Hey guysā¦
After a long time I wanted your helpā¦ Iām in a situation where I donāt want to be in my whole life š but life has different plans I guessā¦ so here I start my situation
I have a friend since last 3 years we didnāt knew each other very well until we started living nearby from last 6 monthsā¦ before that heās almost like a stranger for me but now heās something else
So what happened is last month he proposed me and I directly denied coz I never want to mess friendship and relationship but he insisted to give it a try but I again denied
Then after somedaysā¦ we had a moment which I instantly regretted and started crying he consoled me and left my place then I stopped talking to himā¦ but then I realized that I too started falling for him as I started feeling his absenceā¦ and I again communicated with him but still I didnāt confessed him anythingā¦ heās very genuine and caring towards me that I became habitual of thatā¦
Now I became insecure as I know we donāt have any future coz weāre of different religious beliefs and our parents will not going to accept thisā¦ so everytime Iām with him or talking to him I started crying and itās happening very frequently
He still wants my commitment but on the other hand Iām still denying everything which is thereā¦ pls suggest me what should I do now???
I know itās bit longā¦ but if you read this much pls comment your suggestions or advise ā¤ļø
You donāt have feelings for him.
You just miss his absence because youāre used to him being around.
Plus, you donāt have genuine feelings for him.
How can you be so sure about this??? If I donāt have feelings, I havenāt cried every single time thinking of this togetherness will not going to last foreverā¦
Make habit to be
Alone
Mitr apko unhe bhulna padega
Koshish Kar rhe hai humā¦ dil nhi maan rha h bs
Mitr koshish krte rahiye aur Dil ko bhi smjha lijiye ki dur rehna hai unse aur bhulna hai
Hello !! My self varun . I am 18yr old average boy, i have lots of confusion.I had a friend whose name is akhil , we are classmates from age 14ā¦We both were good friends, not closest ones but a kind of goodĀ friendship.atĀ age of 17 i thought to prank him and i proposed him but he rejected me and i donāt thought about rejection, i just said sorry its a prank and i moved onā¦But after 3 months his classmates started teasing me by pairing him with me.i didnāt understand wats happend , i asked one of them theu said akhil said that i proposed him.Actually i prosposed him in a filmy style in which if it was any other girl she wouldāve accepted itā¦But after all of them teased me i started to maintain distance with akhil. I thought to hate him but i couldnāt able to do soā¦I canāt hate him caz he was so sweet, handsome, and well mannered. .Slowly i started realizing that i love him, but i know he is staright and i am bisexual so i left all to time, i didnāt tried to approach him or to contact him, i just movee on my lifeā¦ obviously others who tease me continues, but i didnāt botherSometimes i used to get angry about akhil but i didnāt even want to ask him about meAfter a year of these matter, a msg came from a unknown numberi was shocked by seeing dp caz it was akhilā¦I started feeling like something heaven.But at the same time i had commitments that to not start conversation from my side.Them again a call came from the number we talked for a while.About future career growth etc etcThen we end up ā¦after that he added his shirtless body on his status i am feeling disturbed by that.I donāt want him in my life but i donāt clearity that wat he think about meWhenever i start to think about him i start to expect a lot but everytime i gets hurt from expectationand whenever i think that i shld move onby removing him my mind he indirectly enters my life and disturbs me and let me to get new expectation.He is really a nice guy but i am notI am 1000% sure that i dosenāt deserve him but still i canāt let him to go from my life.But if it is neccesary i will forget himBut how to focus on goals, achievements by forget him???Wat place shld i have to give him in mymind to remove him??i am disturbed plzz help me by giving suggestions
