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moon @moon_star

Hello everyone,

Hope you are well.

I just want to share my small story and want suggestions from you guys.

So few months ago I met a guy who is cute and understanding but I do not find him that much attractive at that time but he kept talking to me and I also i like to talk to him. i change my city as well for 2 months
And still we were connected. But know I am back in my city and I realised that I am in love with him and I expressed that he also want to date me before and recently as well. But had a conversation few days and don’t know what happened to him. After getting idea that I also like him he is not behaving as before he use to do and now he looks very interested. Don’t know what happened now i like him and him in life as my partner. Don’t know what to say and do to him .

Please let me know your thoughts on this.

and

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Anonymous

Talk to him directly.

moon @moon_star

I have give him clear sings and we have planned a date as well on same call but after seeing his response i cancelled the date I don’t want to force someone because that’s not love

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Hependra Singh @happyuzuma...

But you have to try , atleast give it a shot. Maybe you misunderstood the situation.

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Anonymous

No you can discuss with him that you are noticing some changes in his behaviour.

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Anonymous

That guy sounds kinda like me 🤦🏻‍♂️.
I always get scared about everything and think that it’s better to be alone cuz I don’t wanna be a burden to anyone or what if I unknowingly hurt people I’m close to? I know it’s kinda stupid 😅 but that’s the reason I don’t get too close to anyone.

In your case…you can just talk to him and tell him that it’s gonna be okay. Some people need too much of reassurance…but pretty sure they’ll always be by ur side.

(it’s completely my prospective and might not be the actual case though…advise from a novice)

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Anonymous

Thanks for helping me out you guys are amazing i feeling way better and have a vision in my mind that what should be the actions thankyou 🙂

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Anonymous

Hi

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Hello

Krishhh_ @krishhhh_

Uff… If he’s gonna let you feel hurt rn on an excuse of not hurting you in the future… Is that love? 🙃
Let him go, you can always love someone without restricting that person to yourself. If he’s willing to not be with you on the excuse of a future possibility of things going wrong, he’s prolly not that invested in keeping you…
Time will heal you, move on. Keep yourself engaged in other thoughts which would improve your mental health.

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Anonymous

Thanks yrr🙂

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Anonymous

Do one thing clear data and cache of and then login. Maybe it’s a glitch it will resolve after that.

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