Hello!! Lately I have been going through a change in myself. I’m forcing myself to change something that meant world to me. I have always been a gentle hearted person. Love unlike what it has become, I used to believe in something much more deeper, wanted to be by someone’s side who would accept my stupid love concepts, and I waited a pretty long while and was ready to wait even more.
But turn of events, I just can’t promise an eternity anymore, I just don’t wanna get married, some stupid concepts and some events made me take such decisions.
And I can’t leave someone I love brokenhearted at the end.
So a girl who haven’t had even a guy friend, is giving up on waiting for her stupid love dreams and trying to go casual dating. Though this gonna take me another few years to accept before I start.
Let’s see where my fate takes me.
I can maybe feel what you are going through. When our innocent self is broken up, all the things around what we value the most in ourselves break as well. There is nothing and no one which can stop the cascaded collateral damage. Its difficult to endure. Let me know if you wish to talk more!!
Hey listen to me what is wrong to think abt love and you never known who can fall for you and why are you giving hope ha and what is wrong in dreaming and I’m here and I can be your first guy friend if you want and do not let yourself down okay
U know even I was that kinda person one man woman had invested soo much in that man only for him to turn extreme toxic and hurt me in every way…I too ended up in casual dating but given my innate nature, we are now getting serious about each other yet taking it slow, he wants it but I’m not yet ready and it’s okay if u have seen dear zindagi when Kabir says if we go for two three shops just to take the perfect chair then y soo easy when choosing a life partner…it’s okay to choose wisely and have the courage to stop when u see it’s heading nowhere after all it’s question of two lives and dating is fine and untill u find ur the one it’s gonna be casual only just be honest to urself and the person whether it’s casual or serious and u can still find someone who will adore your stupid Love concepts
Whoa! You must be my mirror image. Our stories are completely the same. How are you coping with the current reality?
If I speak honestly it’s like a roller coaster ride…I just get flashbacks of my pvs relationship and start missing my ex feel like I will never receive that kinda love again and also know the fact that how much toxic and manipulative it was and I attracted that kinda person cz of my toxic household…and with all these conflict have this man in my life now who started things casually with me but now we both have gotten serious he wants to step up but the conflict I’m going thru it’s difficult for me and I won’t be able to be soo much vulnerable to him and he knows n has seen my past so he’s quite understanding of it…yet there’s fear what if we’re not meant to be do I have the heart to break his heart or go thru one more heartbreak but getting scared and shutting out isnt the answer we live just once as I read today here get busy living or get busy dying!
Yes, thanks alott… venting out here has really been soo peaceful with such great community like you peeps to support n motivate💙💙💙
Don’t try to solve everything at once. Take baby steps and see how you feel when you are with him.
If everything goes right, more power to you! If it doesn’t, don’t be sad and be what you always wanted to be
Yes trying to take it slow and let everything unfold naturally not concluding anything…thanks for the advice. Take care💙
