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@anoushkam

Hello, I am feeling down in the dumps today, it all started when I realized that I dont have any friends in my life. Everything seems like a blur where one second I feel like I have people who loves me but the next second I feel like I am stuck in time where I have no one. I have been travelling to so many places and meeting all kinds of people, but you know how they say, its a phase / spur of the moment where someone will like you but then they might drift apart. I know my thoughts are just anxiety and there is nothing I can do about it, but to let it go and to try and think positively but whenever I try, I just see the world as a grey place. I just canโ€™t stop thinking about the fact that I dont have any friends and I already lived in life for 19 years now. All my โ€œfriendsโ€ I had were made to be in the โ€œspur of the momentโ€ as when that phase or time was over I realized that they all drifted apart away from me. I just wish sometimes that someday I will have a friend.

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Hey, Iโ€™m so sorry that you feel this way; I just want you to know that you are NOT alone. And I swear, true, long-lasting, and deep friendships will come. I grew up having absolutely no friends since I live in such a remote area. On the rare occasion that I would meet someone and weโ€™d click, Iโ€™d hope that I just found the friend of a lifetimeโ€ฆ only to feel them drift away. I hated it and blamed everyone (parents, and myself) for not having friends. Now, writing this, Iโ€™m nearing the end of my teenage years and still havenโ€™t found my โ€œbosom friendโ€ and true โ€œkindred spiritโ€ xD But I try to not let that pull me down or stop me from enjoying my life because I realized that I WILL someday find that person and weโ€™ll have the grandest time together but, in the meanwhile, I have time on my hands to bond with other people. Specifically for me, thatโ€™s my family. I have realized that there are people right under our noses that yes, we may never be besties or totally โ€œgetโ€ each other, but if they are somehow connected to us in this puzzle of life then itโ€™s for a reason.
So long my friend, and know that life will shower you with people. Probably more than youโ€™d wish xP Itโ€™ll just take time ;) Take care!

@anoushkam
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Thank you so much for your kind post. Your post has helped me to understand more about life and it made me open my eyes more to the real world. I really appreciate that you took the time to read my post and to help me understand more about people.

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TeeJay @dran89

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Hey there Stranger!
Iโ€™m a few days late, but hopefully you have been feeling well. :)
You know, I have seen in my 31 yrs of life that, friends are like chapters in a book. All your life you will be flipping through them. But one day there will be a chapter where you will leave a bookmark. And you will come back and read it over and over again, knowing that same friend is doing the same with you! ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

So keep reading through the book and Iโ€™m sure you will find a place for your bookmark ๐Ÿ˜Š

Cheers and courage! ๐Ÿ˜‡

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