He I am here as I am all alone.
I dont have any of them with whom I can share my feelings.
It isn’t that I dont have friends, I have but for me they aren’t that trustworthy.
I am sharing my story.
It goes here…
I was in class 9 and I was in a relationship witha girl. We were in the same class and used to stay in same hostel near our school. That year was going fine but on 31st december my parents came to know about us.
They were sad and werent haply as that was not my age for all these stuff.
Soon after the vacations i went back to the school and told her i could continue with this as this is not the right tym for us and I went back to my class.
After a month one of my friend started spreading rumours to every girl in our hostel that I was asking for my gf nudes and blah blah… And thats the reason she broke up with me. And the year passed away with those rumours spreading. Soon after days we were appearing for our boards. 2 days before our maths exam she(my gf) and that friend went to the warden the owner of our hostel and complained about me that I was the one asking for nudes and other things.
I tried proving myself but i was not able to.
Soon after we finished our boards and my parent came to take me back.
Sur called me in the office and he narrated everything to my parents.
I felt ashamed of myself what have I done. I have spoiled everything. I confessed my parents I havent done anything. They told me okay beta we beleive you. But I have let their head down because of the girl and that friend I chose tto be with.
Many things have changed now.
Its been 3 years and i am scared to trust someone with whom I can share my feelings, everything I want to.
I dont know how to overcome this.
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