He ignored me eventhough he knew how much I cared about him...and so I was upset and didn't messaged him for a few days...didn't even checked his snaps..but today he messaged me...and when I saw the message my heart literally clenched...I'm not gonna keep up with him anymore 

Yes..don't be...take ur time and value yourself first than him ..

So now you know if he cares about you or not

Crush

my friend and i are kinda fighting like idk what I did wrong I asked him about it but he is not ready to respond or do anything if I'm texting him he's replying but if I'm not then there is no text from his side I really don't know what to do. should I try talking to him again or don't do anything??


3am Thoughts

How to get over someone you love?

Breakup

I am with this guy for 3 months, he is a businessman. He is the kinda guy i feel good with,  but he and i have different life goals, he lives in delhi and has a pretty normal life, however i work at an mnc and i am an ambitious girl,always wanted to explore world and njoy life. He is too determined not to leave his parent's and want a simple life. I am ok with his choices but he is not even ready to adjust for a small thing for me. If i share something related to my job with him, he says you can purse and do anything but I won't be able to join you anywhere as i have my business and family here. We are having a good understanding i always feel attracted and happy with him, but when it comes to these things i feel i will always be th one to make him understand or sacrifice. Dont know what to do, its hard to leave him as he is the kinda person i want.



 i  i will 

Growing Up

Is it wierd that i let my boyfriend control me amd shame me for not agreeing to what he wanted me to and i found nothing wrong with it and kept blaming myself for making him feel insecure and not puting enough effort. I let him cuss me. He asked me to chose me between him and my dream carrier and of i course i chose carrier . He flipped and said i cld do whatever i wanted to. But still i dumped him I felt like i was being a bitch for leaving him. And now my life is fucked because i cant be decisive about anything and my hobies, dreams and talent dont exite me anymore. I dont feel like doing anything. I feel like shit.

It's been more than 20 months that my ex has broken up with me .... I am still stuck in the past ...I've been trying for last one and a half year to move on but just when I think I am making any progress .. I find myself at the starting point...and today I made the mistake of looking at his insta profile and I saw that he has already found his love again...It broke me again ...I don't want to feel this ..just wanna get away from everything...and there seems to be no escape...I feel like I am trapped.

Lonely

It do feel stupid when we are fighting about man....

It all start 4 years ago when I have crush on this guy(he is my friend classmate)...being her classmate she do know about my feeling toward this guy and us( my 10 girls) always make fun of it...but little do I know she is quite close with this guy and his younger sister....my feeling toward this guy was serious and how can I not be angry when my friend that know my feeling to my crush and like purposely getting close to him...

But as to protect our friendship I ignore it and be like 'yeah they are classmate so unpuposerly they will getting close right' so just let them be them...

As the end of school year I gain all the strength and confess to my crush...and guess what I got rejected......his reason was he like someone else...and yeah that year end pretty tragic for me... 

Start next year school session on early February I got to know that my crush who rejected me are dating my friend who knows my feeling toward this guy from the beginning.....

It is my fault to be angry....if you're on my shoes what do you think you'll do.....

And now four years has gone and you just still can stop being so anxious about i might still your man huhhhhh



Friends

I have a crush on a boy named Alex but my parents don't let me have a boyfriend 😢What should I do? 

Boyfriend

I like a guy but when my friend asked me if I liked him I said no....coz I didn't want anyone to know....that friend told him I didn't like him....y did she tell him that....now he doesn't reach out to me ..he doesn't talk to me ......I told her I liked him then and asked her y she told him....Now he thinks I don't like him....but he likes me .....it has been months now....I don't know if he still likes me....
Today I saw him after many months....my heart was beating like crazy....my hands were even shivering....but I didn't go talk to him..it felt weird...and he was surrounded by girls...
Later he texted me he saw me ...but who he saw wasn't me....he mistook me for someone else... that's what he said....idk y but it hurt when he said that
I keep thinking about him now and it hurts


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