Guys what do you think about this matter? Well, so there is this co-worker of mine. We are very close. Today after work I decided to staybin office and do my homework before going back home. He left but after 15 minutes he called me and chatted with me for a while. What does that mean?! Why would he call me when he met me few minutes before? 

Aditya Sahu

He/she likes you I guess or wanted to chat with you 

lifeChanger!!

Confusion

So, I have this friend. I call him every single day and we're always talking and we enjoy each other's presence a lot. We always hug, and we both think of each other as the cutest people in our friend group. We're both sort of obsessed with each other, there doesn't go a day where I don't at least call him but we always try to hangout in real life, but ever since this whole corona thing it has been hard. So we've just both been posting about how much we love the other on our spam accounts, messaging each other daily, etc, and... I've had feelings for him before all of this, but I can't help but wonder if he feels the same...? We call each other the love of our lives, and soulmates, and we always tell each other we love each other... We've been friends for five years, knowing each other since he was 12 and I was 14... I honestly can't tell at this point if it's just us being close friends but literally as soon as I wake up I talk to him, and he does the same when he wakes up and then we fall asleep on call together. Is it normal for friends to be this preoccupied with each other? Am I imagining that he could possibly feel the same...? I really like him, but even though we're always talking to each other and we always hug we're both awkward at talking about our emotions and how we truly feel. I'm just so confused.

Crush

So i couldn't love someone truly or passionately even after 6 months. But that person loves me to much. I just wanted to leave even i realised that but that relationship was left on bad note . I wanna be good person again don't wanna mess things up . I tried my best to fall in love with him . I just couldn't . All my efforts are in drain. I just don't know what to do . I really feel like giving up on myself completely . I feel guilty and dead from inside. I really tried my best but I couldn't do it completely. I know what loving someone deeply means like but i can't be like that anymore . Cause one of my ex boyfriend cheated on me . Obviously I didn't cheated on him but I couldn't love him completely. Either give me some solution or should I punish myself. 

3am Thoughts

I got out of a long term relationship, I decided to take a step a back. I decided on not talking to guys for a while n just take things slow. But after sometime I actually started talking to guy. He was so sweet and had same interests as me. He's an upcoming actor but since we went to same high school we just started chatting. We even facetimed each other n talked for a couple of hours. 
But i don't know why but I got scared. I stopped texting him. He had this role in a series and I was waiting like crazy to see him perform but I chickened out and just didn't text him. Months later, when I was sure of myself I texted him, but he didn't seem like he was interested in talking to me so I let him be. But till date I miss him. I wish I could do something to clear the air but I guess what's done is done.

He's a real nice guy! Hope he finds a great girl

i feel so alone. me and my boyfriend of 1 year and almost 3 months broke up earlier this month. he was toxic and everyone told me he was. i ignored all the red flags because i loved him and i still do. i can’t let go of him. he has already moved on from me in less than 2 weeks after we broke up. i am so emotionally attached to him and i can’t learn to let him go. he acted like i meant nothing to him. i just don’t understand how he could move on so fast 
after all the time we spent together. i am so lost and confused. it hurts so l much to see him with someone else. i don’t know how i can go on without him even though he treated me so bad. everyone says that i am strong for leaving but i don’t feel strong at all. can anyone help me?

Breakup

I miss my ex so much. He has no idea how much damage he has caused. This is unfair. 

June 1, 2022

So there’s this guy... We met more than a month ago. We were getting along and were enjoying each other’s company. Until one day, he admitted that he likes me and wants to pursue me, and being someone who likes to say, "Why not?" for the chance of experience, I agreed. Things escalated like that, with him being sweet, understanding, patient, (can I say that he’s smart?) and with every green flag available, he raised and waved. I also opened up to him about my oath to myself of not getting into a relationship until I became independent and stable. He’s all for it. He’s willing to wait. And so he asked me if I could trust him and wait with him. I said yes, but was already perplexed internally. Slowly, I got this feeling of pressure. The dilemma starts here. It’s just that it feels... surreal and quick? I mean, he always puts forth the effort to let me know where I stand, and I do appreciate it. I really do. I do like him too. That was why I agreed when he asked me out in the first place. However, eventually, I feel that I can’t reciprocate the same strong feelings as he does. It worries me and it makes me feel guilty, since I know that somehow, I am responsible for what he feels. Also, I was open about this with him and we even discussed it again last night, but you know what, every time? He’d reassure me that he understands and he’s not pressuring me, and that no matter how much of a mess I am, he will help me untangle it. However, I still feel confused, unprepared, and guilty. What to do?


Conflict

I'm a daughter of divorced parents. I've been dating for 3 years now. My partner had always wanted me to stay with his parents after marriage. He had also explained how good his parents are. 
I met his parents recently and did not like them as they spoke only about my parents divorce, and insisted we hide about it and not tell anyone in the family, asked who will give money to my mom for survival, what happens once my grandmother dies, your mom will be alone. Your parents are divorced, are you sure about marrying my son, we are worried what may happen considering your background.

After hearing to them, I felt that they are treating me bad and did not even try to understand who I am and that my parents past doesn't define my present. 

Now I do not want to live with them after marriage but my parentner is against it. Am I thinking right or am I making a mistake?


Marriage

I stay with my boyfriend and thing which i am feeling is insecurity and lack of communication and seriously i don't have topic to talk and he even don't talk much. I don't know why am i feeling this way, i really don't like this kind of feeling and i am a depression patient too, my boyfriend talks with his sister daily for longer hours and somewhere i feel i am failed as a gf.. I am too bad i feel, seriously i don't know what should i do ? 

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