Hello people,
The problem is that the guy which I started seeing only give me attention when I am with him like when I was not with him he not call or text he calls me at night only when he was done with his work and kinda alone if I call him then only he responds, sometimes he even doesn’t attend my call and says he was busy in work and never calls back. Should j don’t need attention, the love which I am craving for , is it like that only the guy only gives attention when inam with him I don’t think so it’s love. When I asked him that what we are in then he said still in progress now what is that still in progress means u know me and that clicks a person u want to be them or not I didn’t get the meaning of still in progress, is it white or black not grey. If a guy giving me a second thought how can I think a future or a relationship with that guy.
When a guy likes u and wants u he will make sure to stay in touch and make u feel special but if u are the one who is always texting or calling first then please let him be. U deserve someone who treats u like a priority and not someone to talk to when he is bored or doesn’t have anyone else to talk to
I know and I don’t want him in life now because important for my mental health too
Prachi @p212
Yes your mental health and happiness should be your priority always. Been in such a relationship and the more time you think about making it work, the more time it will take for you to let go and be happy.
You deserve a person who loves you and communicates with you. A guy who talks to you only after you initiate doesn’t want you but as you initiate he won’t tell you this as he has a back up for when he feels like it.
Sorry if I am being blunt but I don’t feel anyone deserves this type of hurt and pain
I know and I m coming out of it
If a guy doesnt give you stability ,you as a woman who loves herself live him and find happiness within yourslef!this will affect your self confidence,and other aspect while you stress about him,because this is how hormones works.The more you stress you will become addicted to the stress hormone and confuse it with love.Try to stop this and focus on other things in your life.The more you stay in this cycle the worse it gets and after you will need plenty of time to build self love and improve other aspects in your life because you are losing energy towards him.You have to date only a man that gives you trust and makes you feel loved,otherwise it will affect you and you may attract again such kind of people because you have to learn self love forst and when you self love you give him a bye bye.Please be safe!send you lots of hugs and love❤️❤️😃😃😃😃
Thank u so much 🥰
You are very welcome!Please take my advice seriously!I am close to 30 and I lost all my youth on such man and I developed low self esteem and because of that I attracted only jerks,because I was weak energetically and they felt that I am not confident,that if I forgive then I have a low value and the results…30 years old,working on my self esteem with a therapist in order to vibrate great in all fields on my life so I real man feels that and gets attracted and a jerk will not stay with a confident woman because they want someone who may rise their ego because they are weak also…a lot of psychology here but for sure,stay focused on your study or job,health also!put real goals and dont loose time because you have to grow yourself for a high value man and a high value man you will attract only if you other aspect of your life you will be doing amazing and you will attract a man with values also !!!❤️
So true. In a similar situation. Thinking and stressing about him caused me to get addicted to him and leaving him felt like withdrawal from a drug or something. Wasted my time and energy and peace of mind for him. Learnt that I don’t deserve such a person. Now no contact with him but still working on getting my self esteem back. Please don’t do anything that makes you hurt or go through such pain.
Praying that u have the strength and confidence to move on and be the best version of yourself. ❤❤❤❤
