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Anonymous

Hello guys i am at very bad situation kinda struggling with it actually my age is 23 and my girlfriend age is 26 . Our relationship is going all good i am happy but my girl she told me long back also that future is not there and marriage stuff and so on so we can’t get married because of cast issue and something , she gave me open response like if u want to break up u can , but for me its very difficult to leave her .so guys pls let me know what i am suppose to do how do i deal with this situation

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Anonymous

Just continue for some time. It seems you are more invested in the relationship than her. It’s best you decide what’s good for you

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Anonymous

Exactly he seems quite opportunistic. Wants the benefits of the relationship and the entertainment and pleasure she provides . Not her

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Anonymous

Bro even if there is no cast issue , as a younger lesser earning lesser experienced guy you cannot make and lead a family . She can never depend on u . Women are meant to be dependent on husband after children . How can she be a housewife when children come when u yourself are a child . It’s not abt the caste or whatever . She’s 26 yr old women . Whereas u are a kid whose frontal lobe of the brain is not even developed. And when u are older , she will always look older and less attractive than u because of age difference. When u are 45 , her periods will stop and all her sexual enthusiasm will go . Your immaturity is reflecting by your question . Moreover she will want children and marriage at 27-28 whereas u will be a kid of 23-24 and will have to sustain the burden of providing for a wife and kids . Bruhh stop showcasing your immaturity and foolishness . I pray she chooses a smarter guy

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It’s disappointing to see such narrow-minded views. Age, income, and experience don’t determine one’s ability to lead a family or provide emotional support. Mutual respect, understanding, and shared goals are what truly matter in a relationship. Dependency shouldn’t be the basis of a partnership; it should be about mutual growth and support. Furthermore, reducing women to mere dependents is archaic and disrespectful. I hope she chooses someone who values her as an equal partner rather than someone who perpetuates outdated stereotypes.

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Anonymous

Providing for your family never makes them dependant . She brings different things . And asking her to contribute is asking her to do everything. Only a W/US’s like u will make the wife and children earn

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Providing for one’s family is a shared responsibility, not exclusive to any gender. Asking a wife to contribute financially doesn’t mean she’s doing everything, it means both partners are working together for the family’s well-being. Mutual respect and cooperation strengthen families, not outdated gender roles.

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Anonymous

🤣🤣🤣🤣. Lol it’s better she marry a women than u

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Anonymous

She provides physically men provide financially and security . Gro bals???

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Anonymous

Are from 1800’s Or something? If you “make” your partner do something without getting to know their opinion about it you are the ashwhole here, be it in terms of their work independence or sexual independence. And no one’s talking about children here other than you. It seems you got no valid point for yourself to divert it into something completely different.

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Anonymous

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. The fact u think that a women should provide for her family shows u are unfit for marriage as a institution. Stfu

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It’s a misconception to generalize roles based on gender. In today’s society, both men and women are equally capable of providing physical, financial, and emotional support. Assigning roles based on gender not only perpetuates outdated stereotypes but also undermines the diverse skills and capabilities of individuals. True security and fulfillment come from mutual respect, support, and cooperation, regardless of gender.

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Anonymous

The roles were assigned from the second she chooses to have children . And she becomes a mother . So if u want a family learn to do your role

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Anonymous

Ewww… Women’s existence is only there to provide for a man’s sexual needs. Man you gotta grow some bals fr. Thats just a digsting comment to demean a gender in whole. It’s men with insecurities and no real skills over anything who speak this way to validate their existence trying to dominate over other genders.

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Anonymous

🤣never said anything related to that . Grow some down there . I am sure u will make the pregnant women work

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Ohh…what does it mean “she contributes physically” 🥸🥸

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Anonymous

Take care of the children . Stop posting with a fake account . I can’t believe why a women would pay for her own pregnancy bills by marrying a gay w/uss

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Anonymous

Naah thenks. I’m happy enough as a woman. I would rather choose to be born some innocent animal than to actually become like one, who only exists to just procreate and to duck around with no other purpose in life and spreading hate over other genders with nothing good to do in life. I mean don’t get me wrong not all men are the same …but you are the example of despicable bal of shytt.

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Anonymous

I am sure your pregnant wife will work while u let her provide lol 😂

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Anonymous

🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Anonymous

Ashick paedo .

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Come on dude now you’re spitting nonsense stuff yeah obviously because you don’t carry any logic🥸🥸

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Anonymous

Let me ask u a logical question. Who pays for the pregnancy hospital bill ???

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Anonymous

Answer my logical question 🙋‍♀️

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If both them are working then they both will pay, if one of them is working then obviously he/she will pay

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Anonymous

Who pays for the pregnancy hospital bill

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Anonymous

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Ball less creature spotted . No female is brainless to rip herself into 2 to pay for it . Fatherless behaviour sensed

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Because she earned it I guess by her own choice for her own family She earned the mone!!y to contribute in the happiness of her and hers family Because every humans loves to put on efforts for their family in their own way. And theres no one way It’s a choice. That a true partner let’s their wife choose and not choose it for them…your comment is not only disrespectful but also displays a profound ignorance about women’s autonomy, repro_duct!v_e rights, and financial independence. Women make choices about childbirth based on various factors, including their autonomy, desires, and financial stability. Dismissing these decisions as solely the result of a man’s actions is not only simplistic but also deeply disrespectful. Women deserve to be respected for their agency over their bodies and their ability to make informed decisions about their lives, including their reprod_uct!v_e choices and financial independence.

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Interesting choice of words. It seems your vocabulary is as limited as your perspective

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Anonymous

And u don’t love her , if u do why do u love her ? Lol

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Hey, I’m really sorry to hear that you’re going through this tough situation. It sounds like you care deeply about your girlfriend and are struggling with the uncertainty surrounding your relationship’s future. Have you had an open and honest conversation with her about your feelings and concerns? It might be helpful to discuss your thoughts on the situation together and see if there’s a way to navigate through these challenges as a team. Remember to prioritize your own happiness and well-being in whatever decision you make. Take care!

@ashutosh_mishra

I have always asked her r u happy with me she is like i am happy with u its just cast thing is stopping me to marry with u

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Understanding her perspective on the caste issue is crucial. Encourage open communication to address any concerns or misunderstandings she might have. Additionally, discussing potential solutions or compromises together could help bridge the gap and move forward in your relationship…if nothing is working then you should just move on

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