He’s gone
We broke up today, less than a month before our 1 year anniversary. Suddenly he stopped believing in relationships and started calling love an arbitrary word. He called me an arsehole and told me I was being juvenile. It was our second relationship. The first one had ended in heartbreak for me, because of him. But I had decided to give him a second chance. I feel like I’m destined to live with a broken heart all my life. I still love him, I can’t stop however hard I try.
 “ You could break my heart in two, but when it heals it beats for you “

I hope you get strength to go through this and come out a better person. Love is always so conditional for one person and unconditional for other. we can't decide what can happen with us but we can change how we feel about it gradually.

Going through similar situation. Let's keep in touch here :)

Relationships

Basically, I became friends with some guy online and me and him liked each other's presence, so we added each other and talked all the time. he randomly stopped messaging me back and at first, I didn't pay it no mind, but I missed him so while I was reminiscing and looking at old chats, I saw one of his friend's social media and added them. they didn't accept and then recently I added them again and they finally accepted! I was asking for his social media and stuff they were like "Why do you need it?" and "How do you know them?" I explained it and then they gave me his social media account. I was really nervous about it all and was messaging my friends about the whole situation, I finally followed him and messaged him, I said I missed him, but he was like who are you, and I was talking about old things we did but I guess he really didn't care to remember, and I was kind of saddened by that. He was being all mean and asking who I was aggressively I finally told him about who I was, and he remembered me, but the guy is really stubborn, so I guess he wanted to act like he didn't know who I was to begin with. Anyway, we got a little closer, and I realized he changed. He was now some drug obsessed guy who cursed in almost every sentence and gets involved with the police and stuff a lot. I ignored it all because I really was obsessed with the guy and even after all that ignoring, he now doesn't even acknowledge me properly and just leaves me on read. It's like am I supposed to not feel bad? How do I get over this guy!!

Crush

So this person I have liked for quite some time now very passively not ever thinking outloudly about him texted me yesterday. We talked for sometime , then he left me hanging for many hours. Then we talked for sometime at night and then again a little bit in the morning but since then he hasn't texted me it's been over 10 hours and it's making me anxious I know it's not that big a issue . I tend to overthink . It's been long that someone paid attention to me. 

I am in a relationship with a christian boy, he is not of my religion and totally different culture than mine, he totally support me at every step we are in a relationship from last 6 years but i got anxiety even at the idea of leaving him or living in that totally different culture i have no problem with religion but that different culture food and customs i know i am wrong but i don't know what should I do, i have no one to talk i collapsed many times due to this anxiety 

Anxiety

i wanna share something …and that is about my relationship . So we broke up a week ago just because I was more involved in this relationship and i wanted to focus on myself , he never cared about me and he didn’t even had feelings for me …so we broke up …after that , the next day  we were like so quite and not talking to each other …a few days passed and he started behaving like suddenly he cares a lot …when we were in relationship he never texted me …i was the one who texted first and now after breakup he text me almost every second day for random things like how much I have studied , am i coming next day to class , etc etc …after classes he asks me to wait for him so that we can go home together , in classes he saves seat for me and ask me to sit next to him …like why man …now what you want …if he’s like to be friends with me then this is not a friendship but i think it’s going beyond that …and on Monday what happened was that we were walking together to the bus stop and laughing at random things , it was so different that day that I can’t explain in words …it was like we both were in crowd but nobody was there …we were walking , he was like - walk slowly , we’ll sit somewhere and talk for a while …you know i am a kind of person who have nothing to share and he was also like that but nowadays he’s like sharing everything with me , each and every small thing which he never used to do …so i was talking about that day …then we reached the bus stop and he was saying something about hands i don’t remember exactly but after that he was holding my hand and we both were in public but still holding hands , for the first time he was not afraid to hold my hand in public otherwise he never did this before …it was so romantic , we were looking into each other’s eyes , laughing at anything , holding hands and his bus came but he said that you’ll be alone so I’ll go in next bus …he was actually behaving so nice that I’m confused what he wants now …and after that day when we met he called me before meeting that he’s waiting for me, for the class and then we were walking on the road i was walking like I don’t care about anything and he said nothing but he himself started walking on the side of the road and got me to the other side …he was like so protective that time …idk what’s this happening …why is he behaving like this after breakup …when we were in relationship then he never cared and now …Idk what should I do …what’s this happening idk …why it’s happening idk …

