Here’s the story:
The oerson who liked me before and told me if we could be together, even thought I loved him, I said I was not ready for a new relationship, I was too scared to confess, too weak to asnwer with yes. Soon after he made a girlfriend (it was so sudden I was heartbroken and shocked. Not sure about his feelings are true or not but I don’t think I have a right to judge it). A week ago I decided to confess (my heart could not take such love towards him). At the end I asked "tell me, should I forget you? Tell me yes and I will try ". But he did not answer on this question. What does it mean? Or what am I waiting for? How can i know what’s on his mind…
you are over thinking a bit, idk
you can always move on, you have to
Yes I think a lot, because I’m worried I made him confused. But I had to tell him or else I could not forgive myself for not being honest about my feelings 😣
Okay first nothings wrong in taking your time to make a decision which can affect your life.
And it’s possible that the guy is now just confused that what should he do like he did like you then, but now situation is different. So, don’t stress yourself about this, he just needs time to decide what to do, cause he’s with another girl. Eventually he will tell you about what’s on his mind just give him some time.
Or just tell him that it’s okay if you don’t know the answer now, take your time. But whatever be the answer, just tell him to keep things clear. That way you’ll not end up getting hurt, nor will he.
I’m so glad that you also think I should give him more time… So my mind was on the right direction. I know, it is a difficult situation for me and for him as well. And I also worry for his present gf… I don’t know, I also don’t want to be a bad person but what can I do, I love him too, loved him before and have more stories with him to tell… Thanks for your advice 🙏🏻
Lucey @lucey
Sometimes action tells everything.So no need to wait for words. If you know about him wel and you feel his action very wel then I don’t think that you need to wait for words.You can make a decision easily towards him
I guess you are right. Actions tell a lot and I feel after confessing how much attentive he has become (again. He was like that before I refused relationship, after this he had a distance with me). So I will keep waiting and let’s see how it ends…
Mudit @mj16_
Leave him
Sometime saying no is more important
But he never said no
