Here a long situation , please give a read and suggest me what should I do:
Iām in love with a guy who doesnāt feel anything for me , actually he does feel one thing : lust.
This all started last year when I broke up with my Long term boyfriend (letās call him A) because he cheated on me with a girl (letās call her B).
So , the guy Iām in love with right now (letās call him C) was Bās boyfriend.
After A and B cheated on Me and Cā¦we got close and we started talking day and night. After sometime we realised we are in loveā¦he proposed. Everything was going well until one day A and B broke up , C became anxious and REALISED that he is still in love with B.
C broke up with me but continued to be friends. Heās currently in my city and I kept telling him letās meet he would never agreeā¦ the other day his family invited me over and we had our first kiss.
C never treated me well , he always treated me like a trashā¦but the day I met him I saw love in his eyes for me.
Yesterday he told me that all he has is lust for me and Iāll be gone the day B walks back in in Cās life.
Iām so broken because of all that has happened till nowā¦ but I canāt accept the fact that heāll be gone from my life now.
I donāt know how to reactā¦please help me!!š
Sanchita Das @archnemesis
I wouldnāt agree with this. We are human beings and we keep on committing the same mistake over and over again just in the hope of getting a different result each time. We try. We fail. We stand up stronger and try again. This is how the cycle goes on and on.
Itās okay to do a mistake for more than once. It only brings the stronger version of ourselves.āØ
Sanchita Das @archnemesis
Agree or not, itās our basic human nature to commit mistakes. I am definitely not saying what she is doing is right or wrong, because right or wrong is subjective and whatās right for me might not be right for you. Thatās a completely different topic. But, I believe mistakes make us stronger.
See girl that boy you are in love with is confused heās in love with B but due to their problems he comes to you he Crosses the limit with you and you are okay with that cause you think heās in love with you but he isnāt heās just mad for B and you are just distraction for him so please stay away from him if possible cut your contacts cause if there will be solution right now it will surely become A problem in near future and I donāt want to see you hurt this bad again
Thanks for the response guys!! Iāll see what I can do with my love for him.
