Hello, I am at a family occasion and it happened that I came across a person. Let his name be “Z” he is my cousin(dad’s side) who is 5 years older to me. He was the same person who used to abuse me sexually when I was a kid. He is talking with my other cousins and I’m sitting 5feet apart from him. I’m anxious and can’t even lift my eyes to see what’s happening. I’m dead scared. 😭
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Its not u who shud be scared of him … juss know tht …
Ikr!! Yet the thought of putting myself at guilt haunts me.
Thank you so much !! I’ll try to confront him next time if the situation arises and I’m old enough now to face him!
I sometimes feel I was sexually abused as a child. But the memories are not very concrete. I feel like I’ve created them in my head. I don’t know what to do
This happened with me too. And believe me, you didn’t create them. They happened, and they’ll confuse you sooo much you’ll start hating yourself thinking that it’s just your imagination and grow some mental disorders, like I did. Don’t be like me please.
Don’t get scared/afraid, it’s time to speak up. Head up chin up bravely and give him a bad look and it should warns him actually. You get this 💪🏻🤍
I agree but I have tried to do this but his looks are way more terrific . Although I asked my friend to call me and I excused myself to pick the call and left.
Never ever go alone anywhere okay? Stay safe . Keep updating till you back home 🤍✨
Yess!! I’m watching myself and being conscious about the person so that I’m away from him.
Glad 💛
I was 6 when this happened to me. I’m here for you.
I was six too. I can understand how it feels to be in that situation 😭 more power to you ❤️
Hey, believe me you have nothing to be anxious about. He is the one that has done wrong…I have to face the same situation more often than expected. You have done nothing wrong. Please don’t be scared or anxious
Glad that people here are atleast with me. I feel like I’m kinda safe to reach out to y’all. ❤️
Child never make the person on the other side feel as if you are scared… u might be scared but never give a chance for them to understand it… Rather let them feel the same …
Stay cool… Take a deep breath… You’re strong enough to face any circumstance. Be okay❤️
It’s kinda hard but will surely try to pretend that I’m not scared, thank you so much!! ❤️
Good kiddo… You can ❤️ You will overcome it💗
One day or the other all of us will have to fight our fears💚
Why don’t you go get a drink or snack for yourself? If possible make yourself comfortable … Alright✨
Yes, munching some snacks now !!❤️ atleast you didn’t misgendered me (like a guy did) and you addressed me with a gender neutral term like “kiddo, child” . I’m so happy now. Good night. 💛
Happy to know you have shown courage to treat yourself❤️ Fighting your fears💚 That’s great of you kiddo
Good Night💛 Take care
