Hello everyone this is a bit of a silly post so you can move on but I was just needing some help with something. So at the start of the year, I did this sport camp for three days and I met this boy there. He was rly sweet and he asked me out but I said no because we live 4 hours away from each other. lately tho I've been missing him so I text him. He hasn't responded for 3 days. What should I do?

Try calling him? I mean he's probably giving you the cold treatment now but I'm sure if he's really into you, things will in fall back in place.
If he's not, duniya ka end thodi na ho jaana hai!

I think he was just being nice to you because he wanted a relationship with you. 

Love

Hi!! Wish you all good days ahead. 
I don't know where to start from. Okay so I am a 10th grader. So there's this guy who was my neighbour, he had left our place long back.  He is 8 years elder to me. A week back somehow he texted me. I didn't recognize him at first but later we started talking casually about life and studies. After talking for hardly 2 days. He all of a sudden expressed his feelings to me. Being not at all interested in relationships I politely told him that I am not into all these and he should find someone better. He might have got hurted. He then told that he will wait for 4 years and will ask the question again. I didn't reply anything as this topic was too unexpected. He used to text me during his office hours. He was getting too close to me and I didn't want this closeness. I told him that he should not get too close to me and things might not happen as per his imagination. He told me that the more he talks to me the more his feelings grew. Then onwards I started behaving coldly to him. Yesterday, not able to see his replies, I don't know why I started to get negative thoughts and hence,  I texted him a lot but didn't get any reply. Today all of a sudden he asked me if I love him or not. I told him that it isn't love but I do have a concern for him. He then told that his ex has returned and he doesn't want to continue talking to me. I doubt that he is lying cause 2 days ago he had told that his ex is happily married. I didn't tell him anything. Now we aren't in touch. But I don't know why I am feeling guilty. I might have hidden my feelings from him but its just a crush and not at all love. Have I done anything wrong? Do I need to tell him anything now? 

Confusion

I think relationships were never made for me. This is my first, age being 23, and I'm not feeling so good abt it. Some of the days he makes me feel like I'm at the top of the world, and most of the other days I'm the only one who is trying to communicate. Are all women this sensitive or am I the only one? Don't men get this thing in mind what there partner is feeling or they choose to ignore it all the time? Why don't they communicate abt their true feelings? Why do they hide everything? These past few days I'm feeling that I'm the only one trying to talk and be there for him and I feel pathetic for that. I can also get invisible from time to time, but why can't I? It's easier for him, he has done this before, he knows his reaction to anger, mistrust and all the mood swings. He knows l how to control them better. But it's way tough for me. I always took myself as the practical one and now I'm facing this. He sometimes replies in a rude language, after a few texts bach n forth I do ask him if he's angry at me, he says no. His replies get shorter and he doesn't say what's wrong or what is bothering him. I don't think I'll be able to continue for long.

Boyfriend

It hurts me to see that the person I have loved the most in my life is able to move on easily. I have loved him for a decade and been together for 5 years but after every breakup I would run up to him and ask him to be with me. Never did he ever come to me after our breakup. Maybe once over text and he disrespected me that is why I got mad. He loves me but he is emotionally unavailable person. Doesnt let out his love for me. I crave his love. But I have promised myself to not stoop so low that I go back and he loses all his love for me. I want him to realise it on his own. I am not able to cope up. I am not moving on. He was my first and last love. I want him back. What can I do. 

Breakup

Me and my boyfriend was in relationship for last three years. Before that he was my bestfriend. Like we used to each and everything together. But as days past his had behaviour changes. Mee too. I was so possessive in relationship back then bcz why not my bf have past which made me do that things in this relationship. And this was my first relationship ever. I don't know being extra Cary and little possessive about own person will lead to break up. He break up with me 7 month ago. But till now we are in touch we live as a friend. He want me as a friend but now also I love so so much. I can't get over him. I love spending time time with him. But he always used talk to his female much more and even after our breakup he hugged and kissed his female friend. How could he do that. He does many promises to me that he will never leave me. Now also he hug me he cares for me but he doesn't want to be in relationship. How to dela with this?

it's 1:44 am, he didn't texted me from last 3 days , so i thought i should text him.....he was being rude and said he only texts me when he wants to. i didn't felt anything at first but now i am not able to sleep, it feels so heavy.😔

Life

I'm very lonely.... i don't have close friends to talk about what i really feel but i do have few people whom i talk to once in a while. Forever i have been alone when i was 16 i got into a relationship with my school friend. It was first time dating for both of us so it was fun.
I was already having problem making friends after i got into relationship i stopped putting efforts also this made me very dependent on my boyfriend. My relationship slowly turned toxic. He did a lot of things which is unacceptable. The things slowly grew from scolding to using cuss words from that to physical assault this happened numerous times then i realized what was happening to me wasn't right I tired to break up several times but my lonely ass accepts him every time he comes back apologizing but the next day itself he will do same things again. He took my weakness for granted he knows i am overly dependent on him so he cheated on me and i found about it after a huge crying stage i forgave him again and again he tried to cheat on me not valued the forgiveness i gave him. HE DOESN'T SEEM GUILTY ALSO. Yesterday i said him i want to break up since im not happy in this relationship he did not even reply for it. I'm still stuck in this relationship just because i can't move on.
I want some friends to talk about my feelings during my move on period that is the main reason im here

im also a anxious person who has family burden and problems getting out of this toxic relationship will help me focus on what really is important to me

Lonely

Guys I am so confused. So there is a person who liked me before. I also had feelings towards her but because of some reasons we could not be together at that time.
Now it's been a month since he has a girlfriend. Because of work, me and him should spend around 9 hours a day together.. I noticed, he still does the same things with me as before , such as playing around, use flirtatious language, taking care of me and.. expresses himself with gentle touch.
I am fking confused, what's happening or what reaction should I have? 

3am Thoughts

I want some advices please,
What to do if a relationship becomes obsolete?
(Please excuse for my bad english, i don’t speak it) 

So me and my boyfriend been together for 2 almost 3 years. Our love was like a dream for 1 year. 
Then the things suddently changed. 
For now it’s so bad… 
We spend more time together now it’s like we meet almost every day, but it’s not that good than it used to be. 
I don’t want to make this story so long, so our love survived so many things. 
One i was in a party with my best friend and a guy was tried hitting on me but i told him i am in a happy relationship but he did not seemd to care he kissed me. I immediately run to home and told him while i cried. He had the nerve to tell me i cheated. Then he forgived… Not to talk about how he never let me to see his phone even tho in a party he literally give his phone to his colleague girls to take pictures… 
However we argue almost like every day… Sometimes he thought it was ok to hit me… I told him if he do this one more time i leave, and now he stopped doing it. 
Last week we argued he packed my things and told me to leave forever. I was like ok, then halfway he called me and he was begging me to go home to him. I did because i love him to death. 
We’re okay now and i thought about if we didnt argue this relationship is still toxic because there is no passion. There is nothing to fight for. I am still madly in love with him but i feel like he doesn’t. He just clings to me. Even in bed there is no passion and we don’t do it often… 
I am still hoping i could save this relationship because i love him so much i would literally die for him. 
I just don’t know why he fell out of love or if he still do loves me why does not he show it to me? Because he was not like that before. 
So i would like to ask for a little help, how could i save this? 

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