Hello everyone, I am new to these forums, I am a relationship and soul mate enthusiast and have always sort of perceived a greater oneness between the genders and that the relationship was the ultimate thing. I never have been able to find the one yet, I always have the thing where one is seemingly more interested than the other one but I have started to alter my perception of beauty and considered things like what the girl will look like to me, in the environment that really matches her and the life that is done together, I am looking totally for that soul mate but the biggest problem is I have all these ideas of the oneness we should have, you know where we sort of have the same soul and spirit between us and our minds are completely aligned and we are truly in the same state as each other and are therefore predictable and consistent, where we purposely take time to go a little deeper, intentionally to get to that common soul root that we share, where we are as close as the child we have together, where we are truly one person. I was wondering what other people thought about the idea of things like having one profession that both people are equal partners in, having things like a double wide casket so that we are never alone and always nearby, things like sharing a common spirit and belief system between us. In fact, I was thinking about getting married and then in the spirit of that Marry, conceiving of a common understanding of the religion, such that it is like an immaculate conception, where we give birth to the same ideas of the God/Spirit between the two of us. I don’t want people or girls to think I am weird because I think about this stuff a lot trying to bring out my strengths and make myself comfortable to talk about them. I am a lot like that Heart Attack song by Demi Lovato, where I think if I ever fell in love, I would just die, plain and simple, emotional overload, beyond the ability to handle it. I figure the soul mate thing is good to talk about and here is a good practice it, so that when the time comes, I don’t have to have a dagger, straight to the heart…Thanks for any that respond with ideas…oh, I have a ton on this and maybe we can start a little chain that goes to the very depths of the soul for boys and girls on this topic. I wonder if two people could be consciously unified such that they could be in each others dreams, I was watching a video on witchcraft (I like all spirituality that I like) and a girl was saying about entering into peoples dreams, I wonder whether it could be mutual…Anyways, have a nice Sunday night, I will be working on my profile and will interact as well…
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