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Anonymous

Hello I am 25 years old, doing my PG…I am the youngest one, have 2 elder sister.
Why do I feel irritated, anger and disinterested when my sister shares her intimate story with her fiancé.
I know may be I shouldn’t ask this here…but I really don’t know.
These are the things that sisters use to share a lot… Is it a bad thing if I feel like this …or am I so weird?
If my friend shares this story with me …It doesn’t feel like that at all.
But why does it feels so irritated, uncomfortable, anger everything at once when my sister shares these things…

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Anonymous

Maybe you are so connected to your sister that you never thought you both would discuss something like this and that’s why it triggers you

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Anonymous

Yes I am so much connected with her in comparison to my other sister.
I don’t know why it feels so… I don’t want to feel this way, but everytime it feels like this.
I had some bad memories in my school, she was the one with whom I talked for the first time, i always got first position in my class but never shares what I felt inside. I expressed my things to her …even 2-3 years back I had a downfall in my mental health. She was the one who helped me throughout…but still she is going to marry next year …but why I feel like this …if i am so much connected to her …should I feel like this?

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Anonymous

No,you shouldn’t feel like this but it happens…don’t worry.Moreover be more casual and talk more about these things with her so that it become a normal conversation between you two

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Anonymous

Kabhi kabhi Aisa lagta hai ki mai itni ajeeb kyu hu…sab aisi normal si life jeetey hai …aur mai hamesha apney me uljhi rehti hu… kabhi ye kabhi vo.
Aisa lagta hai sanyaas lelu…to aisi sab feeling he nhi ayegi…sabse door rahungi aur jaldi mar jaungi

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Anonymous

Are pagal ho kya,itna nhi sochte yaar🫂🫂
Ye sab cheezon ko mind me jitna laogi utna hi pareshan hogi

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Anonymous

Hmm I should make myself so much busy ki ye sab cheezey dimaag me aaye he na…

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Anonymous

Exactlyyyyy

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Anonymous

If you don’t mind,can we connect?

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Anonymous

Ok

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Anonymous

Can you comment from your I’d,I don’t have your I’d

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Anonymous

You can remove it,i have send you the request

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Nance A. @nance_agrwll

I understand that you feel disturbed.Well there could be alot of reason and before knowing the background of your relationship with your sister, it would be inappropriate to state any particular reason.

If you feel comfortable and want , you can connect with me and we can talk.

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Anonymous

You should take it in ignorant way, she is your own sister , she can choose to not share this, but if she wants to share them just hear , don’t listen
This way you will not feel irritated

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Anonymous

That’s the issue na …mere se suna he nhi jata …aur is tarah ignorant way me aur ajeeb lagega… Mjhey bahut down sa feel hota hai …may be I am an overthinker…may be not …I just don’t knoww

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Anonymous

Accha toh fir didi ki sun lo, ya didi ko bol do ki di aap atleast itna personal baat mat share kro mujhe awkward feel hota

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Anonymous

Yes…that’s what I did. I told her ki didi mai apse 6 years younger hu…to it is not as comfortable as you think, it is for me. Toh apart from other things ye share ni Krna. And I am always with you ♥️

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Anonymous

Accha bola, I hope unko ye smjh aayega

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