Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

share your deepest feelings and emotions in a safe and supportive environment.

⚕️Depression

🧑Anxiety

😰Stress

💗Relationships

Create Thought

Now&Me ActivitiesThought

Profile picture for Now&Me member @nowandme

Now&Me @nowandme

Have you ever seen an Indian talking openly about sex? 👀
No? Well, Now&Me is here to break the social stigma.

Yes, you heard it right; we are coming up with something exciting.

Fasten your seatbelts, everyone, because we are doing an AMA with our expert, Gaurav Ramani, on the topic “Sex Education.”

Gaurav Ramani is a passionate educator, life coach, and Now&Me expert. His background in counseling psychology has paved various paths for him while helping him hone his skills in the areas of relationships, career issues, self-awareness, and time management, to name a few.

Often seen meeting new people or deep inside the world of arts and crafts, Gaurav believes learning never stops; it can be seen everywhere and in anything.

So, get all your queries and doubts answered. Drop your questions in the comment box by 17th June and our expert will respond to them on 18th June.

So, what are you waiting for? See you in the comment section! 🤠

🌁
🏙
🌄
Profile picture for Now&Me member @aiena
🌆
🌇
Profile picture for Now&Me member @gaurav_ramani
🎠
53 replies
🌁
Anonymous

Does masterbating before marriage have effect on babies? I heard something like if you masterbate more there’ll be a effect on babies after marriage?

This thought has been deleted by the thought author
Profile picture for Now&Me member @gaurav_ramani

Gaurav R. @gaurav_ramani

Hello friend,
Excessive masturbation affects the quality and count of your sperm. The impact on your baby depends on individual habits.

However, excess of anything turns harmful.!

We may connect over one to one for detailed understanding :)

This thought has been deleted by the thought author
This thought has been deleted by the thought author
🏙
Anonymous

Does masturbsting daily causes erectile dysfunction? Just a general q. too many myths about masturbation

Profile picture for Now&Me member @gaurav_ramani

Gaurav R. @gaurav_ramani

Hey there,
It may not cause erectile dysfunction but may have other negative impacts on the body.!

Hope that helps:) please feel free to connect for any personal concerns over one on one chat.!

Take care:)

🌄
Anonymous

I don’t know how this might sound, but is it possible to have a relationship without sex? It honestly seems like I can’t even get in any relationship because according to where I’m coming from, or from my point of view, being a survivor of abuse, I do fear it. I fear being around people and what’s strange is that I want to be able to have a relationship someday, but the whole aspect of it seems scary to me.

Profile picture for Now&Me member @gaurav_ramani

Gaurav R. @gaurav_ramani

Hey dear,
Hope, you’re doing to the best of your possibilities. I’m sorry to hear about the abuse that you had to go through :(

However, a relationship is not only about physical intimacy. It is way beyond that.
Take it slow, explore gradually & don’t force yourself anything.!

Please free to connect personally.!

Take care :)

🌄
Anonymous

It’s just scary to imagine being around people in itself for me, let alone a relationship, but I want to be able to heal to the extent that maybe one day I could be with someone without my irrational fears. I want to give myself a chance to maybe love myself before thinking of loving someone else.

Profile picture for Now&Me member @gaurav_ramani

Gaurav R. @gaurav_ramani

Hey, I think you might have some history or background to it, would you lilke to connect to discuss personally?

Profile picture for Now&Me member @aiena

Anant Singh @aiena

Aare keval yahi to mai now and me par karta hu, should I consider myself an "Expert "

🌆
Anonymous

How to overcome the shame and fear of sex. I can’t sext and even the thought of getting intimate with a guy , scares me . How can I overcome this shame and fear ?

🌃
Anonymous

Just don’t get fear first even i was also like you but now it’s okay…

Profile picture for Now&Me member @gaurav_ramani

Gaurav R. @gaurav_ramani

Heyyy,
You don’t need to force yourself to be physically intimate with someone of engage in behaviours like sexting. Take it slow, when you feel comfortable, gradually get into it step by step.

For personal discussions, we may connect over one on one chat.

Take care :)

🌇
Anonymous

does chemotherapy really make a person infertile??

