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Hello Deariesss,

This is an official welcome for all you lovely folks of Now&Me 🧡

So many of you are new to the platform and have already made it your own. And that warms our hearts.

Feel free to introduce yourselves below & make new friends if the welcome thread is too busy!

Additionally, here are some quick links to make Now&Me easy for you to navigate:
📚 Resource Hub: For Helpful Articles, Experts, Crisis Helplines
🗓 Events Calendar: For all the latest info on what’s going on at Now&Me
✍️ Feedback Thread: For any kind of feedback you’d like to give us about the website, how it’s working for you, whether you like the design, any suggestions…we’d be more than happy to hear from you!!
FAQs: For all of your most pertinent questions
🌟 Community Guidelines: To know what’s acceptable and what’s not!
🏷 Tags: To view all the tags that exist on the Now&Me platform

We’re all here to serve you, so please don’t hesitate to reach out to us. You can email us at community@nowandme.com too!

Remember to always be kind in your interactions but never hesitate to report a bully!! We take the safety of our community very seriously and are very prompt to act on your reports.

Hope Now&Me is able to help you find what you need and is your place of comfort.

Sending love, warmth & good vibes to all you cuties 🐻‍❄️

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Bani Singh @banisinghvasir

Welcome, everyone! We’re so happy to have you join us. 🎊

Janmesh @janmesh

Thank you for creating such a good platform! It’s going to be a safe place to talk for many of them!

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Bani Singh @banisinghvasir

Thank you @janmesh, it is because of good & kind people like you that Now&Me is able to exist!

Janmesh @janmesh

Hey ma’am! i’ve a suggestion can you please work on inbox here? Because after sometime in comments when we get someone to talk i usually don’t prefer ig or snap to be a safe place!

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Bani Singh @banisinghvasir

Thank you so much for informing @janmesh! Glad to hear your suggestion. It is very much in our plan to release a chat option super soon 🤞🤞🤞
Will keep you updated!

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Anonymous

True

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@ananya0608

Thanks alot I recently found about this…and a ton of regards to you and this team… somehow you guys help in many ways…where people fail to understand… atleast here we can share

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Simran @st1199

Hello!
Glad to have you here.
Yes, you can be your most true self without any fear and hesitation. 😊💛

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Anonymous

Hii there it’s the first time I’m here, I spent my 2020 doing nothing I didn’t do study whole year. I feel worthless, People of my age are confident, they have some extra skills in themselves, They are happy … And here I am who can’t go grocery shopping by myself, it’s not anyone else’s fault than me. But I am confused I really don’t know how to handle this situation. I don’t know how I’ll pass my exam… My anxiety is getting worse I am an overthinker. I make plans every day but can’t work on them …I feel so lonely sometimes 😥
(sorry for my bad English )

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Simran @st1199

Hello!
Don’t be sorry, it’s completely okay and we all have some of the other things which we are not perfect at.

You can try and share it with us about it and maybe we can help you?
Try to work on yourself and improve rather than comparing it with others as that will not bring you any happiness. 😄🌈

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Anonymous

Yesssss I will give💯 % ☺️🌸

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Simran @st1199

Great enthusiasm, keep it up!!💃💯

@nehahaha

Hey!
Don’t worry. You are not alone. I’m also in the same boat as you. Sharing some areas that I am personally working on.
Try to come out of your comfort zone and do things you will not do otherwise. Take baby steps to improve yourself and do not be hard on yourself. Understand that nobody is perfect.
Hope this helps!😊

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Anonymous

its such an innovative idea thanks a ton for this app it was needed the most:)

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Simran @st1199

Hello!
Thank you for those words, it means a lot. 😀🌸
Happy to see you here and excited for you.

@workinprogress

Hii,welcome❤
But anyway I’d like to ask nowandme app? I am still using the page so could you please let me know whether it is available on play store already?

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Simran @st1199

No, it isn’t, but we are working on it. 💯

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Anonymous

From a long time I feel like I know the issues that I have to deal with but never get the push to actually do something about them.

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Simran @st1199

Hello!
Now you are here, I believe we can be of your help in some way.
You can share with us and we’ll try to help you out? 😊🎈

@pippa

Hi, I think coming on this platform is breakthrough since you are one step closer…
Have you tried reading self-help books? They are uplifting and direct you to start with small steps which build on to your whole personality. Hope that helps. Keep going, we are all in this together.

@shutup

Have you ever been in a situation where u don understand yourself?,that’s my day today I feel hopeless with life…they say love is beautiful,is it really? If yes thn why do I feel stress every other time? …he will be nice when he wants to and when u complain ur childish like yeah yeah right?!..I don understand what love is I don’t understand why thr is ego in love… I love u but I don’t deserve to be sad every single day because of u …I have my damn exam yet I choose to stay awake and talk to u what’s your reason? I am tired gotta sleep …sometimes ur not even sleeping I Donno what u do but I just know u don sleep…ths all sound like a minor thing but its hits me hard every single day and I wanna get through it …none of you know me here that’s y I feel so free to talk to y’all …peace out

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Simran @st1199

Hello!
Are you doing okay, today?😃
You should talk to him and tell him how you feel because that’s the best way to know his intentions and he’ll know yours. In love, there are downs as well sometimes more than what we expect but both the persons should know how to handle that and overcome it because you both love each other, right? 🌼💙

@pippa

I am sorry to hear that. If he is being emotionally inconsistent and negligent, I would suggest you to try to talk about your feelings to him. If he is dismissive or maniupulative, then as hard it is, you should consider breaking up. No boy is worth your mental health and peace of mind. You deserve better b!

