Anon @jesse1968
He talks to his ex everyday and she still tells himenshe loves him. He gives more of his attention to her than me. But he says she’s just a friend and he loves me. I don’t know what to do
Anon @jesse1968
I feel like he is. Im trying to talk things through with him. But he refuses.
Anon @jesse1968
I love him so much
Sisyphus @sisyphus
It’s better you guys talk it. And resolve.
Anon @jesse1968
I’ve been trying for the last week for him to come see me and let’s talk. But he says I’m too childish.
Sisyphus @sisyphus
May be he is afraid to talk. That’s why mostly men avoid to talk. It’s not that easy to talk. Take your time and keep yourself up.
Anon @jesse1968
Thank you. I’ll give him some time.
Sisyphus @sisyphus
Relationships can be complicated. Nothing goes on a straight line.
You may be going through a hard time. But this will pass. Keep power.
I am going through something same. I’ll tell you - you deserve to be with someone who doesnt make you feel insecure with anyone, esp not his ex. And this is a red flag. Bigger red flag is him not wanting to talk about it. What happened with me was that my guy started missing his ex out if the blue one day. And then started pinging and asking her about day etc. He still cared about her and possibly has unresolved feelings. He also told me that when he used to be with her together, he used to find her very playful and attractive, which he finds missing in our relationship. But he said he also cares about me and doesnt want me to be alone and that he would like to have 2 girlfriends. Not just that, he would always fanboy on diff girls he would see on his instagram.
All this hurt me a lot, definitely I questioned myself, still doing.
So, I broke off with me. I love him. And it’s hard. But this is for the best.
(Should I have created a new post altogether? I still need help with this 😅)
Anon @jesse1968
Oh my goodness. How could he even ask for something like that. Thats horrible. It’s ok thank you so much for sharing this.
Godwin @godwin
Let me say the truth, even it’s hard and bitter.
He’s just time passing with you, and trying to use you for passing his time, to have lust full talks when he’s in the mood, calling when he’s bored, only giving little efforts, tries to hide few things… Etc …,
Just stay away from him, don’t be obsessed with him, make ur circle bigger and this won’t affect u much…
Stay Strong Queen👑👸♥️
Anon @jesse1968
I’m so hurt right now in so much pain. He’s hurting me just because I want to work things out to talk things through so we could understand and love each other better. I’ve been pleading I called him stupidly he said would today. So I waited whole day. How could he hate me so much.
ARIF AF @aarif
I can understand that feeling.iam also in that situation don’t worry let’s hope for the best.
Anon @jesse1968
Seeing how many other people are also experiencing this makes me think how can people be so cruel and use peoples love.
Anon @jesse1968
I think I know why he won’t talk about anything. I think I’ll leave him alone now. I’m drained. I’m hurt. I’ve given up.
