After a long time I wanted your help… I’m in a situation where I don’t want to be in my whole life 😕 but life has different plans I guess… so here I start my situation
I have a friend since last 3 years we didn’t knew each other very well until we started living nearby from last 6 months… before that he’s almost like a stranger for me but now he’s something else
So what happened is last month he proposed me and I directly denied coz I never want to mess friendship and relationship but he insisted to give it a try but I again denied
Then after somedays… we had a moment which I instantly regretted and started crying he consoled me and left my place then I stopped talking to him… but then I realized that I too started falling for him as I started feeling his absence… and I again communicated with him but still I didn’t confessed him anything… he’s very genuine and caring towards me that I became habitual of that…
Now I became insecure as I know we don’t have any future coz we’re of different religious beliefs and our parents will not going to accept this… so everytime I’m with him or talking to him I started crying and it’s happening very frequently
He still wants my commitment but on the other hand I’m still denying everything which is there… pls suggest me what should I do now???
I know it’s bit long… but if you read this much pls comment your suggestions or advise ❤️
First you should check the future plans and don’t think too much regarding the future, see your current situation and if he is correct then commit with him.
I had a conversation with him over this… and he also told me that he can’t give any promise that he can sort everything in future or not… so after this statement, how can I think of future with him?
Why won’t he be able to promise, what’s the religion
It’s Hindu muslim scenario 🙊
It’s H&M scenario
I hope you understand 😂
Can i know more about you
Ikr… I’m thinking in the same direction nowadays 😅
There’s no reason
I think so too lol😂😂😂😂
What should we do
You don’t have feelings for him.
You just miss his absence because you’re used to him being around.
Plus, you don’t have genuine feelings for him.
How can you be so sure about this??? If I don’t have feelings, I haven’t cried every single time thinking of this togetherness will not going to last forever…
Make habit to be
Mitr apko unhe bhulna padega
Koshish Kar rhe hai hum… dil nhi maan rha h bs
Mitr koshish krte rahiye aur Dil ko bhi smjha lijiye ki dur rehna hai unse aur bhulna hai
Hello !! My self varun . I am 18yr old average boy, i have lots of confusion.I had a friend whose name is akhil , we are classmates from age 14…We both were good friends, not closest ones but a kind of good friendship.at age of 17 i thought to prank him and i proposed him but he rejected me and i don’t thought about rejection, i just said sorry its a prank and i moved on…But after 3 months his classmates started teasing me by pairing him with me.i didn’t understand wats happend , i asked one of them theu said akhil said that i proposed him.Actually i prosposed him in a filmy style in which if it was any other girl she would’ve accepted it…But after all of them teased me i started to maintain distance with akhil. I thought to hate him but i couldn’t able to do so…I can’t hate him caz he was so sweet, handsome, and well mannered. .Slowly i started realizing that i love him, but i know he is staright and i am bisexual so i left all to time, i didn’t tried to approach him or to contact him, i just movee on my life… obviously others who tease me continues, but i didn’t botherSometimes i used to get angry about akhil but i didn’t even want to ask him about meAfter a year of these matter, a msg came from a unknown numberi was shocked by seeing dp caz it was akhil…I started feeling like something heaven.But at the same time i had commitments that to not start conversation from my side.Them again a call came from the number we talked for a while.About future career growth etc etcThen we end up …after that he added his shirtless body on his status i am feeling disturbed by that.I don’t want him in my life but i don’t clearity that wat he think about meWhenever i start to think about him i start to expect a lot but everytime i gets hurt from expectationand whenever i think that i shld move onby removing him my mind he indirectly enters my life and disturbs me and let me to get new expectation.He is really a nice guy but i am notI am 1000% sure that i dosen’t deserve him but still i can’t let him to go from my life.But if it is neccesary i will forget himBut how to focus on goals, achievements by forget him???Wat place shld i have to give him in mymind to remove him??i am disturbed plzz help me by giving suggestions