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Riva @rivadhingra

Hola everyone!! To all the old & new members, SO happy that you all are part of the Now&Me Family!
Let’s talk and get to know each other. You can share here on the thread itself 🧡🦋

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@jatin456

What does hola mean…is this a spiritual mantra spread positive vibes at this platform where already n. No of young person already demotivated…Why not start with some positive mantra…Om, Hare Krishna, Shiv whether u believe in spiritual things or not…make me admin or start following me on Instagram kanha ka pagal…Hare Krishna…I am always highly motivated because my inner Krishna is so strong because I chants more…As u wish how to handle the inner Krishna to tackle outer ill forces…God always bless u a lot…

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Sneha Anand @sneha08

Hola is ‘hello’ in Spanish.
So glad you are a spiritual person, you can surely share your insights here but ofcourse different things work for different people.

Thanks for sharing and you can surely share more of the meditational or your experiences of motivation here.
Have a good day! 🌻🌻

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Anonymous

Hola means hi in Spanish. It’s incredibly funny to me that you wrote a long as she para on spirituality and God knows what and you didn’t even know what holy meant it 🤣😂😂

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heyyyyyy wasssup

@mohitkumar

problem yahi hai ki krishna mere ghar k staff ka naam hai,apne bhai se ek email id mangi thi,par fir se mujhe galat samja gya ,hanesha ki tarah,10 din me tum kisi ko kitna hi jaan skte ho.
Hai to hum log up k hi na.
The best ive received is to be judged.
Thanyou again,society.
Coincidence tumhare life me kam ni huye hai,man se dhoka khane k bad itna bewkuf ni hu ki itna aaram se tumhe samajhne bhi deta.
Par h to societt na.
okay chalta hu.re read karna chahiye tha,par thankyou again.

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Anonymous

I have been engaged now for like 8 months and we talk almost everyday about our daily routine and everything but I have no new topics that come up in my mind to talk about!! How do I start something new?

@pippa

Hi, Watch a funny standup comedy video or even documentaries based on your mutual interest. You could also cook together or get a dog or start gymming together or learning a new hobby.
Hope that helps.

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Simran @st1199

Hello!
When you talk about your day, come up with some experiences which you faced or had once. From one conversation have 2 more new/old things being connected.
Have new things to share like a hobby, interests, traveling, etc. 🌼🌈

@kindness1

Hey, maybe you can plan an online movie night with your fiance. Be on the video call while you guys watch the same movie/show together.

@pippa

Hi,
I have been feeling aloof and want to cry. I had a fallout with my friends and miss them dearly.

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Simran @st1199

Hello!
You can share with us, your feelings?
Crying is the best way to feel calm, I do it and feel good after that.😄💜

@smriti26s

Hey!! You can share with us here. We won’t judge you and maybe you’ll get some new friends as well! 🌼💜

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@companion

Heyyy
It’s good to see people caring about people and I’m glad to be part of this.
Thank you so much for taking this initiative.

Let’s change the world together!!

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Simran @st1199

Hello!
Thank you for those words, and yes, we’ll build it stronger and make everyone believe humanity still exists. 🌸💜

@smriti26s

Hi now&me fam!
How are you all? I’m feeling like I’m lost and tired of crying after every 2 hours. No hopes of living anymore.

@thequeen

Hi Smriti… I am too Smriti… Dear pls don’t think in that way… We love you and you are important. Pls reach out in case you are thinking extremes. We can help each other out.

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Simran @st1199

Hey!
I am fine, how about you?
Maybe vent with us so that you feel lighter?

There are many reasons to live despite rejections, failures in life. We just need to find them and sometimes it comes to us automatically. 🌸💜

@smriti26s

Yes I know I don’t want this option either but I’m 23 and I really don’t want to live with my parents anymore. They’re forcing everything on me. I’ve started hating them.

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Simran @st1199

Find a job/master’s for yourself out of that city. Be rigid on some decisions they force on you? They would have to understand then.

@thequeen

Finally found a place where I can vent my anger, disappointment as well as happiness without being told that my feelings are are because of overthinking and just an assumption. But we all do know what and why do we feel a certain way.

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Simran @st1199

Hello!
Yes, exactly. Deep down we are aware of it and know even in the tiniest way of it.

Glad you are here.😄💛

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Anonymous

I wanted to ask will there ever be offline meetings ?

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Bani Singh @banisinghvasir

Hey there Anon!
We’d love to organise an offline meeting if you’d like. Right now, we’re taking all our precautions due to COVID and organising as many online meetups as possible. You can join one too: https://nowandme.com/now-and-meet-and-greet-hey-fam-its-qPd1fD_m7

Hope to see you there!!

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Anonymous

Hi, it’s been 3 months and I have regret and can’t forgive myself. I hurt someone who loved me only because I was emotionally impulsive at that moment. I lost that person and feel I will never find anyone who will love me because I don’t deserve love

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Simran @st1199

Hello!
Then go and message them and talk it out. You’ll feel better that you took the step since it was you who broke the friendship. Give them the chance and take their time then. But communicate, there are chances everything gets back to normal. 💜🌸

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Anonymous

Hello! Everyone makes mistakes, always it doesn’t matter how bad it was if it was a mistake, you should tell that person how you feel and be completely sincere, if that person doesn’t react well even after some time maybe they don’t deserve you, it would be unfair to not forgive someone that is sincerely sorry, but give that person some time and see how things turn out, but whatever the answer is remember that there are other wonderful things in life

