He says he loves me and I am the love of his life but doesn’t want to get married to me. He says he wants to work on his career. I told I can wait if he asks me to and I can support financially too. All he says is if we have destiny to be together we will be. I had a big breakdown infront of him, didn’t talk for 2 days and then we got back together. I love him so much and I don’t want to miss him, I am just hoping we will work out. I have so much pressure abt marriage from my end, seeing grooms for sake of my parents and also I feel like Im running out of time. It’s very hard to give up on him because I know it’s everything I wanted.
He needs to give you commitment too. Just as his career is important to him so should be you. You can be supportive of him and wait, thats your commitment to the relationship , but what about his commitment? Aise ‘destiny mein honge to saath mein honge’ waale doesnt like to take responsibility to be honest. As much as you love him and cant leave without him, consider this for a moment, uska commitment kidhar hai ? Talk to him and ask him clearly as to what he wants. Whether he in or he out ? If he asks you to wait, how long do you have to wait and are mentally prepared for that ? If he doesnt give you clarity, you gotta move on (i know its harsh but it is what it is)
*can’t live without him
Suffered a similar situation, waited almost 3 years after confronting him my situation only to find out his decision remained the same of not getting married. I loved him too much as well n the fact that I will never find someone who gets me as he did, who was in fact a statement of Mr. Perfect for me… but eventually the wait had to be over. I felt I shouldn’t wait n wait n wait n just be his gf. So my love, pls be wise… have it figured out if he can fight the world for you… or else you have the answer !
