HELP!!!!!
Cqn I love on from someone who I thought was so special....he says he is scared to love me because he is afraid that he might hurt me

Is that a legit reason why not to, or is he telling me to get lost politely. Also he says me he loves me way too much.I AM CONFUSED

Hello friend, It can mean that he is also confused like you .. If he truly loves you why he will hurt you , You two should talk to each other to take a better decision 

3am Thoughts

When she faced a tough time, he was the only one there for her.
He was more worried than her because of her problems.
He loved her more during that phase.
He was in touch everyhour to make her relaxed.

And then, after that phase, when he came to a bad phase, nobody was there for him.
He become needy.
He asked for communication.
He didnt even recieved a bare minimum.
He begged for a 5 mint conversation, she denied.
He become a burden for her.
He become weak, society tought him, men don't cry.
He suppressed all his feelings alone, with a fake smile, crying inside.
Crying alone in room become his habit.
Slowly, he started hating his life.
Still he beg for a little conversation, she replied,  i don't want to talk with you, don't be weak, you are a man.

Yes, I am a man, I meant to be suffer alone.
Only women and pets are loved unconditionally, men will be loved under a condition.

I'm surrounded by a lot of peoples, but I'm alone. I'm feeling loneliness.

But I'm a man. I need to hide all this, and should fake that I'm strong.
Oh, yes, men are strong.

Since 6 years, I've been living in a world of my own beliefs. I made an imaginary character in my head and thought that it was him. I believed that I know him all. I didn't realize I was living in a dream until now. It was all in my head. How could I not know? He was someone else. He wasn't the person I loved. I just associated both of them. In reality, that person doesn't exist. I made memories with someone whom I didn't even know. What am I going to do with all these memories now? How will I tell my heart to stop taking his name? How will I convince my mind to come back to reality?

I met thiy guy who i have been friends for a long time. He has told me about what he feels for me but nonetheless, I tell him that there are better options. He should try looking out for other girls. Yesterday when I met him I knew that I really really like him. Still not sure of my feelings but i can't afford to lose him. But, deep down I feel i dont deserve happiness. I am so wrecked. 

Adulting

Just told my boyfriend I can’t see him anymore. I’m a guy. I thought I was pretty much over the guilt and shame, but it came attacking so bad again. Feeling a fair amount of grief combined with it. I feel trapped because I’d love to see him but the guilt and shame are extreme. I don’t have money for therapy and none of my friends and family support my decision, so I pretty much don’t have anyone to help me through this.

LGBTQ

Hey everyone I am done being frustrated over a guy who doesn't treats me well and sounds very boring now a days everyday I cry for him for his reckless behavior at times he makes me feel special and then he does the Same everyday I've been crying bcoz of him since January every night I'm already worried about my future my career my studies but now bcoz of him I'm more worried about his behavior towards me when I told him that I'm talking to someone else bcoz you don't treat me well you don't talk to me and I need someone to talk to me he was like he would die I started  talking to the other guy I felt so special that I again gave him a chance .i don't think I love him how can someone love a guy who treats the girl like a shit like someone who's always present there for him,i only wanted to talk to him bcoz I have no friends to talk to I feel so lonely here in my college I have no friends, firstly he used to understand that and treated me so well but now I dunno what happened to him he doesn't leaves any chance of disappointing me and then he says that I'm over thinking about him. Every day I literally beg to him to talk to me.yesterday he was talking to me and shared about what's going on in his life and then told me to call him after 5 minutes and when I started calling his phn was switched off I again started crying like why he does that to me. I hate him but still I want him.my life is already a hell and he's making it even worse!! 

Boyfriend

My bf is in a different country and we have very extreme time zones ..we barely communicate and we fight most of time and thr reason for it being the same..
And he doesn't make effort to talk w me because he is always busy..when I ask he calls it settling down..and that he is taking time to adapt and that is why he ain't able to talk w me..
I feel so lonely and I really don't know what to do..to continue w the relationship or to move on with life..what shud I do???

Wow!! So this friend used me as a personal therapist and vented to me about all the mental health issues and personal life problems that he was dealing with, irl and online. He did this for more than three months and now that he doesn't have any more issues (because I helped him work them all out) he doesn't even talk to me anymore! I know that he was just using me but it still hurts because I had genuine feelings for him. >:(

Frustration

My boyfriend took me to a shop (for the first time) ( on his request). I wasn't buying anything over there, because obviously it doesn't look nice to spend someone's money, he's not earning yet, so he kept insisting so I picked up an earphone set. He kept insisting pick more things up, he picked 2 more items himself and then we came back. A day later we got into an argument,  in which he unexpectedly said that 'you don't realise how much someone does for you, I only get a small amount of pocket money from home and that too I spend all of it on you. I'm not that rich.


I felt terrible 
I don't know why those things that he bought for me all of a sudden became meaningless for me. 


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