@ammmmmelia

Hi I know it’s kind of late and you’ll probably never see this but. I’m reading a book right now and you ever just relate to a character so much that you want to cry. In ACOSF by Sarah j maas, the character nesta is going through a self character ark and needs to work out some stuff inside herself. But she just made a big mistake. And now she’s feeling hopeless and she doesn’t feel like she deserves to live. And sometimes I kind of feel the same. Like would the world be a better place if I was gone? Am I a waste? Do I deserve the privilege to live? Anyway I’m just wondering if that’s ok. If that’s normal. That in the pit of sadness in everyone that only sometimes comes out when your crying and down on your luck, throwing a pity party for your self, that there a tiny voice that whispers, ‘you don’t deserve it, the world and everyone in it would be better without You around.’ Any way I kind of just wanted to share this, to let someone know. I hope this doesn’t make it weird when I see you next. You know what just for get this ever happened, and just bye

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Simran @st1199

Hello!
It’s okay to feel this way sometimes and ask yourself certain questions. All this came because of the book you’re reading, right? Despite this too, one should ask ‘meaningful’ questions to oneself and know your true self.

In actual everybody deserves to live. What makes it worth it depends totally on YOU. 🤝💛

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@dr2527

Hello all!! To all the old & new members, SO happy that you all are part of the Now&Me Family!
Let’s talk and get to know each other. I love this platform because we are comfortable here in sharing our thoughts and feelings.

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Anonymous

I have some kind of relationship problem, not exactly problem but kind of dilemma, need someone to talk

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Riva @rivadhingra

Hey! We have a Q&A this week on the 13th with a professional, who might be able to help you. Feel free to ask your questions here https://nowandme.com/q-and-a-with-dr-rashi-agarwal-on-march-13-8MsG5kjt3

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Anonymous

OK

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@mayank4

Have you ever had a day when you were at your home but still want to go home? Sounds weird but I am having one of those days.

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Anonymous

It might be the feeling of being home … Do you miss anybody?

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@mayank4

Well I recently went through a breakup

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Anonymous

Well That might be the reason

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Anonymous

Hi my overspending has really been a burden on mee my just for the reason of being cool I overspend my parents money now I am in a debt of 25000 rupees .

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Anonymous

Hello
I am new to this site. I recently had a horrible unexpected break up. It has emotionally mess me up. I didn’t see it coming. He had flaws but so do I. I tried hard to get him back but I have saw things and know he’s not moved on. In the beginning I wasn’t into him but I allowed myself to be vulnerable and give him a chance. I am depressed. I am care giver for my mom, living with a friend and my job is ending. I hide my feelings because I dont want to drained my friends with my unhappiness.

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Anonymous

I meant I saw things and he has moved on

@srav1234

Let’s havewords

@gwen

I just need new friends

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Anonymous

i am dead person who is still alive… i am tired of all the bullshit that goes in my life

@srav1234

Let’s have words

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Anonymous

Hello you all. I have a little problem I can’t seem to let things go I always have them in my mind even if I’m working or doing anything and it affects my productivity a lot. Like i had a fight 6 months ago with an important person and it hasn’t left my mind ever since. Also i get these terrible flashbacks from my breakup and physical abuse in my family. Otherwise I’m doing so great in life and I love because i worked a lot on myself. If anyone has any tips on letting go pls let me know.
Love.

@sangeetas

Hi All, I hv joined this to share what I hv been bothering me since past 2 yrs hope this is a good decision and I can pour my heart out without worrying abt anything

@srav1234

If u want we can have words

@heartbroken

Heart broken

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Anonymous

Do you ever get over a betrayal or should you even? When everything else in my life is literally perfect and beautiful, it sometimes feels inappropriate to toss all that for that betrayed feeling… on the other hand… the feeling never goes away and
I feel like a different person all together! Happy on the outside, torn to bits inside…

Anonymous

Hi everyone,

I am actually new to this and ran across this page because I was having a hard day but I’m more than happy to be a part of the family. ☺️

@bholusrivastava1698

Repeated intrusive thoughts.
Unstable emotional regulation.
Out of body experiences.
Alternating between feeling numb and striking out in retaliation.
Inability to stop scanning for any new data that might cause more distress.
Feeling overwhelmingly powerlessness and broken.
Needing to regain self-worth by assigning blame.
Confusion and disorientation.

Anonymous

Here from Insta Reels!

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Anonymous

Hey everyone!! This is my first time posting here and I want a suggestion about my anxiety.
I have anxiety since 2 years and it’s been a while I got to know about it completely. Day by day it is becoming more and more difficult to do my daily activities. Should I talk to my parents about this? Or should I take care of this matter on my own by following the internet?

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Anonymous

What is the reason of ur anxiety?

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Anonymous

It is not a specific thing I am constantly worried about everything that everyone is either looking at me or talking about me. I am guitarist and I stopped playing guitar I front of anyone and only play it when I am alone. I check under my bed before going to sleep even knowing there will be no one under it.I also stopped driving because I constantly think the people on roads are looking at me. Even before speaking about anything or before talking to friends I think more than once and all the while I will be thinking about how it will be good if I am not there in people’s life. I want to die but I don’t want to commit suicide . I know I don’t sound sane but that’s what I am thinking for quite some time now.

