hello Idk how to start but I have been feeling really depressed lately and as an 18-year-old who going through parents school and college stress it really isn’t fun and my friends I just feel so distant lately from them and I don’t think they can feel or understand what I’m feeling and in November I met this boy I liked him but he was still not over his ex and I was trying to help him maybe they would have a chance together again but It really didn’t work, and he’s kinda the first guy friend I had in a really long time he confessed his feelings to me a month ago and now we are dating and I’m just scared that he’s with me to heal from his ex not because he actually loves me. and I really don’t know I’ve been not talking to anyone the past 3 days and I had a little argument with my best friend and I just don’t really know how to feel I just feel like something is empty inside of me. I just wanted to get this off my chest here hope u all having a great day 😕
Gaganbir singh @bira13
Hey,
Calm down I know how it feels trust me I do u r just 18 I m 33 last year I feel for someone she was not over her ex n she started dating me for the same reason n used me as a rebound n then destroyed me in every possible manner I went in depression nad also tried to commit suicide she left me alone. Doesn’t even care that I’m alive or not but thts my case I don’t want u to be demotivated but I want u to confront him be open honest n blunt what u feel and y u feel so to him till u r not satisfied don’t keep any doubt or anything in mind while talking to him afterall it will leave a big mark on u which can change u forever I have suffered in this don’t want u to go thru the same n always remember whenever u u feel depressed or low talk it out never cut off with anyone infact do the opposite talk more n more it will keep u calm n in balance start writing ur thoughts or may be start writing diary it dose help u can do it ur ph notes or on ur laptop or on an actual note pad. It also dose nto mean that u have to tell everyone everything be very careful to whom u say what don’t want that ppl use those things against u
And in ur actual life find one friend class mate or family member whom u can trust completely n tell everything who can understand u n guide u
Life is not easy nor that tough it’s we who decide how we want it to be or mistakes n our learnings our choices defines our life
Be careful be safe I hope u feel better and if u need to talk it out more anything we r here any day anytime
Chandrapal @chandra2292
Yeah I know how you feel . There is some symptoms if he is only talking to you when she get thoughts about her ex GF . He only cares about himself , he wasn’t available when you need him everytime , he told you to get physical , then must be he is just using you to get over her ex . I think your main problem is just pressure from parents and you don’t have someone who completely understand you and your feelings . I think you should give sometime to yourself . Understand yourself , sit alone and categories which things are making you mad and toxic . For sometime don’t talk to anyone not even your boyfriend and also your best friend . Just sit somewhere alone make yourself calm and just put some slow and peaceful music which you like and think what is making my life toxic . You can’t do anything to your parents if you say anything that can hurt them so just listen from one side and get kicked out from other side . Just ignore their opinion . I’m not saying that ignore them cause that could hurt them . If you find out that someone is making your life toxic then remove him from your life even if he is your boyfriend . It might be hurtful but you’ll understand in future that you’ve done great thing for yourself , and always be happy , I’m not saying that show like that your happy , if you are feeling sad than show it’s effect to your boyfriend and best friend . If you think I’m right then please follow whatvi say . And if you wanna talk than I’m here 😊🤗
