Here I am sharing my story where i feel confused and guilty… I have been in relationship with my bf for about more than a year now… And I just dont understand what exactly my feelings are for him now… I used to have a crush on him for a long time and then finally in relationship I was very happy at start… Ready to do anything for him… But slowly it started feeling too restricted too controlling… I mean i do not know if its normal or not like i dint have much of experience in relationships and he had a lot of gfs which left him or cheated on him n made him heartbroken…honestly his insecurities have increased bcoz of all those breakups n constantly thought that i would leave him but now i really feel like i should bcoz i am not what he expects me to be… I used to do it earlier as i had no idea about relationships n wanted it to work but slowly my happiness started diminishing and urge to leave n be free increased. Basically i can just break up with him but for some reason its too cold hearted to do so… I dont want to break his heart at all he is already hurt n u dont want to hurt him anymore but my intuition tells me that we aint gonna last long too much of fights n toxicity n apparently we gonna leave each other but if i leave him now i m afraid he might never belive in love n would be shattered into pieces so i am just trying ti hold on to it but i just cant be the same person I was before… I cnt be exciting anymore talking to him bcoz i think i might lead him to think all is fine when its not… I want him to realise that we both aren’t for each other… But somehow in that process i am rejecting him that hurts him…I know that i am bad person here i shouldn’t have made promises or anything too early but right now i have no idea what to do… I really feel like a dead end and instead of breaking up i’d rather let this go the way it is n maybe even compromise in the end n stay with him even if that makes him happy
Heyaa I don’t know your name or nothing but for your self and for your happiness you have to do something, otherwise ur not more than a emotionless creature,go with him on a date,and just tell him it is not working out,one bold step n you’ll be free
I did tell him when we fought, i told him this is toxic aint right i m just hurting you, but later he just texted n it was really begging ti get back with him i dont want him to do that? I made him beg fir me that was hurting i dropped the idea after that, that was just too painful to see him like that
I know… I did n i mean its like things dont come to a conclusion unless one gives up he goes like why this now… It wasn’t there in the past… N den he goes like yeah i m the right guy for you no wonder why any ofbthem dint work… The topic just gets lost in all this conversation n theres a whole new issue arising
Ok so I am a person who is in a relationship since last 3 years and yes your past does affect your present …if his past is with other girls …his present with you will be affected …but he should understand that he should not be punishing you for the mistakes the others did …so go confront him …tell him this is what he is doing to you …and tell him you don’t want to leave him …but the same time can’t handle it if he keeps punishing you for others mistakes …communication works …trust me
Okayyyyy! Thanksss I will have a talk! Thanks alot
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