@onewhomustnotbenamed

hey ) why do you think that people who stare at you will be passing a negative comment ? people get notice something which is beautiful and precious , so if someone is seeing you means there is something special /unique about you . they might be admiring your talent .its high time , you need to take your guitar from the corner and play openly .
go grab those keys and drive as far as you want . let them stare at you and get jealous for not being someone like you . love and appreciate your innersole )

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Anonymous

Thanks for that @onewhomustnotbenamed

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Anonymous

Helloo I suggest you to talk to your parents, even thought everyone says talking is the best thing you can do I’m pretty sure it is, it could depend to who your talking too but if you find the correct person I promise it will be a relief, it’s like of you got rid of the negative feelings, and if you don’t you could find someone in a app like this one, there always will be someone :)

@sikoo

Idk where to begin from but I’ve started seeking closure in person I meet… like I was in a relationship for 4 years but then we broke due to some issues but now I want that thing back what I had with him which makes me trust wrong ppl and idk I fear of loosing the person i met just a day ago…

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Anonymous

Idk if am loved by anyone out there! Now there’s this things going like my parents won’t lemme go out wid my male frds I’ve tried to talk to them like a 1000 times that not everyone is bad , I’ll make you talk to them but they always deny for no reason, i never go partying as there are my male frds, they never buy me a dress i really like just because it’s having some sort of square neck line , i mean that’s not even a rsn, if i share ppl wearing short clothes or stripped tops, they would say me they wear , it’s not allowed in our families,i m not even asking to wear that at family functions, just for party purposes wid my female friends, they won’t even take me to trips and then shout at me for constantly using phone, I don’t even remember the last movie i actually watched, might be 3-4 years ago, never got on a trip/ picnic for a day! Why is life so hard? There are so many rules and regulations idk where i have to go, i became an introvert from being freakin extrovert person, they didn’t even noticed how my communication skills got so freakin poor , I don’t like ppl i just want my phone all the time or else i m bored nowadays, what will i do when i put my phone down, they don’t even let me drive vehicle so i cna drive upto a frds home or don’t even lemme go to their homes while walking and I’ve literally won their trust a thousand times but idk where they’re getting this from!☹️

@avanee19

Hey everyone. Idk how to introduce myself mostly. It’s like i suddenly forget my existence. But lemme tell u the main reason i am here. It is because i had no one to talk to. I never had many friends but recently i dont have any of them. Right now i am just feeling empty and wanted to share with someone. So here i am. Idk if this is stupid or pathetic. I just dont know.

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@therandomguy

Hello everyone,

2020 has been a difficult year, lost my job, got depressed, started faking my emotions because I cant tell my family that I lost my job and what I am going through. Now I dont have confidence and I am confused where to start from, have already faced alot of failures, cant take anymore.

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Anonymous

Being unemployed hurts badly. I can understand your feelings right now bcoz in my life I have been through it. My advice to u is sit with family and talk to them start with hey mom n dad we need to talk. Tell them u r jobless tell them u r vulnerable tell them u need emotional support. Cry if u feel in front of ur parent. Don’t be hard on ur self. Family really loves us and understand us m it’s just we who don’t feel sharing things with them. And lastly keep looking for job either small or big. There is a say is duniya me hamare hisse ki roti fixed h hum apna hiss pura milke rahta h. U will get a job eventually. Till them keep trying to learn new things improve your skills and u tube is always there make video for ur side earning. U tube takes time to grow like 2 to 3 years but it will be always ur side earning money. All the best bro/sis . Have faith in u in god n in ur destiny. Time will change

@aashi123

I don’t know… I’m just sad and feeling really empty. Can’t sleep

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Anonymous

It’s been 4 years of being in a relationship and since last one year we’re in long distance.
I’m completely in love with this person but now I feel that he’s getting irritated by me. He was so caring and honest buy now he keeps secrets and hide things. From the past 5 days I’m crying because we are having fights but he is just okay with this. He says do what ever you want to do
If you want to stay you can and if you want to leave that is also okay. I can’t leave him. I’m so attached that I’m scared that everything will end. I don’t want to lose him.

@sainani6996

Hello
Don’t worry even I also faced this situation
Jst do one thing don’t argue with him Jst be calm and stay silent

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@anonymouspanda

Heyyyyy!
I am sorry that you are feeling this way. You sound like a lovely person who cares and loves deeply. There’s one thing you can do - read and re-read what you typed, break down everything you said, and read in between the lines.

As a reader, I can tell you, with a heavy heart that it’s over for him. What he is essentially doing is putting it all on you so that you get tired and break it off from your side and he gets to say “She broke up with me, she kept fighting with me” And he will take no responsibility for how he made you feel. He is playing with your psyche without you realizing it. Psychological Manipulation. Honestly, I’m sure in 4 years, you know, how good he has been with you but this behavior of his is just unacceptable, asking you to take responsibility, getting you to beg and cry. If a person is completely fine after a fight, trust me, the person never cared, it doesn’t affect how you feel. It’s not about “not wanting to lose him”, hon, he has already left the relationship. This drama happens when it’s about to end. You are seeing the signs and you know it but you don’t want to admit it.

YOU WILL COME THRU THIS. YOU ARE BRAVE. YOU ARE EVERYTHING THAT YOU NEED AND NEED TO BE RIGHT NOW. IT’S TIME TO PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN AND BE THERE FOR YOURSELF. BE IN THE BEST RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF AND YOU’LL FIND A MAN WHO LOVES YOU EVEN DURING YOUR 100TH FIGHT. THIS IS LOVE. BE KIND YOUR MIND AND YOUR BODY. STAY MENTALLY STRONG. LOTS OF LOVE <3

@pekmez

This is soooooo wholesome I love it, kind people cor kind people. Wish all of you the best life and thank the developers for such a wonderful and helpfull site

@rioandmilo

Hello! Hope you are doing well. This is my first day first post. I was looking for a place to share my feelings and emotions. So many things happening and it is overwhelming. With nowhere to go and nobody to talk to I have started feeling lonely. I have left my country and living in a place where nobody speaks English. People are lovely but I’m lonely. I have been trying to learn their language but since I just stay at home now it’s not that easy. Would have liked to have some friends.

