Hello feeling very low …anyone to help me out basically the issue is family
What do you do?
Hey so the issue is i live in a nuclear family financial state is ok ok. Not so rich neither poor middle class we are both the parents are working. Since lockdown my family got affected from covid we are still recovering but i usually have conflicts wth my mom idk y i mean i love her tge most I’m a girl in 12th standard i do v. Much from my behalf alwys try to help her make her happy but usually most of the times she don’t become happy instead find mistakes in that to be honest ys I’m a bit lazy butt do a lot lyk these days i do the cleaning oart in tge morning then make chapaties for all some times wash utensils also but she is lyk nobody do anything for me i do evrythng for you all but whn i need u all do nthng… Nd rgrdng this today we had a fight cz i do evrytgng i can on my behalf but still she isn’t happy after all I’m also a kid only many of my age don’t even do this i dnt demand for anythng expnsve still she’s not happy w me dnt knw wht to do cryung since 3 hours still can’t find a solution to it
Girl this is basic indian mentality. You can’t do anything to change. Indian parents or u can say brown parents are like that only. No matter what u do for them they will forget and will keep fighting every now and then . although I can’t deny that our parents love us most. The way u love ur mother she also loves u problem is her understanding. I think u should talk with her alone or if u r not comfortable than either write a letter or send a msg to her about how u feel. U can start letter by saying mom I today I want to say u something I want to talk to u but before starting anything I want to say u I love you thankx for being my mother and thanks for providing me beautiful life. Mom I knw u r working out side and inside and u r exhausted and I understand that I try to help u as much as I can. Mom I try to behave like older but u knw I m ur little kid I can’t act like u although I try to keep u happy u must have noticed me doing and washing utensils making chapatis cleaning house. Mom my intention is not to showing u how much I do for u but I can’t take fight with u more. It’s impacting my mental condition do u knw yesterday I cried for 3 hours bcoz my mom is not happy with me. Mom the way I try to understand u plz I request u plz u also try to understand me. I have friends who don’t do even this much I m not aging they r right n u r wrong it’s juat plz help me to understand u .I don’t know exactly what u want from me. No matter what I do u keep getting angry with me. May be u r angry on something else and u can’t show ur anger over there so u r realising frustration in our relationship. Mom this is my teenage I also have hormonal disbalance this age is rebellious age I get angry easily bcoz I can’t see sadness and anger in our relationship.etc etc etc write ur own emotions . I knw it’s filmy but trust me darling it’s tried formula and 99% it works. Still if she don’t understand them leave this topic don’t mine what she says and complain. Ek kaan se suno dusre se nikal do and enjoy ur life. U r too young to handle all this unnecessary drama. Many couples out there don’t know how to be parents. I hope it will work. And little darling stop crying now be brave u cried enough for this issue.now smile talk to her and watch something which will make u feel happy. U can watch friends
Thankyou so much ❤❤ idk who u are buttt for sure u r a gem of a prsn 💜💜 this jst blowed me head!!! Ily for thissss ( dont jugde me cz obv 😅😅) but wht u wrote was just💙💙 thankyou so muchj!!
It’s the same with me too. Tired of staying at home with family this lockdown
Jst ignore evrry frkng thing what annoys u!! Trust me i too have started this ik it is not easy butt will surelyyy b able to this one day ❤ lots nd lots power to u 🤗
Kahani ghar ghar ki!