Profile picture for Now&Me member @gaurav_ramani

Gaurav R. @gaurav_ramani

Hello dear,
As per research chemotherapy seems to have some effect on the production of worms. However, it is totally subjective to the individual’s health with respect to the effect.

Hope that gives you a clarity :)

This thought has been deleted by the thought author
Anonymous

Why couldn’t i react when a person is trying to have a physical intimacy with me and what are the reasons for it and please help me in knowing how to avoid it

Profile picture for Now&Me member @gaurav_ramani

Gaurav R. @gaurav_ramani

Hey,
Physical intimacy may be different for each one of us and so thus the reactions or response to it.

Avoiding not responding to it might be suppressing your true instincts or forging something.

Hope, that makes it clear.!

Anonymous

Sorry i didn’t understand can u please make it clear

🎠
Anonymous

Why do people support mental illness when it’s relate to sexs ?

🎡
Anonymous

Nopezz

🎢
Anonymous

I’ve always been curious about how do FtM people have sex like how do neopeepee works is it like actual peepee does it get hard so many questions 😅

Profile picture for Now&Me member @gaurav_ramani

Gaurav R. @gaurav_ramani

Hey,
Sex may not be always about penetration or inter course. Each one has different way of seeking pleasure through sex by performing different acts.!

So it differs for each one of us :)

💈
Anonymous

Sir size ksa bda kiya jaye

Profile picture for Now&Me member @gaurav_ramani

Gaurav R. @gaurav_ramani

Size se jyada yadi aap stamina aur duration pe focus krenge to behtar hoga 😃

🎪
Anonymous

I am married for around 3 years now. I don’t have kids yet. But i have cheated on my husband once with one of my colleague. We had sex thrice and we stopped meeting. I have blocked him everywhere. But after this incident I have lost interest , i don’t feel attracted to my husband anymore even though I feel guilty on cheating on him

🌃
Anonymous

Kyu ji apke expectations pr apke husband khare nahi utre…

This thought has been deleted by the thought author
This thought has been deleted by the thought author
🌃
Anonymous

Wo to men aur women dono pr depend krta hai ki wo apne sex feelings ko kaise control krte hai…

This thought has been deleted by the thought author
🌃
Anonymous

Nahi ji har men waise nahi hote ab gine chune hote hai lekin sab nahi hote…

This thought has been deleted by the thought author
🌃
Anonymous

No i dont what about you.

This thought has been deleted by the thought author
Profile picture for Now&Me member @gaurav_ramani

Gaurav R. @gaurav_ramani

Hey,
Thanks a million tons for your appreciation and kind words.

Means a lot :)

This thought has been deleted by the thought author
Profile picture for Now&Me member @gaurav_ramani

Gaurav R. @gaurav_ramani

Hey, definitely. We can come up with AMA on these topics as well
Thank you for your feedback :)

This thought has been deleted by the thought author
@rich_potato

Hy if someone can help me in this odd topic pls reply

Profile picture for Now&Me member @gaurav_ramani

Gaurav R. @gaurav_ramani

Hey there,
How would you like me to help you?

@rich_potato

I have done unsafe sx nd cummed inside…nd after one hour she took a pill unwanted 72…is it effective?

Profile picture for Now&Me member @gaurav_ramani

Gaurav R. @gaurav_ramani

Hey,
To be honest, I’m not sure of the pill that she has taken. It would be apt if you consult the right person (chemist or someone from the medical field).

@rich_potato

Anyone who can answer i m too much tensed

🚃
Anonymous

Bro how to increase duration , is it really bad if somebody cum in less than 30 seconds

Profile picture for Now&Me member @gaurav_ramani

Gaurav R. @gaurav_ramani

Hey,
No offence, but less than 30 seconds is really too less.! Could even be premature ejaculation.

You could work on stamina or get it checked once .!

@calm_glass_2

Hi

Profile picture for Now&Me member @gaurav_ramani

Gaurav R. @gaurav_ramani

Hey

@humble_animal_3

Hhjhj

🚄
Anonymous

Kyu dhanda h kya

user_group_img

8494 users have benefited
from FREE CHAT last month

Start Free Chat
start_free_chat_cta_image