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Anonymous

Hi,
I hope you’re holding up well now.
Sending you love and peace.

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Anonymous

Hey everyone,
Really glad to have a platform where you can just talk about your feelings. Would love to have some advice on a matter that my best friend has been struggling with for some.tome now and I don’t know how to help her. Would love to hear your thoughts and comments. Hope anyone would reply seeing this and would help.
Thanks.

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@nanumomin

Hello wonderful pple, I have been having difficulty expressing myself to pple and this app is so helpful as I can express to random pple who feel the same way as I do. It’s so helpful to talk. I have been feeling down lately. I am very emotional and little things get to me. M lost at times and don’t know what to do with life.

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Anonymous

I’m new here…I don’t know what exactllly to say…but m hoping for the best

@sprinklingshit

I don’t even know what to write… I don’t have someone with whom I can share my feeling and random stuff. No friend like that, my parents are there but they just understand me for like half an hour? and they forget everything I said the very next day. So no point in talking to them. I feel super lonely as if suffocating kind of? And to top that we have been locked up in our homes for the past 1 year. Lol. That’s just hilarious.
Well, that’s why I am here, Imma just write shit I am feeling and go through them one at a time. Since my capacity is full and I am studying to get a degree, I cannot just keep them in if I want to absorb new things!

Nitin @nixjngra1123

If anyone need to talk I’m here
I’m a good listener

@nikhill

I have a shortage of friends. I have some normal friends but not those with whom I can share my thoughts. What should I do?

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Anonymous

Hey guys
I found out that I’m a bisexual male and people tend to talk less with me when I reveal this.
I don’t know what to do but I really enjoy being a bisexual.
Anyone there who can suggest a solution?

@hind

Hello
Have you felt before that you only thing you want to do is sleep and eat and you know what to do work your life but at the same time you hate that feeling
Thats what I’m feeling I’m completely lost

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@sethias

Helo everyone! Joined yesterday. Bottled-up with thefeelings upto the neck. But its festive season so HappyHoli to all!

Anonymous

Hey… Thanks for the plateform to say what actually someone feels… Bcoz sometimes it’s really exhausted to say even a single thing. Bcoz I really wanna talk to someone about me and the mental issues I am facing. Last 4 months were very difficult for me someone left me for nothing or maybe for something and after that I am not feeling as well as I always were… Am not in my teens i am 25 and I can handle this but this time it’s really getting hard for me to deal. With this… Everyday am getting more and more lost and damaged.

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Anonymous

I don’t know, what is happening to me…
But, I feel so low, and I want to tell something,
I loved someone and we were so close, and we never met yet, but I loved him very much. And we had some little little issues and we stopped talking, and after some time we started talking again, then it just happened again, now we are like strangers. But each and every moment I think about him and I’m crying and crying and I don’t know why? But he doesn’t care about me. Now I hate him a lot for making me feel bad, but still I love him, but I don’t want to love him anymore, but literally I just can’t…he is the only one who hurts me more than anything… Because once we were so attached…

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Anonymous

i am sorry that thats happening to you! i have been through it too

@anotherloner

Hello everyone. Wow! I didn’t know this place existed until a couple of minutes ago :)

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Simran @st1199

Hello!
Happy to have you here. 😀💕

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Anonymous

Some traumatic incidents never leave your life. Instead they hinder your capabilities and your will to live. I lost by life 1 of my closest person in 2016 1 in 2018 and 1 recently in 2020(my family member) and now 1 person 4 months back. I am so shattered and heartbroken inside that now I constantly live with the fear of my loved ones dying anytime soon and what would I do without them? That fear is so Instilled in me that I am not able to continue my life and also I suffer from pcos the root cause of which is my stress and overthinking habits as my cortisol levels were high few months back when checked diagnostically. It is affecting me physically mentally and spiritually in all the ways. I can’t take it anymore some days I really feel like giving up and leaving this world as even my grandmother is old and sick now and I don’t want to see her going I am so tired of people leaving this way my heart in broken pieces.

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Anonymous

I want to put this out there , advice me!
Some Back Story
So , I met a guy in grade 10 in an online class(that class had people from around the world) , he was living in Abu Dhabi , and I was in another country in SEA . He then reached out to me , saying “Hi”. We then talked for a week and had conversations on the respective countries we live in , like really general topics. Then I had left the class , and the last text we interchanged was just saying that we got a CGPA 10 in that grade.
During that conversation , he kept me engaged , really my type.
Fast forward to completion of Grade 12 , remember 0 interaction in that span of 3 years. I finally get instagram , I weirdly remember him , and then add him. After judging him from his profile , etc , he seemed like my type and I can say , I was really into him . After following him , the only interaction we had was liking each others posts and seeing each others story.
Now , Fastforward to 2021 , we both are in first year of Uni (he is in canada , me in uk). And recently , he wished my a Happy Birthday , with MY NAME (REMEMBER , SUDDENLY , After no interaction for 3 years , I was actually shocked seeing the dm ) , He sees all my stories (after understanding the instagram story view chronology , he is always on the top) .
Basically , I like him alot , I dont know how to go about this.
I am really focussed on making my career , at the same time I want to let me know that I have feelings for him. What if I miss that opportunity , and goes with someone else , I will regret.
At the same time , I am scared to let him know about it.
So yes , haha , help!!

