I need some advice. I didn’t want to talk to anyone about this cause I’m kind of embarrased, but I’m going crazy. Recently, I discovered my mother is cheating on my father. I saw messages on her phone after I accidentaly found out about her fake facebook acount. At first I didn’t want to believe it’s true, but than I started to notice changes in her behaviour I failed to notice before. Also I found out she lied when she said she’s going with her friend and I saw some disturbing pictures on her phone sent to some dude. Now I feel digusted by her and by knowing all of this. I wish I didn’t find out. And since I’m fighting with anxiety, I’m not taking this very well and I think I’m going to explode sometimes.
But what bothers me the most is that I don’t know what to do now? Should I tell her I know? Because I can’t act normal around her anymore.
Btw sorry for any mistakes, english is not my first language.
Hey there, sorry to hear about all of that. A child should never be involved in shitty stuff like that. I won’t be able to help with advice on this specific topic but I kinda have experience in being the affair of a married woman. If you wanna talk about anything I’m here and I’ll do my best to at least give you answers on stuff I’m able and confident in answering. But first and foremost non of what’s happening is your fault and as sad as it is you won’t play a big part in how things will eventually turn out. I‘m happy to answer any question you might have or just have an open ear to unload your shit.
Hey, I am sorry that you are going through that. But in my opinion,
You gotta confront her. I know its difficult. But you have to. Doing the right thing is the toughest thing sometimes. But you gotta do it. Your father doesn’t deserve it. You don’t deserve it. If you don’t confront her now, someday your father will eventually find out. And who knows that day the situation might be worse than it is now. And you will regret the fact that you didn’t confront her earlier. And the fact that you didn’t tell your father even though you knew, will hurt him even more. So, don’t keep this burden on you. Bring out your father from the dark and do the right thing.
God bless you.
I have some suggestions but I need to know some more information so that I can select particular solution to you dear!🌀
Hi there friend, I read this and it felt like I was reading a journal entry from when I was young. I went through the same thing and have a little advice I can give. I agree that you should confront her and let her know that you know. Hopefully, that changes things but if it doesn’t, you cannot blame yourself. I never said anything it was the one thing I came to regret as an adult. It’s scary being a kid and experiencing something like that, I promise you will get through it. Be close to your dad! I will pray for you!