Hey everyone, i just need support and love cause I’m going through a breakup and it was my 2nd relationship which I thought would be the last but as time passed the person i was in love with completely changed, he’s no more the person i used to know , he didn’t even initiate to talk or worked this out , he just doesn’t except his mistake and all alone he was blaming me and putting allegations on me regarding my character
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Joy @joyforlife
It happens when a person is way more positive about their relationship. Especially with those who don’t deserve it. They start treating us like we are nothing.
I would suggest you to stop showing your care and love for a while and see how he responds.
If he truly loves you, he will try to figure things out. Or if he is ready to lose you, you will come to know the truth
Right now i just want him out of my mind , he just doesn’t care and i know for him i was never the priority. I thought after get cheated in my previous relationship i would never give another chance to anyone but here I’m again making a fool out of me
Joy @joyforlife
Humans have emotions, they can’t just live by rules. I can relate to your situation very well. This is just coz we are emotional and people don’t understand that. Better try and make your mind relax for now. If you have no one to talk to, you can connect with me. Stay positive stay strong ✌🏻
Thanks for the positive advice , but is there any way to ease this pain that I’m currently going through
Joy @joyforlife
If there were a medicine for that, nobody had to face that ever.
But yes, you can stop overthinking and talk to someone, who cares for you and understands you.
Don’t let your mind be free for those memories which hurt you.
Right now my only concern is to stop this heartache, I’m also all of a sudden getting panic attacks , if i think about him any longer and I couldn’t sleep at night, all this are causing hindrance in my studies . I don’t what I should do , I don’t feel like talking to anyone around me , I’m not attending my college cause I’m scared of talking to anyone
Joy @joyforlife
I can understand your situation and the guy who has made you feel like this. An emotional person is really hard to handle, but your emotions are hurting you, you will have to calm yourself sweetheart.
When things are not in your control, let them be. You can control your emotions but not the actions of other people na.
Take deep breaths and relax yourself 💭
My mind constantly thinks about him and I’m not able to do my work properly. The most sad part is that he still don’t think he’s wrong . He’s blaming me and spreading rumours about me
Thank you so much for the kind words, and yesterday I talked to him and he still doesn’t regret whatever happened and only manipulating to be with him in relationship. I don’t why he want me although he thinks I’m the one that ruined everything and he didn’t do any wrong still he’s pressuring me to not leave him
