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Anonymous

Here a long situation , please give a read and suggest me what should I do:
I’m in love with a guy who doesn’t feel anything for me , actually he does feel one thing : lust.
This all started last year when I broke up with my Long term boyfriend (let’s call him A) because he cheated on me with a girl (let’s call her B).
So , the guy I’m in love with right now (let’s call him C) was B’s boyfriend.
After A and B cheated on Me and C…we got close and we started talking day and night. After sometime we realised we are in love…he proposed. Everything was going well until one day A and B broke up , C became anxious and REALISED that he is still in love with B.
C broke up with me but continued to be friends. He’s currently in my city and I kept telling him let’s meet he would never agree… the other day his family invited me over and we had our first kiss.
C never treated me well , he always treated me like a trash…but the day I met him I saw love in his eyes for me.
Yesterday he told me that all he has is lust for me and I’ll be gone the day B walks back in in C’s life.
I’m so broken because of all that has happened till now… but I can’t accept the fact that he’ll be gone from my life now.
I don’t know how to react…please help me!!😞

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Sanchita Das @archnemesis

I wouldn’t agree with this. We are human beings and we keep on committing the same mistake over and over again just in the hope of getting a different result each time. We try. We fail. We stand up stronger and try again. This is how the cycle goes on and on.

It’s okay to do a mistake for more than once. It only brings the stronger version of ourselves.✨

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Sanchita Das @archnemesis

Agree or not, it’s our basic human nature to commit mistakes. I am definitely not saying what she is doing is right or wrong, because right or wrong is subjective and what’s right for me might not be right for you. That’s a completely different topic. But, I believe mistakes make us stronger.

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Anonymous

See girl that boy you are in love with is confused he’s in love with B but due to their problems he comes to you he Crosses the limit with you and you are okay with that cause you think he’s in love with you but he isn’t he’s just mad for B and you are just distraction for him so please stay away from him if possible cut your contacts cause if there will be solution right now it will surely become A problem in near future and I don’t want to see you hurt this bad again

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Anonymous

Thanks for the response guys!! I’ll see what I can do with my love for him.

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