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@sincerelyberrie

hello! a new member here! 💗

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Simran @st1199

Hello!
Welcome to the Now&Me family. 🌸🌈

@anymousgirl07

Hello every so I’m trying to learn korean is anyone interested in teaching me korean for freee coz I’m broke TT

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Anonymous

Hey…i just wanna talk

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Simran @st1199

Hi!
Talk out, all ears.😀

@franklinwonders4

Can anyone explain notable points in a nutshell from all the links such as community guidelines link and other 🙂

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Simran @st1199

Hey!
The guidelines are too long to read?🙆

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Anonymous

I don’t know why I feel sad and miserable no matter where I go or where I fit in. I’m always left feeling sad and lonely. I don’t have any siblings either. I don’t have any job at the moment too, have been looking for jobs but haven’t found it yet. I’m an engineering-about-to-graduate student, who hasn’t done miraculously in studies either. I don’t understand why I can’t take a break in life and not feel miserable and lonely. I don’t like to ask for money from my parents and I’m broke right now as well. I have grown really fat because of induced stress and don’t have any good clothes left to wear too and I don’t like to ask from my parents for money to buy some. I am ready to do odd jobs or work at a bpo or something but my parents would consider that as a failure and hence wouldn’t let me live away. They pretend to understand me but deep down they just really care about the results. I have so many ambitions and things to do but neither have money of my own nor any encouragement of any sort from anyone. I do have friends around me but, it’s always me who surrounds his life around them, they never really do that for me. There’s a constant stress of finding a job, major project, having money to explore the city and buy some clothes, stress of being alone and miserable. I don’t know how to take in everything.

@franklinwonders4

Hey buddy, I don’t know u but according to studies and my own experience by doing physical exercise or any movement to burn calories will make a person happy in just a week and I’ve started meditation which I didn’t understand much and still is trying to understand but it calms my brain down from overthinking (it’s like a hot bath in a cold weather) take up a diet, try one step at a time cause I believe that big things take a lot of small efforts and some failure also.
Then try to be friend with someone who really cares but understand one thing, there’s always give and take relationship in every matter 😇 and if u want an early to hear or listen to u I’m here and do the same for me 😅

@source2319b

I searched this in a spur of the moment while I was feeling emotional. I hope that I can finally talk about my feelings without them being disregarded. Thank you in advance.

@parkrirang

Hey. This is my first day on this website and I’m actually really excited. I honestly don’t know how it works yet but I’m hoping I’ll be really comfortable with it super soon. I’m glad I came across a random reel on instagram and found this page :)

@nishu05

Hi people!

I really don’t know what life has in store for me. Even after trying so much to reach out for help to people. i have zero friends. I go without talking to anyone other than my parents for months. Loneliness has been my constant since years now and I want to stop feeling like this.

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Anonymous

Hello ma’am I’m new here. I’m a teenager battling wid too many secrets and tons of emotions.🥺

@anneal

I need help I’m just terrified from everything around me

Fatema @fmdentist

Such a great initiative… You guys are doing great job! Because nowadays finding place where you are not judged is rare!

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Anonymous

I have a friend whos really annoying and shows off a lot. She just keeps talking about herself and never lets me talk. I feel frustrated. I did start to cut her out of my life but then i start missing her and i go back to her. Everytime i go back to her i feel the same frustration again. I dont know why am i like this. I feel like i am going crazy. I just want to stay away from her and dont want to think about her at all but i dont know how

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Anonymous

Hii!!
Was feeling a little low today. Don’t know how to express the feeling…

@sv55

Hello all

@sv55

I don’t know why but I’m lacking something. Because most of the people talk with me only when they need my help otherwise no one talks with me casually on daily basis and that really hurts.

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Anonymous

I am feeling very insecure in my new work place. I feel my job can be taken away from me which I have just joined a month back.
I am a sole bread earner in my family.
Though I have highlighted some points to my boss who is a president of the company but I feel I have made a mistake as I don’t know what he might be thinking as he has not responded to my suggestions which was not asked for.

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Sumit @cuteerror

Namaste, I’ve been recommended this app by my mentor @ankurwarikoo sir. I thought of giving it a try as I found this interesting and unique platform to help someone or to get help from someone.
One ❤️ for the creator and thinker.
Looking forward for an amazing journey here.
Thank you

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Simran @st1199

Hey!
Glad to have you here and hope you have a wonderful journey with us. 🌈🤝

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Anonymous

Hi, I am glad and surprised at the same time that this kind of platform exists and I am too late to join.
Anyways, I am new to this and I hope my experience would be great and won’t be like any other networking app . Thnx

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Simran @st1199

Hi!
Welcome to the family and surely you will have a great time here. 💙✨

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Anonymous

Hello
Im introvert person I want to talk with many people but I don’t have that much courage to mingle easily
Some times I feel so much lonely so I need new friends who helps in my communication skills

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Simran @st1199

Hey!
This can be a good place for you to talk and know people. 😀

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Anonymous

Yeah
It’s a better platform to share our views

@ihavenofriends

I have no friends and I’m failing school
And I just feel like no one never wants to talk to me

Sakshi @hereforconvo

Hey !
Been there !

Don’t be too hard on yourself , people don’t always stick around .
Work on feeling complete on your own !
Find stuff you enjoy doing in solace
Grab a diary to share your feelings with !
And trust me , during the process , the right people will find their way to you !
Always remember , no friends is still better than bad friends !
Breathe and work on yourself !
Things will be better soon ! XOXO

Sakshi @hereforconvo

Hello Everyone !
I’m new here !

Really looking forward to listening to y’all and sharing stuff too!
This is so gonna be my everyday rant place !

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Simran @st1199

Hi!

Glad to have you here and we’re all ears, buddy. 💛🌻

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Anonymous

Does anyone know where I could do anonymous PTSD counseling in english online?

