Help. My husband has been very short/curt for a while now constantly to me and our son. It's not bad like anger or temper. He wouldn't hurt a fly. I love him. He knows he's short/curt a lot and will apologize for it most of the time. I know it could be related to tiredness or stress, but I'm tired of it, and I don't want it to emotionally affect our son if it hasn't already. How do I get him that help without it being a money issue.

Hug him and ask him what's wrong ?
If everything is alright or not?
Explain him that the child would have a bad impact
Comfort him


a good trip or a tour would help... a break from professional life for family and there you can have a good intense talk... it hope it would help

Relationships

What’s that 1 lesson 2021 taught you and is gonna stay with you for the rest of your life now? 

Adulting

I am at moms place since 8 days. Me and my husband had a fight over some of his relative after which I really got frustrated and left the house because this happens always. His relatives always humiliate me because of my mother in law. He knows everything still he hasn’t tried to contact me in anyway since I have come here no phone no text nothing. What should I do? Should I wait or should I contact him? Really feeling low and depressed don’t know what to do. My sister in law is a divorcee she also always creates mess in the house and influences every one my father in law mother in law husband and even house maids.

Anxiety

When he tells you he wants to make it work bc he cant bare the thought of not seeing his kids every day... isnt that a slap in the face, he pretty much said he is only with me bc of the kids right ?

Breakup

I'm married for the last 8 years and my husband has become really really condescending and demeaning over a period of time, I've done nothing so bad also to deserve such behaviour. Like of there is a fight, he won't come to pacify, irrespective of what happens, sometimes it is okay to say sorry even if you are not that wrong, but just because the other person was hurt because of you.
I lost my mother 12 years ago, and my dad may not say it, but I know I won't be welcome back in the house

Lonely

I’m a stay at home mom currently until I’m able to get my license. Long story short my father never wanted to teach and now my husband has to teach me. I’ll be 20 in January. Anyways my husband does not understand how hard it is to not be able to go out and to have to stay in all day taking care of our son. I am a full time online student and today I had 5 assignments due today and I was stressed out to with my son because he was fussy and I had an assignment that was acting up. I just finished my last assignment. Before I finished it my son needed to go to bed and my husband asking if we were going to bed and I said yes but I’m not ready because I have a lot to do still.  So he waited until the last minute to say he was going to bed and I asked if he was going to take our son and he said no because he can’t put him to sleep. Well I said it’s because you never tried. Tbh I don’t think he’s really been there for our son.  It hurts to say it to because he pays for everything since I don’t work but I feel like I do everything. I clean the house. I cook. I change and bathe our son. And I make sure we are saving money. And I am a student and I make the appointments and I do the laundry. And I please everyone because if I don’t they ask what wrong with me. I really want to know who’s in the wrong my husband questioning me why it take the whole day to do hw or me the one doing everything in the house so he can come home and relax. 

Marriage

People:  What have you learnt in all these years ??

Me : A great skill... Crying out loud in head n through eyes with pin drop silence.... 🥲

So i am fustrated to the core of my soul. My huband who we just got married a few months ago has a need to go out every week to have a day with his single friends. He says its his time but at this point i feel its absurd to be going out every week to drink at a bar when you have a wife at home. I cant find it in my brain to continue with this. I am happy with the rest of my life he is the one thing that truly hurts me but taking the leep to get a divorce is so traumatic and scary. I just really see no way out and to stay and keep feeling like this feels stupid. 

I want a divorce from my husband. I’m tired of arguments every single day and it’s been just a year to this. 

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