Heeey.
I’m new here.
Well… I want to tell a part of my story. Oh! Btw. Please, forgive me for my bad english. :(
I’m 20 years old and I’ve never had a boyfriend. For many times I was the one who took the first step with the boys. Most of them went out with me to meet me, but after that they didn’t talk to me anymore. Maybe you think my personality sucks, but It’s not that because they loved to talk with me through messages. That’s why I came to the conclusion that my body is the problem. Yeah… I’m a little fat, but not too fat. I have 65 kg and 154 cm.
But still… I don’t know. I always feel alone and I cry every night because I’m home alone and I have nothing to do. I’m and I have the impression that life passes me by.
Yes, I have friends and I still have fun with them, but usually they are busy. Some of them have boyfriend/girlfriend.
Hello friend,
First of all your personality doesnt suck. And your body isnt the problem. never let anyone or anything make you believe otherwise. You are a lovely person. If boys dont talk to you then its their loss. You cant blame yourself as the problem for that. It isnt fair and you deserve better than that.
And as for the lonely part, i totally get you there. I’ve never had a boyfriend because i thought i didnt need one. And i have been doing fine. But there comes a point when being alone can become a little tiring. Sometimes you just want to be taken care of, to know that you are loved and understood and needed. I get that. But even though you are alone, you are not alone. I hope that makes sense. You have these wonderful people in your life, your friends and family and they dont always have the time, they are here for you. But you will have to be there for yourself first. Maybe you will find the right guy someday, but until then do not let your relationship stats define who you are.
And if you feel lonely, we are always here. You can talk with me if you want.
Thank you so much for your answer
Yeah… I feel alone all the time… Yesterday snowed and was wonderful and I really felt the need to go out and walk with someone special, but I ended up sitting on the couch, looking out the window.
There’s is just an exemple.
I know that I have to be there for me, but sometimes I’m lost. I don’t know what to do. Due to the fact that no one is attracted to me, I lose my confidence.
You are perfect the way you are.
Don’t let the stupid guys demean you
You must have a great personality if people love talking to you.
To be honest a good personality matters more than looks …because looks fade away.
And there are many guys who don’t care about looks and love you for as you are.
You are awesome. Don’t forget that
😃
Don’t self-doubt. Trust me for girls its very easy to get into a relationship.
Being an M25, never been in a relationship. And it’s very tough to get into one at this age because don’t know how the game works!
I think when the universe takes something away from you, it means that you deserve something or someone better. You are a beautiful piece of soul, my dear. Time will come that you’ll thank those people who left because you’ll receive someone you deserve.
You need someone who accepts you for who you are and not how you look. No one is perfect. So just be happy. Having good looks doesn’t make you beautiful.