@krishmaedison

Hiiiiiii… I m new to these kind of things… Hope i can get a gud frnds and gud vibes …

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@arindamb

Hey everyone. I was in a toxic relationship for a full 8 months. I was physically abused, mentally disregarded, un-supported and victimised. Then she eventually decided to cheat me because according to her she was not having peace of mind and I presume her peace came in the form of sleeping with another guy and getting into a relationship with him in a week without me realising that I was being cheated on (because I was out of town). Now she is trying to cover up her footsteps with the statement that I used to physically abuse and that forced her to leave me. Maybe I should have physically abused her or at least thrashed her the very first day when she raised her hands on me. I did not because I had hope that she will understand one day. If I had physically abused then she would have been in a trauma centre instead of shifting to another guy in a week. I am not asking for a poll here but I realised that it does not really matter (sometimes) if you are a male or female, what matters is your nature.

@preetkaur28

Hi,
It’s my first day at nowandme. I am in isolation from past few days and have been feeling very lonely. It’s weird for I do have friends who are checking up on my health but nobody really talk beyond that and I feel so helpless and lost for I’m not able to convey what am I really feeling. I still feel lost while writing this.

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Anonymous

My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago. We were in a relationship for 10 months and knew eachother for 19 months. He told me that he doesn’t want a relationship right now and wants to focus on his college and career. He doesn’t want the responsibilities of a relationship. We met in feb, had a blast, gave each other our personal things. He gave me his school hoodie, his dad’s band which he never too out, and a necklace. Almost 1 month later we have a breakup. I am so devastated. People tell me that i will move on, its gonna be alright. Many have told me he won’t come back. But how do i get myself to believe that after everything we have been through? I tried talking him out of it, some of our friends did too. But he didn’t budge. He told me that its not gonna change anytime soon. He had told me in feb that he loves me more than himself and his family. But then in march this happened. He knew it was a selfish decision. He liked me way before we started dating. He told me that and i rejected him. Still we remained friends. He waited for me 9 months. How can i let it go suddenly? How can people change so drastically? He broke my trust too. He didnt cheat or anything but it was something not good for me. We got so close to each other in such a short time. We told each other things we hadn’t told other people before. We weren’t just boyfriend/girlfriend, we were best friends too. I have lost both of them and i dont want to. Idk if he will come back. I want him to. He told me this once that if we ever breakup, we would end up together again unless someone has made a big mistake. People have told me to have no hope but i dont know why i have that small, little hope that he will come back.

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Shawn @shawndza

Hello all lovely people Shawn here 🙋🏻‍♂️. Nice to meet you all

@tani1703

Hello Everyone
I am depressed from past 6 months due to pandemic and upcoming class 12th board exam which keeps on postponing. I wanna share my feelings. So anyone here??

@shaggydynamoo

So brace yourself because this is going to be a long one…

In general, I am a pretty confident person in all aspects of my life and I am very optimistic since I feel I have some sort of control over them and I can maneuver whenever needed.
I have been single since I graduated which is almost 6 years now. I have trust issues and sometimes it gets difficult for me to take someone on their face value and I don’t like to judge people because then all I would see are their flaws, I try to better myself by each day. That is why I feel there is no way possible I’d be able to let go of myself onto someone else. The only guy I trusted completely was my brother and I had entrusted my future to him. Unfortunately, we don’t see eye to eye and I despise him as a human being, and now It is very difficult for me to equate myself with a guy anymore.
So, I became this very confident, self sufficient and content woman who doesn’t need anybody.
Until this random guy likes one of my pictures on social media and starts following me there. Thinking that I might be knowing him through mutual friends I followed back. We chatted a few times but since I had a project going on, it started out as a half hearted conversation. but he was very kind, understood that I was an overthinker, talked to me the way I would be comfortable. We realised that we lived very near to each other but still we couldn’t meet because of my work schedule, but he was very patient in that way. At that time his work was not at it’s peak courtesy covid-19. But we did end up meeting one day late at night, I was very hesitant in expressing my emotions during the chats, so I decided to smoke some joints before meeting him only because I knew my feelings would be on minimal since I had started liking him. He was talkative, I liked that and he was funny, he was calm and very honest.
The next day, he texted me saying that he liked me very very much. It was a good time really, I loved this experience. I used to have flings with foreigners before this guy and I was very confident and fine with them because they didn’t know much about me and my privacy used to be still intact.
Then came his projects and he would simply forget me for hours/days on end. It bothered because I couldn’t hide my feelings no longer.
So, I was the first one to say that this won’t work and we should stop talking to each other.

Guys, this is a very long story.
Lemme know if you want to know more, this is already too much,
Sorry. I am an overthinker and I write too much - that is what he would say. He told me that I should be a writer.
I know it was sarcasm but yeah.

@rohithdarisa

Glad to be here. Thanks for creating and running this website, to the ones behind this.

@singer15

Hey I am feeling numb since days I don’t know why.

@siyash

Not feeling good. Crying
Regretting my decisions from the past. Feeling helpless. Do not know how to sought things out with someone who doesn’t give a damn about. Feeling pathetic.

@mv408

I feel like that too

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Anonymous

Why do you think people hated me? I know I’m annoying but I prefer to know the truth than to feel it. I rarely chat with them because I know they also need time for themselves. I’m jealous as hell. Not obsessed but is it bad to ask once every 3 months or once a month of conversation? There’s also this one friend I avoid for years not because I hate that human, but because I am shy. I set boundaries on my own. I’m afraid to be judge as a gold digger. I’m a weak person.

