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Anonymous

Hey, anyone up for a good talk?
I’ll go first.
I just joined this platform. I am 29/F.
Stressed with adulting, obesity, constant pressure of not doing enough and fear of being left alone.

How about you?

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Anonymous

I can relate to this. constant pressure of not doing enough and fear of being left alone keeps me up at night

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Anonymous

This pressure keeps growing. Somedays, like today, I did not have the energy to complete any of my work

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Anonymous

It got super heavy for me today. I was literally crying while sitting in my cabin.

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Anonymous

Keep holding on. You are doing great.

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Anonymous

I am trying to but I gets overwhelming at times

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Anonymous

I know it does.
Uppar se Instagram pe shaadian khatam nai ho rahi! Yahan kisi ka milna doosri baat hai, milne ki himmat nai h khudh se.

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Anonymous

I really want to meet new people but the fear of loosing them in future just keeps me away from it

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Anonymous

The fear of trusting them is crippling.
I get so scared fearing of another hearbreak.

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Anonymous

Exactly especially after past few experiences

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Anonymous

I agree.
I have never had a fling kind of a relationship. I don’t understand them.
I have always had a meanignful relationship. The last one was my 3rd relationship that blew off. Found him cheating on me.

It has given me self doubt, low confidence and unbearable pain

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Anonymous

With me things got super complicated. Now don’t ever bother making the first move.

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Anonymous

Also, I was talking to a guy friend and he was discussing his life with me. He asked that the girl who he wants to marry had 4 past relationships.
He expressed how can he ever trust a “girl like her” who has had so many relationships before.
This triggered me so bad and got me thinking I too had 3 before. So does this makes me a stupid, time pass and irrational girl. Can’t stop thinking over this.

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Anonymous

This does not makes you stupid. in fact, it shows how strong you are to give love another chance.

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Anonymous

May be. I hope we het through this phase soon.
We all deserve love, peace and happiness

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Anonymous

I hope to and yes we all deserve it

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Anonymous

Hey I can accompany you, if you don’t mind.

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Anonymous

What’s going on with you mate!?

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Anonymous

I understand, same here too.

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Anonymous

Nothing planned, as of now.

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Anonymous

I’m in.

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Anonymous

I can neither copy it nor it’s redirecting
Just pm me ,can you?

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Anonymous

Thanks.

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Murat @murat_19

Just talk to ppl,i can be a good listener…if you might want to have some interesting convos.

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Anonymous

Oh nothing feels interesting at the moment .

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Murat @murat_19

I doubt that…just had a very good convo yesterday with a stranger we both were sad…gues i can talk to you as well …coz this aop is good at connecting ppl or whatever

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Anonymous

Yeah. I believe you and with faith I joined this platform.

It is nice to see so many people able to vent out their emotions

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Anonymous

Hey there, the feeling is mutual. This is something almost everyone goes through in their phase of time. May be sharing your thoughts could give a little confidence and hope. I am all ears if you are comfortable.

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Anonymous

Thanks for listening.
All my friends are either getting married or are committed and basically living a life in which they are happy and confident.

I feel I am not doing enough for my dreams and career which I am not.
I even left my job 4 months ago because my Ex was connceted with it. It was very heavy to be working at the same place, where we were happy once.

I am not sure how to get back up and work hard. I don’t want to be left out.

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Anonymous

It’s okay to feel this way. And it’s not one’s fault. Sometimes it is hard to pick up where u left off. But do you really think this will matter after some years? One thing I would like you to know change is necessary. Trust me we are known for what we are today. I felt the same but few things I had in my mind which always motivates me to work hard.

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Anonymous

Good to know.
I agree change is the only constant but I am not good with changes. I know this is bad but can’t help it.

Please suggest what motivates you to work hard everyday. I’ll implement .

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Anonymous

Well U know every individual are different. Every person has their own motivations. Be it any person or a family problem or any situation which u always have a fear of. For me it was very simple no one believed in me that I could do something and I always have the fear what if I never achieve anything in life and that is where I kept myself pushing to overcome my fear. I do things which I am always afraid of. For instance- I have hydrophobia but I wanted to do scuba diving and feel that fear. If you go towards your fear u will understand the value of life and that will teach u very big lessons. May be u have something which is always there in back of your mind and wanted to do something big. Just take a walk and think of that and plan accordingly and eventually u will execute. I know u will do great coz u r quick learner :)

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Anonymous

Thanks for believing in me.
I will work on improving myself :)

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