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Anonymous

hey fellows , I need your reviews on the following!
today I had a discussion with someone on pros and cons of NOT wearing a bra.
she was clearly in favour of wearing them and I was not ; even since childhood I never wore a bra (I m 18) , I always wore girl sandos and shameez which supported my chest area.
I think since bra being a western obsession was a part of corsets in past it was not meant to prevent breasts from sagging ;it was meant to shape good and before the discovery of bra ,people didn’t need them. That was my point that most of the times I don’t need a bra (sometimes yes I need).I saw a poetry of HELLY SHAH ON TAPE A TALE titled -DEAR BREASTS which taught me to accept my breasts be of any shape and also that the man who will love me ,will love my natural breasts!
at last bras have been a serious cause of breast cancer so I don’t wear them frequently!!
pls tell your reviews of whom you find right -me or the other person.

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@thebelieverofmagic

I think you are right. Bras should not be worn all the time. It’s suffocating and we should accept out body as it is. Bras were never discovered as soon as .asking came into this earth. It is we who made it,every person in the world should know a girl wears a bra so if she isnt wearing it,IT IS FINE!!

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Anonymous

YES MY FRIEND EXACTLY! YOU GOT MY SAY

@wie

I don’t think in discussions like this we can come to a concrete answer. Because both, wearing bra and not wearing it have their own pros and cons. Yes, I agree that it’s a bliss to not have breast tied and captivated. Some breasts are good on their own, but not all women have same breast size and not everyone is comfortable letting it be that way (I totally understand the stereotype about breasts and beauty). I’m 26 and trust me the happiest days I’ve spent are without bra… but also, I require them, I work among people and at times it’s uncomfortable. So I guess bra is totally a person choice, because even if all breasts are beautiful, they are all different sizes, and that’s why it’s only logical to have different choices for the same. Sending love ❤️

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Anonymous

yeah I UNDERSTAND YOU even I wrote that sometimes I need them but not always like in the pandemic days when from a year I m at home

@wie

Same!

mh1215 @mh1215

think it differs from person to person!

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Chandrapal @chandra2292

Look it’s your body , it’s your decision why think that any men want natural shape or not . It’s men’s problem what he wants . Just do what you want if you don’t want to wear than don’t wear . It’s your choice that you wanna wear or not . And wearing bra or not it’s have it’s own pro and cons

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Anonymous

right

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Anonymous

you are right. we should feel comfortable.

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