Having a long distance relationship is very hard. But my family constantly ask what im doing in the future where am i going to live, they ask so many questions and ik its just bc they r curious but I barely know whats going to happen we have only been dating for 7 months. But everyone expects me to have my life planned out but im only 19. I just wish the questions would stop so i can stop stressing so much bc my parents think im leaving them. 

Adulting

Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I just realized that It's ME that trying to CONTINUING the conversation with him... And he is not interested in me at all...
God!! That hurts... 

One Sided Love

hi, i am 19 years old, i am living in a island with my parents, my uni is in the city but because of the virus i stayed here this year. My problem is erotic, i never had a relationship because my parents didn't want me to have, i was underage and they don't like people to talk about out family, my family has a really good name here. However i am 19 i fell in love with a guy he is 23 and he wants to go out with me but i am afraid, my parents now they don't have a problem for me to have someone but they don't want the people to see me with him. I am feeling pressured i lost many chances with guys because of this. I don't know what to do, i don't like lying but i don't want to talk with them about it because in 3 months i will go to the city. I don't know what to do go out with him and hide it from my parents or tell him i don't want to go out with him. I think i am too afraid for some reason and it makes me sad. What should i do? 

Love

Here is the thing. I broke up with my boyfriend almost year ago because of his continues wrong behavior towards me. We were dating for 2 years. We were very much in love. ( I think we still are )But you don't hurt the person you love right? then I kept ignoring him and kept pushing back for almost 1 and half year because for what he did to me and never forgave him. I was with him in his the baddest situation, I was with him when he had no money. But now he is with another women ( married ) . And now he says to me that he wants to come back to me. Do you all think he should have waited for me ? Or one year is a very long time to wait for the one you love the most? He gave up too soon? ( I don't find anyone interesting now, I don't like any boy, I don't have any crush on anyone ) what's the problem with me? Why I don't find people attractive anymore?

I am the asshole of the highest order.. the idiot of the highest order... I couldn't see!! I couldn't
 see that the person whom I called my bff was just using me.. today he even accepted it by saying that "sorry, from now on I will be in touch.. sorry I just used to talk to you for some work of mine.. but from now on we will be good friends!!" Wow..so the last 4 years were just a lie.. those lies fabricated to use me!! Hell! why didn't I saw it coming? I knew that all my friends left me.. I knew that I don't deserve any friends or any relationship or love in my life but still I had the audacity to call this guy my best friend!! I want to laugh and slap me for that.. it is different that I am just crying for the past an hour... I remembered all those friends who left me.. mocking me or finding someone better but I thought that no, this guy won't do that...  he calls himself my bff and brother...
He used to call me once for some advice or work and vanish after that for months... I used to think fine, he is in college, I am a dropper, he is busy... but he never used to even text me.. even then I the asshole didn't find it bad, I was an idiot and thought myself to be understanding.... 
Fuck..I thought someone was there for me amidst a toxic family and lonely life.. only to discover that I only had some sand in my hand..why didn't I saw that coming... why did I think for a  single moment that someone wants me in his life...
The whole past 4 years just got declared as a lie.. I used to think sometimes that am I getting used..but refuted the thought... ohh idiocy!! 
Life lessons are so hard..such a tight slap on my face...but now I would remember .. my aukaat and my limits- that human relations are not for me.. I won't even go near them.. love and friendships are good things but I am too fragile and handicapped now to handle them..it is better not to tough glass jars than to break them.. holy shit!! what an asshole I am.. 

I just want now the whole world to laugh at my face or put a case against me and leave me in some jail for life...


Friends

Ok so i talked with this guy every day for months and thoda adat bhi hogaya but now he doesn’t  just text like i feel all this was fake and feel sad that he doesn’t like me the way i do 


How do I come out as ace? I knew a guy from work who I really liked. A couple weeks ago he himself approached and i couldn't believe what was happening. We went out for a few drinks and started to talk about what are our likes and dislikes and we hit it off really well. I told my friends about this and one of them joked about taking precaution meds. From that moment onwards I have been thinking a lot about what I was doing. I've ever since constantly been feeling that I don't deserve to be in a relationship with anyone because at the end of the day every human male or female has needs that I couldn't fulfill. I've been ignoring him as much as possible and he knows somethings wrong and has been constantly asking me what's going on. How do I go about it, how do I tell him the real reason why I can't be with him? I really like the guy and I am afraid I'd lose him the moment I come out. Help! 

Coming Out

hey guys ... reaching out to all the lovely people out here....
so i am this girl who has her male best friends (2) of them.. and the situation here is that right now at this point of life ... one of them is in a relationship(name him A) and the other guy is single (name him B)
so here is the thing A and i share a very good friendship and what happened today was something out of the blue there was a fight between him and his girlfriend because of me ( i wonder how i land up in such situations )
and the other friend B has a lot of fan following everywhere and since i am his close friend .. people cant digest the fact and some of his female friends are super jealous of me LOL.. i mean 
so yeah i just wanted to share this somewhere.... so here i go.....


I am very much confused..i am in a relationship for almost 3 years..i am 3 rd year student,i started my relationship in 1 st yr itself..just by chatting for 3 months. I didn't think about him initially...the daily chats were good..i Dont know what is love at that time. Is anyone there to hear??

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