Hello, so I wanted to share this from a long time,
I really don’t know what to do with this. Every day I hear shouting and fighting when I get up. Tbh I literally get up with those sound, my mom and dad. I don’t know what to do now.
Basically, my dad don’t do anything for us. He earns very less but he don’t give us a single penny. He doesn’t love us. And he and my grandfather expect my mom to give them money to eat ( which my mom is giving them from 21 years) but my mom fights with my dad every day, it’s not her mistake not gonna lie. I also have hard feelings for my dad. I have got a REALLY toxic household. I can’t study in peace. I’ll not blame my mom but broo it’s really hard I don’t know how to express it. But you put yourself in my place, how will you feel when you hear fights every morning, afternoon and night, I just can’t live with it. My mom is a really sweet lady she’s is REALLY hardworking, she’s raising me alone. I really love her. 😭😭
Hi. Look you must know that by saying what you’re experiencing, you’ve already taken a step towards recovering from the situation. Have you tried confronting your father about what he’s doing?
Yes. Many times and me and my mom have tried thousands of times to help my dad she even sold her beautiful gold earings for my dad’s shop, but he’s just ughh you know what I hate him, seeing him gives me motivation to study and fulfill my and my mother’s dream to get out of this shitty house.
I have been through the same situation. But the day i became independent and started earning i moved out of my dad’s house with my mom.
Since then we’re living happily.
Yess I’ll do that to once I become indipendent I’ll leave this household with my mom and we’ll finnaly live in peace.