Have you ever felt alone and lonely even when you have people around you? Have you had friends, where you feel they only listen to you cause they have to and not cuz they want to? I am in such a situation where I have people around but no one to lean on.
happens a lot when there are lot of people to call friends but no one too close to cherish every moment with and open up completely.
I don’t know what to do and I know self love and all helps and comes a long way but at this point I feel worthless and I just am living this life for the sake of it
Being alone has no relationship with feeling worthless, I also have to many friends but sometimes feel all alone, its not that i can not call and talk to them but there is an emptiness within.
I would suggest please don’t overthink, we all feel like this. I was feeling emptiness today and thats why logged into this platform to either support someone who is in needed or have general discussion.
But am i worthless? not at all. Are you worthless? not at all.
That’s what I mean. It’s not like I can control my overthinking. Ik everybody feels this way at some point but it’s just been lately that I am feeling this everyday
and I am sure it is affecting your self confidence too then.
It definitely is. I used to workout at the gym and it actually gave me a lot of confidence about myself but for the past three weeks I couldn’t do it properly cuz of a shoulder injury and some people in my life chose to leave and funny thing is that Yeah I know i shouldn’t care about what people say but I don’t know how to not care about what our friends say when they leave. All this disturbed me alot.
can sense that, I recently started gyming, would you mind to give me few tips and how to do it properly ?
Secondly, its hard to accept but people do leave very easily these days without guilt, you have to accept. days are gone when friends were for life. Only very few lucky one gets.
I too realised this after lot of struggle. And caring comes natural to us, and so does the overthinking. But you have accept the fact people leave sooner or later.
Well connect with me cause I can give u some educated tips cause I shud ask some questions before giving u the tips.
And also the thing is that I am okay with people leaving cuz I learnt it the hard way that people can leave anytime but my point is I just can’t pretend that it doesn’t matter if they leave but people do it so effortlessly like they leave as if it doesn’t matter and that’s what baffles me
Will add you bro, I am from website and its not letting me connect, will download the app and connect with you.
its because of this online era, its so easy to make friends and its so easy to lose and make new one.
Yeah cool bro. Just send a req and I will answer u ASAP.
And people don’t value permanent things. People assume everybody are temporary and no one’s ready to have some last longing bonds.
and those who are not like this, change themselves and become like this.