Hello everyone,
I am a 40 year old east Indian male living in the US.
I have a serious addiction to secretly cross dressing.
Up until February 2019 I was able to go out freely, go to work etc and wife was going out as well and hence got lot of private time, since kids went to school too. so until then I used to cross dress with my wife’s clothes and some secretly hidden clothes. I wear from undergarments until accessorizing and I also chat with strangers online showing off my get up. I was doing this every opportunity I get. Now with covid 19 I have not been able to do this because my wife and I are staying at home all the time with kids and it is driving me very crazy. I am not able to concentrate on work and not sure what to do. I am literally thinking about it all the time and going crazy. Please let me know what shall I do. I need help.
Hi. Have you looked for for the word ‘transvestite’ before? I’m sure you must have. Just so you know you are not alone… And honestly I’m not a psychiatrist or something but this is pretty much okay I mean if you Enjoy cross dressing do it for fun, whats the big deal… Also don’t be so ashmaed of it or something… Open up about it with your wife, I hope she understands… Or open up with some psychiatrist if you feel like it… But don’t be so afraid please.
You don’t have to be ashamed about anything. This is you and I am sure your wife loves you and will accept you for who are. Just remember that you are the most important person in your life and in doing what you like and enjoy there is no harm I think you should open up to your wife. Even I am indian and I understand it is hard in our society to accept things like this. But I just want to tell you love yourself and own who you are
I am terribly scared to open up to my wife about it. It will totally spoil our relationship is my understanding. But I will try a psychiatrist or any other person to open up.
