Hello everyone, I want to share that my parents want me to go with them for an outing but I don’t want to go because I am having my pre boards in the first week of January. I have told them before booking tickets but they thought at last I will agree. I have made them very clear about this but now when the time has come they are blaming me that because of me they are not able to go. I don’t why can’t they understand it’s about my life and at last for their happiness. They will be the one who will be the most happiest person when I will score good. I am doing for them only and I can’t waste 8 to 9 days, it’s a big time. Can’t they understand that at this time I need their support. But they are against me, they are asking again and again. I have told them that if they want to go they can I have no problem. But they want me also to go with them. They are still waiting for my positive response, what should I do? Should I make them happy and spoil my carrier? Or… Make my carrier?
Hey you! See, if you go for the trip, you won’t be able to enjoy much yourself because you will be very stressed but your parents will be really upset if you don’t go. So why don’t you try and tell them to go for a shorter trip like 2-3 days? Maybe a weekend getaway? You can probably study in the car/flight and a little bit in the hotel as well. Try to get a balance and make your parents understand calmly about what you feel. Tell them you are stressed about preboards and that you can’t go for 8-9 days. Explain them in a very soft manner and don’t make it into a fight! All the best :)