Hello everyone,
I hope everyone is fine out there. Today I’m feeling a kind of emptiness in my life. Cos it’s been a month since I spoke to the love of my life. Love can happen many times. Some fall in love at first sight, some fall in love because of the characteristics of that person but for me, I loved this person cos I love him. My love story is unique compared to others and through this platform, I just wanna show you guys the journey of my life with this unrequited love. So my journey with you guys begins from here…
What’s your favorite pass time? What would you do today if he never came into your life?
I know it sounds book-ish but can you pursue your hobbies or your life beyond one relationship?
He may or may not be coming back but let’s plan with an assumption that he isn’t. What should we do that would make us happy?
If he never came into my life probably I would have focused on my studies and career. It’s not that I’m not focusing right now it’s just that a part of me is also focusing on him.
In life, the relationship may be long-lasting or maybe an impact for a short time. We people lose our beloved ones because life is designed like that, nothing is certain. I can pursue my hobbies and my life beyond one relationship with memories of the one I loved the most cos u can part with people but not with their memories with you.
If I assume that he’s not coming back well I wish him good luck and that he’ll be happy where ever he is cos even if I want him back I can’t force him to come. I can’t sit and cry for losing him in my life cos some people rely on me and want me so badly in their lives. So having an optimistic thought about it, I would like to pursue the things which I want the most. And also think that the days or moments I spent with him will always be a part of me where I felt that even I can be loved and also left for some reason. I hope that someday I can be loved by a person if forever lasts.
You sound very sorted!
What about self love? You owe that to yourself?
What’s the next best thing that makes you happy?
Get a pet for an unconditional love. (I’m doing that today)
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CM2AgQehTAP/?igshid=15uhfijwvccc4
Found this!
Well, self-love is the most important thing because if u r not in love with yourself, you can’t love others wholeheartedly, because the moment u start loving people around you, at some point of time u get a feeling that you r not enough for yourself and u want something more but you don’t know what that is. Understanding my personality is the first preference for me because once I have dealt with myself, I’ll have confidence that I can deal with others. So my point of view is that we have to start thinking about what is better for us and also try to manage our emotions. This doesn’t mean that I have to be selfish, it’s just I’m taking care of myself. I have started to meditate and write day to day basis about what I’ve done in my dairy and this makes me understand myself and somewhat I get relaxed by doing this.
The best thing that makes me happy is talking to my mom cos she’s my strength at all times of crisis.
And about getting a pet, I’ll consider it. Thank you.
