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moon @moon_star

Hello everyone,

Hope you are well.

I just want to share my small story and want suggestions from you guys.

So few months ago I met a guy who is cute and understanding but I do not find him that much attractive at that time but he kept talking to me and I also i like to talk to him. i change my city as well for 2 months
And still we were connected. But know I am back in my city and I realised that I am in love with him and I expressed that he also want to date me before and recently as well. But had a conversation few days and donā€™t know what happened to him. After getting idea that I also like him he is not behaving as before he use to do and now he looks very interested. Donā€™t know what happened now i like him and him in life as my partner. Donā€™t know what to say and do to him .

Please let me know your thoughts on this.

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Talk to him directly.

moon @moon_star

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I have give him clear sings and we have planned a date as well on same call but after seeing his response i cancelled the date I donā€™t want to force someone because thatā€™s not love

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Hependra Singh @happyuzuma...

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But you have to try , atleast give it a shot. Maybe you misunderstood the situation.

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No you can discuss with him that you are noticing some changes in his behaviour.

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That guy sounds kinda like me šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø.
I always get scared about everything and think that itā€™s better to be alone cuz I donā€™t wanna be a burden to anyone or what if I unknowingly hurt people Iā€™m close to? I know itā€™s kinda stupid šŸ˜… but thatā€™s the reason I donā€™t get too close to anyone.

In your caseā€¦you can just talk to him and tell him that itā€™s gonna be okay. Some people need too much of reassuranceā€¦but pretty sure theyā€™ll always be by ur side.

(itā€™s completely my prospective and might not be the actual case thoughā€¦advise from a novice)

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Thanks for helping me out you guys are amazing i feeling way better and have a vision in my mind that what should be the actions thankyou šŸ™‚

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Hi

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Hello

Krishhh_ @krishhhh_

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Uffā€¦ If heā€™s gonna let you feel hurt rn on an excuse of not hurting you in the futureā€¦ Is that love? šŸ™ƒ
Let him go, you can always love someone without restricting that person to yourself. If heā€™s willing to not be with you on the excuse of a future possibility of things going wrong, heā€™s prolly not that invested in keeping youā€¦
Time will heal you, move on. Keep yourself engaged in other thoughts which would improve your mental health.

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Thanks yrršŸ™‚

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Anonymous
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Do one thing clear data and cache of and then login. Maybe itā€™s a glitch it will resolve after that.

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