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Psychology

Angry and frustrated 

I am 8 months pregnant and my first baby is going to be here soon. We have been trying for 10 years and finally through IVF we have been successful. Everyone on both sides of family is happy. We live in the US and have no immediate family to help us. My mother in law came when I was around 4 months and has been looking after us. In India she lives with her daughter,  son in law and grand daughter in Mumbai. We used to live in Bangalore. Since both of them work  she takes care of the kid. Now they are somehow managing since she is here with us. The kid is almost 12. The issue is as long as my mother in law is not living with us she is on good terms with me. Whenever she is visiting she tries to nitpick issues with me. I ignore it most of the time as it's nothing major and I don't like blowing things out of proportion. I try to avoid confrontation unless absolutely necessary. Even when I have had confrontation with her I never involved my husband in it. I dealt with it myself. Now since I m pregnant she has tried her best not to upset me. But it's in her nature so once in a while she says something. Again I ignore it coz I need to maintain my Peace of mind for my baby's sake. So now she is using new approach to get me to retaliate. By making comments about my family, especially my mother. She knows that is something I won't ignore and will react to. I react and we have a back and forth. After a while she comes back pretending as if nothing has happened. I try to be normal too as I have to continue living with her for few more months. But I can't forget all the stuff she says. I don't know how to vent it out. I don't like involving my husband as he is already swamped with office stuff and I m not really the kind of person to tattle. I don't want to put him in a position where he has to choose between me and her. I want to continue having a normal relationship with her. She is the one making it impossible. 

Conflict

I’ve been married for 9years. Still we don’t have baby. Day by day the relationship between me and my husband is getting more space.
We were not like this before. If I ask him anything then he is blaming me for all the things. For example, If he is late tonight, he used to call me and inform but nowadays it’s not like that. If I ask why you didn’t inform then it ll become a fight. He just dont care and sleep. Not at all try to console me.
This is one simple thing but the same is happening in all. I dont know what to do. I couldn’t share it to anyone. I’m totally depressed. I can’t live peacefully. Thinking something all the time. Please help.

Depression

Is it with everyone that after marriage you are asked to give share of your earned money to inlaws needs. I am doing work from home after getting married. But I am supposed to do all household chores along with my job. I feel very exhausted and sometimes i feel i should have never got married 

I feeling so lost. Actually I’m completely lost. My mother-in-law says she treats me like a daughter and her actions are same too. When my family matter comes she talks so rudely and makes me feel so guilty. She always compares with her daughter and her family. This talks are eating me so much that I’m being depressed most of the time. I couldn’t share with my parents too. Neither with siblings nor husband. Guys someone suggest me how to deal with in laws in a proper way. And my in-laws are pure orthodox 😑😶

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