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Now&Me @nowandme

hey everyone, this is code name starlight from the now&me mod squad! iโ€™ve been a moderator here for quite a whileโ€Œ, so i know you folks have a ton of questions for me. itโ€™s time for some answers! go ahead and #askmeanything ๐Ÿ˜Šโšก

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Now&Me @nowandme

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of course, itโ€™s only fair that the team is compensated for its efforts :)

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In poco M2 Pro, after version 1.10.11 , no updates work and if I update my app then it will crash in Xiaomi devices

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Update your Xiaomi to version 13

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Now&Me @nowandme

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is that a question or a complaint? ๐Ÿค”
hehe, fake profiles are definitely the bane of my existence so i completely get your frustration ๐Ÿซ‚ i always keep my spy glasses on to identify impostors and trolls, so you can rest assured :D
btw as a mod, chat errors are something i donโ€™t have much control over. but i will surely forward your feedback to our hardworking tech team so that something can be done about it!!!

Sansthita @sansthita

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Heylo! Who are the community managers now and how does this site work behind the scene?

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Now&Me @nowandme

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hey, so glad to hear from you! fun fact: i also happen to be the community manager. we owe most of our BTS action to the wonderful team of moderators who work round the clock to make this a safe space for everyone. we divide our work into a bunch of shifts so that someone is always around to keep the vibes immaculate. my favourite part about working with the team is our weekly discussions where we get to unwind and discuss what we can do to nurture the lovely now&me community ๐Ÿ˜Š

Sansthita @sansthita

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Wow!! Hello glad to meet you. I wish we could have a virtual meet and greet where we get to connect with the community and ofc with the community manager!

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Please allow sending pics on personal chats, as well as allowing to delete messages in personal chats as well as group chats

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Now&Me @nowandme

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hey i think iโ€™m being confused for a tech team member ๐Ÿคญ but no worries, i will definitely share your request with our developers! letโ€™s hope they make the magic happen for us โšก

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Hey, I personally donโ€™t agree with the pics option being enabled. Itโ€™s a lot more safe without it. I hope you get what I mean
Regards. ๐Ÿค—

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Then there should be an option to enable sending pics. You can only send or recieve pics if you turn on that option, or else you can keep it off, just like the app Slowly. How about that??

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Iโ€™ve been wanting to send some memes to so many of my friends here but I canโ€™t, thatโ€™s why Iโ€™m saying this lol

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Yup that sounds better now. Because just enabling it has concerns for safety.

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You guys ask qstns all u wantโ€ฆ just donโ€™t wait for answer lmao ๐Ÿ™‚โ€ฆ Abtak ek v ans nai aayaโ€ฆ

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Now&Me @nowandme

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check again :P

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Whereโ€™s my answer

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Now&Me @nowandme

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patience is ๐Ÿ”‘

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1-2 saal ka patience rkhna hoga yaaro ๐ŸŒ

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๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ lol

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Now&Me @nowandme

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aapko aapka sense of humour mubarak ๐Ÿค—

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Shukriya ๐Ÿ˜Œโ€ฆ Baaki log apke reply ka wait krre haiโ€ฆ unhe v thoda Mubarak baad de dijiye ๐Ÿ˜‰

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Or hamara ye sawal hai kiโ€ฆ Aapko anon ko v user id show krra kya ๐Ÿง

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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Who is moderator, is it a member of community or some outsider? And donโ€™t we have any online meet-up for asking our queries? Do we have to just write our questions here and you will reply us later?

