Hello, I am feeling down in the dumps today, it all started when I realized that I dont have any friends in my life. Everything seems like a blur where one second I feel like I have people who loves me but the next second I feel like I am stuck in time where I have no one. I have been travelling to so many places and meeting all kinds of people, but you know how they say, its a phase / spur of the moment where someone will like you but then they might drift apart. I know my thoughts are just anxiety and there is nothing I can do about it, but to let it go and to try and think positively but whenever I try, I just see the world as a grey place. I just can’t stop thinking about the fact that I dont have any friends and I already lived in life for 19 years now. All my “friends” I had were made to be in the “spur of the moment” as when that phase or time was over I realized that they all drifted apart away from me. I just wish sometimes that someday I will have a friend.
Hey, I’m so sorry that you feel this way; I just want you to know that you are NOT alone. And I swear, true, long-lasting, and deep friendships will come. I grew up having absolutely no friends since I live in such a remote area. On the rare occasion that I would meet someone and we’d click, I’d hope that I just found the friend of a lifetime… only to feel them drift away. I hated it and blamed everyone (parents, and myself) for not having friends. Now, writing this, I’m nearing the end of my teenage years and still haven’t found my “bosom friend” and true “kindred spirit” xD But I try to not let that pull me down or stop me from enjoying my life because I realized that I WILL someday find that person and we’ll have the grandest time together but, in the meanwhile, I have time on my hands to bond with other people. Specifically for me, that’s my family. I have realized that there are people right under our noses that yes, we may never be besties or totally “get” each other, but if they are somehow connected to us in this puzzle of life then it’s for a reason.
So long my friend, and know that life will shower you with people. Probably more than you’d wish xP It’ll just take time ;) Take care!
Thank you so much for your kind post. Your post has helped me to understand more about life and it made me open my eyes more to the real world. I really appreciate that you took the time to read my post and to help me understand more about people.
TeeJay @dran89
Hey there Stranger!
I’m a few days late, but hopefully you have been feeling well. :)
You know, I have seen in my 31 yrs of life that, friends are like chapters in a book. All your life you will be flipping through them. But one day there will be a chapter where you will leave a bookmark. And you will come back and read it over and over again, knowing that same friend is doing the same with you! 😊😊
So keep reading through the book and I’m sure you will find a place for your bookmark 😊
Cheers and courage! 😇
