Hello, my ex is getting married next month & I’ll have to go to his wedding. I feel like shittttt these days, really miss him & wish I was the one he was getting married to.
If it’s too difficult, don’t go. Yeah it might seem petty but they’ll understand, or you can make an excuse to why you’re not in attendance. Don’t put yourself through mental pain just because you’re worried how you might come across
He’s my family friend & my family kind of had an idea about us dating. So it’s not possible:(
Sorry to hear :( just remember once it’s over you don’t need to think about it anymore. It will sort itself out x
Yesss definitely!💖 I just want this time to pass as quickly as possible
When you’re going through a struggle each day is a struggle. But as said in avengers endgame… you just need to take it one day at a time. Get through the first day. Then the next. Don’t focus on getting through tomorrow. Ever. Always focus on getting through today. It’s hard to do, but it helps. Distractions are the key to feeling happier during this period too x
True true!!! Have been going through since last 3 years lol. Really want good days to come, I really need good people & good days in my life now
Mat jaao shaadi mein
I wish aisa possible houta
i just wanna tell you that "This too shall pass " . You guys broke up for a reason , remember that . I know this day , this month feels like shit , but you are gonna be ok soon .
Ya he cheated on me but after his engagement he came back & used to talk shit about his fiancée. I stopped talking because it was unethical. But I loved him a lot & it’s going to be difficult as hell. He’s my family friend & my neighbour so yk everything’s going to be in front of me
am sorry to hear that . i know its going to be really hard for you . But remember that this times will pass , also remember that you deserve good things in life because you are a good person . Try to engage your self in things so that you will not have time to think about him
Yesss, I’ve my university & other things that keep me busy but some days it’s just hard, no matter how much I try, I just can’t get it out of my head & it hurts
I know its hard , but you are going to be fine . wishing best things for you :)
This is sad. I can never imagine this to myself
I think it’s a blessing in a disguise. Look at it from a different perspective. This wedding will give you closure and end this chapter once and for all. He cheated on you. What is he did that while you were married to him? But moving forward, who knows maybe you will find your next relationship at the wedding. Plenty of fish in the sea. Trust me I know, I’m a Pisces lol
Tbh I know whatever happened, it happened for good but it still hurts. Ive anxiety since last 2/3 years & yk it’s just not in my control. I try to distract myself as much as possible but when it hits me, it hits hard!!😞
All I can say is do not waste precious time a person who didn’t even think for second how his actions could effect you. Trust is a huge thing in a relationship. He broke it. You have to first learn how to love yourself before anything. When you’ve learned, you will never let a guy like him effect you the way it has for the past 2/3 years. Your worth is so much!! This taught you what you don’t want in a partner !
Yesss, it’s been years now & I dated another guy after him & he cheated on me too so I’ve been quite insecure after that & I can’t trust anyone now. I really miss that affection tho but can’t take any risk now😂 I might meet my ex today tho👀 not exactly meet but we are going at a same event so👀👀👀😵
Don’t lower your standards and you have act like your a gift to this earth. Hold yourself to higher standard and you s attract that. Gotta do the research on these men first before getting in a relationship lol
You’re so sweet❤️❤️ I feel a lot better💖
I’m glad you are feeling better! You got this girl!!! Go kick ass!