe just leave as soon. 
Honestly i dont get the no sex but little intimacy part really. Like you okay with hugging, kissing and cuddling but not okay with sex coz in the moment, you might end up going all the way .



You can go.. i mean just be sure that you don't get attached later...
I'd say.. meet him.. and if it doesn't feel right.. you can always leave the place...

Just tell him that you are not ready for sex , but you are okay with some intimacy and if he agrees on respecting your decision go with him.......and after going there if you like going for more who is stopping you

I had a bestfriend for over 10 years. Today I got to know that all she ever did was slut shame me in front of the world, spilled all my secrets to everyone... i feel so stupid of trusting a girl like that.. its just weird how a person could be the sweetest in the world on your face and could be a completely different person on the inside..

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They don't allow me to do anything anything bcoz they want discipline ...
IDK how can be more than me even I don't have bf bcoz of them 
Even I lost my crush bcoz of them
now I'm losing my self 
Still i try to manage but of it continues
I'm not sure about my decision 

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My Mom wants to have a talk with me on the weekend about why I have been acting so distant from her. My reason for that is the dysphoria I get by talking to her because of how often she is saying my deadname and other feminine names (I am not out yet). 
Now I am unsure if I should after 8 months of knowing that I'm Transgender tell her or not. My Mom would be supportive, I guess??? BUT I don't know if I'm ready to tell anyone yet.
Can someone please help me decide or give me some advice as how to come out as Transgender?
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