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Anonymous

Hello everyone
I was in a relationship the boy never treated me right although he did tell me that there won’t be any future for us and he broke his promises so many times, but as we broke up for good even though he hurt me so bad I am not mad at him anymore .I want to talk to him again but don’t want to be in a relationship with him I know we were not good match for each other .But I still think he is a good person even though he was not a good boyfriend.I want to talk to him and be friends with him .I even forgot all the things he did to me is there something wrong with me ? Should I be angry with him .I don’t understand what should I do .

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Anonymous

I think it’s completely okay to be friends with him IF he treats you right as a friend. Every person is different in different relationships. Maybe if I’m a good friend, that doesn’t prove I’ll be a good girlfriend as well. If I’m a good mother, doesn’t mean I’ll be a good wife as well.

So, it’s okay to not feel angry right now and give him another chance. If he treats you right and stays with you as a friend, then it’s great otherwise please remember that you can always end the friendship and get out of the toxicity. Good luck!

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Anonymous

Thank you :)

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Anonymous

I am glad this helped! Do let me know if you have any other worries. Would be happy to help :)

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