Breakup

I sometimes hate my ex. 
He has completely forgotten about me. 
I hate that i still love him.
Its funny though- you love someone- supposed to be a good thing not a burden. 
And i hate myself for loving him and that too - SOO much , that I completely forgot about myself and he never chose me above himself, ofcourse one should never, but this thing just maybe reminds me of how was and am i treating myself just because i wanted him at whatever cost. 
I still love him and he seems to move on.
We talk sometimes and throughout our conversation, i just keep on wishing to hear something lovable.
Oh i feel so sick ! 🥲🥲
And he is a person who is image conscious- and whenever something nice happens he kinda act like 
“ YEAH, i am that” i mean very proudly !! 
And everytime he makes me feel as if i am behind, he always says “ once you get to go out of the house and do job, you will know then”.
Well thats ok, i will know when i have to, but he dont have to make me feel about that everytime! 
Everywork demands hard work and all the things but it doesn’t justify his actions when he makes me feel as if i dont value or i am unaware of this this job and hardwork thing. Yes, i am trying to clear my exam and i will do job but everytime, he says, YOU WILL KNOW. Just makes me so mad !
And i know, if he gets to be the RICHEST man, he will act so shit, i know, i feel as if money is like really important to him, important than a person ? How come ?
I never loved anything above him !
But for him,i wont even matter that much if he gets to be that rich !

Frustration

I'm currently in emotional turmoil. I was in relationship for 5 years. I tried to breakup with him but he somehow managed to keep it going. I don't make much efforts because i don't feel that strongly. He loves me but i don't(i think i don't). I refused to marry him but he called my sister explaining everything about our relationship even told his parents but i never said anything to my parents. I'm very close to my sister and i felt really really bad she had to find out this way.

He's still thinking i will marry him and he just can't accept it. I'm scared and confused that if somebody is trying to fight for me so much he might be worth it.

But i don't really like being forced or work on clock for such matters. I have been too lenient and feel bitchy for refusing to marry after 5 years of relationship.

Any advice is welcome. Help please.

Well, I’ve mixed feelings. So there’s this guy who’s my childhood friend like I’ve known from past 15 years at least. Since the I always liked him, I had attraction before but then later we started talking regularly and then I fell in love with him ( this was 7-8 years ago). He got to a year later that I have feelings for me but then he tried to set me up with his friend and that was failed miserably. And then from past 2-3 years I’ve realised that he’s not into me. He ignores me, we don’t talk much now, and whenever he is in a relationship he doesn’t let me know idk why, but his last girlfriend messaged me after breakup that take care of him and all, and that was my first conversation with his girlfriend( this was around 1.5 years ago). Then 10 days before we met after an year and I asked him that his girlfriend broke up with him because of me? But then he said, you were not the reason but definitely she had problems with you. And he was missing her and watching my love missing his ex in front of me was like heartbreaking but I didn’t say anything to him. Now I’m not sure what should I do, I guess I still have feelings for him because I have never been into a relationship until now because I don’t find that I’ve with anyone what I’ve for him. But he’s simply not interested in me, even 15 mins before I called him because I was missing him and wanted to talk but he never picks up my calls. I don’t know what should I do. 

Love

So... I just started talking to a guy who lives really far away from where I live. He seems nice and kind but I feel like he ignores my messages. Or maybe he's just not that active on social media. I like him but not to an extent where I want to go meet him yet. Cause I feel he only cares for the intimacy and nothing else. He's not giving any sort of hints that it might be something more than just a fling so...what should I do if he asks me to come visit him?

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