Ifrah fatima @3rsha

Hi everyone.
I am just a person who have gone through alot like you all. I had been bullied by my family, friends as well as lover. They all just want me to work as per their comforts. No one ever gave me a chance to be heard. I am done being pressurized by everyone… All this gives me suicidal thoughts every single day. All I can think is to either die or run away… I am tired of this shit… No one ever ever ever listened to me. I just want someone to pour my heart out… I had been holding it all since a long time… 🙂

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@zephyrandgales

Hola folks! Just joined… :)
Any fellow students here who’s feeling suffocated by the last 1.5 years of online classes & schedules…? (":

@sadlady

I’m so sad and unhappy right now I don’t know who to turn too anymore

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Anonymous

Hi you all, I have never used a platform like this before. I think I mean to say I have never talked to strangers online ever before or at least in the capacity I wish to talk here. This is a difficult time, I haven’t been out side of my house in over a month not even to buy groceries etc. I wish to drive my car, meet my friends, to dine out, to visit a mall maybe, to meet my boyfriend, to meet my grandparents and close relatives. I have caught myself thinking this entire month of going back, going back to normal, everything was much more tangible, enjoyable and suddenly it feels like things changed.
The past year was not this hard, I invested my time in myself and really grew and learned but this time it appears to be so damn hard. Nothing seems enjoyable, there is so much to do but my motivation is going downhill. I have great friends and I can talk to them but recently nothing seems to help.

@enyaxrose

It’s hurts and I’m not sure how to stop it.

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aprajita @aprajita09

Hello everyone,
I have been dealing with difficult people ar work.One of my coworker is such a bully.She lies to everyone and about everything.Controls other coworkers with her manipulations and still remains as a helpful and caring person.I dnt know why people cant see through her.
She manipulated me too last year and befriended me,got to know things about me but when I realised she is not a good person and always has a hidden agenda it was too late.still I tried to maintain distance from her but now she uses the information abt me against me.I fear she might harm me professionally as she is close to boss too and obviously keep feeding her lies.How can I show her actual face to everyone?specially my boss who trusts her blindly.

@yellowbelle

Hi, everyone! 🤗

@inalifeofjujubees

Thank you… sometimes I feel really lost and low.

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@drkp45

I just discovered this platform …via a twitter thread …m super excited to express my thoughts here …it’s just the perfect place for mi I think …today is my first day …so if I make any mistake pardon mi 😀🙏

@stallion

Greetings Everyone, I am new to the platform and am still trying to figure my way out on here. I am a woman whom is open to helping others and I am also a listening ear free of judgment. Feel free to DM me. All is welcomed but I am mainly looking for women, as we relate more closely with personal issues.

@neglected28

Hi! I’m new here. I hope we can be friends. 😊

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Anonymous

Am sad, confused… to accept things as it is bcoz God has a better plan… have to move on…

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Anonymous

I’m tired of everything. I hate myself. I hate the way I talk, act, feel, think. My life seems like a loop on a never ending cycle. I have no friends who will listen or even care about what I have to say and my parents will criticize me for it. I feel like I’m wasting my days doing nothing. I feel like I’ll grow up to be a failure. I’ve already found out I’m part of the lgbtq and if my parents find out they will probably be so disappointed. Sometimes I wish I could move to northern Italy and live in a nice villa there with 3 cats, plants, a farm, and a pen and notebook in my hand.

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Anonymous

My heart is broken. My only child will not see me or speak to me. She is my only love. And always has been. She is my best friend and my purpose. I am lost and lonely without her.

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Littlefoot @littlefoot

so glad that I found you! ❤❤❤

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@alex5709

One sec AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Just had to screem thanks for you time

@pavankalyanb313

Hey everyone, I am Pavan

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@thor

Hope you are doing well. This is my first day first post. I was looking for a place to share my feelings and emotions. So many things happening and it is overwhelming. With nowhere to go and nobody to talk to I have started feeling lonely… I sometimes find it hard to Articulate my thoughts so sometimes I can’t put my feelings into words… My eyes are teary all the time I’ve lost everything… From my parents to my siblings and my daughter… I try everyday to regain my strength but most times I just can’t and I feel like a failure… I use to be very social but now I’m not… I feel so disconnected to people because I feel like I’m not good looking enough… Not clever enough… Not enough in anything to get them to be interesting… I just don’t know know what to do anymore… I want to start afresh and rebuild my life but I just can’t…

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@weirdotakugirl

Hi…So sad…I’m trying to restart my life too [personal reasons]. Hope we can be friends…Um… I’m a really shy or nervous person… If you need someone to talk… just talk to me on one of my post… if you want… Nice to meet you…

@red869

Hi im Olivia…I just someone to talk with know judging. I shared my thoughts about 5min ago. My husband just came back yesterday because she’s been gone for 14 days in quarantine when he came home yesterday hasn’t really talked to me hasn’t been intimate with me a
He just read the news it and he just goes to sleep. any thoughts anyway

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@weirdotakugirl

Hi…Um thank you for greeting us… Hope we can be friends… I have trouble to express my feelings… Nice to meet u all😞

@allas

M feeling sick

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Anonymous

I am feeling all alone, my spouse will not support me and value my feelings. Though I am earning he restrict me for everything… he wants me under his control I hate this slavery life

@kwalker

I need help. I don’t want to share my emotions or my feelings with anyone, so I jsut keep it all to myself and bury my problems, until I let it all come out at once and it’s breaking me and my parents bond.

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Anonymous

I had to kick my disabled brother out today 💔 im a horrible person and a horrible mother and everything is my fault I hate myself and I lost my faith

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