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Now&Me @nowandme

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a moderator does not necessarily have to be a member of the community, but the nature of our work is such that we canโ€™t help but be part of it hehe. one has to go through a series of interviews before they are chosen to be a moderator as the role comes with a lot of responsibilities. regarding the meet-ups, we have a few plans in the pipeline. weโ€™re hoping the logistics work out and we can proceed further. hope this answers all your queries :)

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Abhi @trustworthy4u

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Cool, thanks ๐Ÿ‘

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Bhai sahab black mod available krwa do ismeโ€ฆ Dark mod itna achha nhi lag rha or or orange color ko dark red or bhi achaa lagega

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Now&Me @nowandme

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aw thank you for the suggestions! ui/ux is a beast in itself and as a moderator my understanding of it is rather limited, but i will make sure i share this with our design team on your behalf. do you have any particular query around moderation? thatโ€™s my area of expertise (โ โ—•โ แด—โ โ—•โ โœฟโ )

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What to do if i am emotionally shut off to everyone around meโ€ฆ?๐Ÿ˜

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I doubt they are going to answer this honestly

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Yes D

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Now&Me @nowandme

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hey! no shady business here at all haha. we only collect the information that you provide us voluntarily while making your now&me account. if you like, you can revisit our privacy policy here for more info: https://nowandme.com/privacy

presently, we havenโ€™t delved into monetization, hence no ads or anything. nobody is selling your data, omg haha. weโ€™ve been sustaining the app solely through our capital investment to ensure that we can offer this unique experience to everyone who seeks comfort and compassion in this lonely little world where we all coexist. but of course, weโ€™ve been looking into developing monetized features and resources in the future that allow us to help you in a greater, more impactful manner. weโ€™re open to any suggestions you might have with regard to that. itโ€™s always dicey when money comes into the picture, isnโ€™t it?

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Now&Me @nowandme

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aaa the conjecture! hahah tbh i needed some extra brain power to answer your question in the best way possible, so i took a breather (and played with my dog in the meantime!)

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Now&Me @nowandme

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hahah weโ€™re glad you asked! weโ€™re currently hiring. you can write to work@nowandme.com if youโ€™re interested ๐Ÿ˜Šโšก

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Now&Me @nowandme

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this is the link for that: http://nowandme.com/career ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Huh can i apply too even tho you guyโ€™s banned me countless times ๐Ÿ˜…

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Now&Me @nowandme

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feel free to try your luck lol ๐Ÿ˜‚

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Huh i canโ€™t even open that link u sent kid

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Evaraโœจ @just_randomly

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I would like to ask about adding some new features too, though this platform is good and working fine. Just to make more fun and help each other through opinions. Thnx to yโ€™all members for working on this :โ -โ )

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Now&Me @nowandme

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thank you for being so sweet! i appreciate the positivity xD although developing new features is not really something im involved in, do feel free to share your cool ideas with me here. iโ€™ll loop the tech and ideation team in on them. sounds good? :)

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Evaraโœจ @just_randomly

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Maybe try with making a avatar for each person. This will be creative with their personalities. Thnxx :โ -โ )

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I have two questionsโ€ฆ
1. Why this app is very slow in night especially while loading group chat
2. Mods can see who is user behind anonymous tag??

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2 i wanted to ask too

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Now&Me @nowandme

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1. okay okay okay, so it is most likely that the lag occurs in the after-hours because of higher user traffic. our trends have shown that people tend to use the app most during the night time, so that adds up. moreover, as dedicated and brilliant as our tech team is, it consists of just a handful of engineers who give their very best to run a gazillion things running smoothlyโ€”all at the same time. despite their best efforts, sometimes chaos ensues. itโ€™s only human, isnโ€™t it? big apps with hundreds of engineers routinely struggle with lags and server issues. weโ€™re only starting out with a small reservoir of resources hehe. so please show your support and help us get better at being there for you โ˜บ๏ธ

2. donut worry, we as moderators do not have the ability to see your username if you have the anonymity toggle on ๐Ÿฉ

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Debanshi ๐Ÿ’– @cheesy_deba

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I am a devops engineer and i can understandโ€ฆ thank you ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Now&Me @nowandme

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aaa could you share more details about the issues faced by you perhaps? ๐Ÿ“

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Now&Me @nowandme

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great feedback! thank you, iโ€™ll make a note of it for sure โ™ก

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