thatboy @chaste_truck_3
Hello good evening
Me and my girlfriend are in a relationship for 1.8 years now and i love her for 6 years now we had an argument about her career so it like she wants to do mba and also wants a job that she can do while studying so one day she call me and told me that she is having a interview 60kms away from our home next city it is not a fancy job its a normal low paying job for a fresher and i got stressed and i spoke harsh to her and went little hard with my words and according to her i went little extreme and for that we did had talk for 5 days then I messaged her i am sorry and then she is like she want to end this is dont respect her which i do I really love that she is hustling and i felt she is getting distracted from main goal so i scold her then form day it been 3 days i am somehow make her believe that we can do better and stay happy together then yesterday night we talked for good and it was great we were having good time i felt we are getting good then in morning she was not replying to me then i asked what happening she said nothing then i gotta know from a friend that she has gone for that interview and she doesn’t want to talk about her career to me she told my friend it went great then when i gotta know i said best of luck ho jaayega and she was like what are u talking about still i said later that i am excited what happened she doesn’t want to share it ,i feel sad and dont know what to do i want to have beautiful relationship with her but she didn’t even discussed with that she should move do this job or not , i want that she should stop here in city and study for exam and keep trying to find job in our city if she wants to do , is she really moving to other town leaving me here leaving her mom here for little money I really love her shes a great person i want to make this relationship work , i tried to communicate but she is like thik hai tum nahi reh paa rahe to alag ho jaate hai but she admits that she loves me . I am sad and don’t knwo how to handle this situation if I oppose she will be offended again .
Yaar this life is not just about being in a relationship and loving someone, there are things thats need to be done at certain age.this is the age to go out explore yourself and be independent. She is doing the right thing. Stop worrying and instead of stoping her start supporting her. She needs you more than ever, if you really love her be her strength not weakness. Take care brother.
Usko decide krne do what she wants to do or not agar tum kuch khoge to it will be like tum usey rok the ho ya tokre ho shyd ye bat kisi ko b ni psnd har koi apne hisab se chlna chahta h life m … or agr vo tumse Sch m pyar krti hogi to tumhare sth hi hogi future m itna stress mt. Lo … people who really care for you they always find a way to b in ur life … or Uski Mmy k Lia uski mmy ko hi sochne do uski Mmy uske lia usko better smjha degi …
