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Anonymous

He doesn’t trust me …u know
The situation is I should talk only to him.I have to switch off my phone in night.I shouldn’t use any social media. I must use whatsapp only to chat to him. Tell me what should I do .

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Anonymous

Run!

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Anonymous

Thanks.thought so 😂

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Anonymous

A controlling guy with insecurities. Red flag. Talk to him, if he doesn’t listen leave him

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Anonymous

Thanks for supporting …going to do it tomorrow itself

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Anonymous

Breakup…dont mess your life over anyone

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Anonymous

Bro . he’s toxic…talk to him directly about the matter…or just leave him

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Anonymous

Being possessive is something else. even if you aren’t doing anything he can’t ask u to switch off phone at night not use social media etc. Thats toxic as hell. Bdw what’s his age. ? Depending on age some ppl change.

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Anonymous

20 and we r in long distance relationship

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Anonymous

Ohhhh long distance. That explains his insecurity. Still it’s s little too far. Talk to him. Seems like he is just like one of us, major trust issues. If you love him and he js a person who js willing to learn from you how to become secure again and great. Or else don’t waste your time

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Anonymous

He doesn’t listen to me its more like he complains on my behaviour. His words in anger are little abusive . only thing is he stood by me when I was low.
I fear to tell him my feelings because he never understand. I told him to ask me whwenever he can so that we can learn about each other but he doesn’t .

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Anonymous

🚶walk out girl. U deserve someone who would not stop you even if you shaking your ass in front of camera to post it on ALL of the social media. Trust level shud be ultra max pro. 🎉

Yamini @yamini2021

I don’t like him to control my actions thats whats concerning me.

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Anonymous

But he does seem like a bother in need of good mental help :( hope he receives the help he needs and recovers soon :( more power to you

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Anonymous

In a relationship…there will be certain small things that opposite person does not like. Both the parties shud be ready to make small adjustments. But this guy is literally asking you to be only his properly like you don’t have a life of your own ☠️

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Anonymous

Thanku 😟

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Anonymous

Also what concerning me is long distance relationship should have facts like if we get nearer it must be happy but here im thinking about the restrictions he wil further more impose when he comes nearer

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Anonymous

Il tell you what will happen. He will tell you that you aren’t allowed to hang out with your friends. He will ask u password if your phone and keep checking it whenever someone messages. He will mis understand every small friendship of your life. He will demand you meet only him on your off days. By mistake if you go out…u will have to inform biodata of every person who eill be present there. Constant calls asking u to come back home. Scolding you for being a normal person in general. Cz you belong to HIM🥲

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Anonymous

That’s so so so very true he already did some of those when he last came to meet me. That’s what
Has led me to think my decision of breaking up but as I said is it wrong of me to leave him even though he supported me in my hard times.

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Anonymous

Also I wanted to say this I previously messed up initially of our relationship that I attracted towards a guy who was my old friend then I withdraw it realising its wrong maybe that led him insecure but I had proved my trust after that for. 3 long years isn’t that enough to stop doubting me ?

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Anonymous

Three years? Babe that’s way too long. Hopefully u put in all the right efforts to help him understand. I mean I get your point. First of all its such a long duration and secondly he had been by your side. But isn’t that the basic requirement of s partner? To help you through hard times and be there for you? I understand mistakes hsppens by all of us. Does it mean life long he will make u his prisoner. I’m sure even u have been with him in his tough times. Don’t feel guilt. Just think about your future. Can you live sll your life like this? Will you be ready to always be seen as someone who cannot be trusted?

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Anonymous

Certainly not…thank u so much really I needed help on this because its just weaking my mental health.

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Anonymous

We are all here anytime u feel like you need clarity. But please don’t listen to us alone and take decisions 😂 please evaluate everything and then only do. 🫂 All the best

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Anonymous

Sure…you too 😊🤗

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Anonymous

Its My only option left ryt now

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Anonymous

True …thank u
Wishing the same for u

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